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We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.
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Oscar Wilde (Lady Windermere's Fan)
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All that we see or seem is but a dream within a dream.
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Edgar Allan Poe
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The more I see, the less I know for sure.
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John Lennon
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Every act of perception, is to some degree an act of creation, and every act of memory is to some degree an act of imagination.
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Oliver Sacks (Musicophilia: La musique, le cerveau et nous)
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The outer world is a reflection of the inner world. Other peopleβs perception of you is a reflection of them; your response to them is an awareness of you.
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Roy T. Bennett (The Light in the Heart)
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Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.
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C.G. Jung
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If the doors of perception were cleansed every thing would appear to man as it is, Infinite. For man has closed himself up, till he sees all things thro' narrow chinks of his cavern.
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William Blake (The Marriage of Heaven and Hell)
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The world is full of magic things, patiently waiting for our senses to grow sharper.
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W.B. Yeats
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Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough.
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Oprah Winfrey
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Humans see what they want to see.
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Rick Riordan (The Lightning Thief (Percy Jackson and the Olympians, #1))
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There are things known and there are things unknown, and in between are the doors of perception.
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Aldous Huxley
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What you see and what you hear depends a great deal on where you are standing. It also depends on what sort of person you are.
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C.S. Lewis (The Magicianβs Nephew (Chronicles of Narnia, #6))
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There's nothing more embarrassing than to have earned the disfavor of a perceptive animal.
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Michael Chabon (Wonder Boys)
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Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.
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Wayne W. Dyer
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Because one believes in oneself, one doesn't try to convince others. Because one is content with oneself, one doesn't need others' approval. Because one accepts oneself, the whole world accepts him or her.
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Lao Tzu
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The limits of my language means the limits of my world.
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Ludwig Wittgenstein
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Songs are as sad as the listener.
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Jonathan Safran Foer (Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close)
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Everyone looks retarded once you set your mind to it.
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David Sedaris
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All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth.
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Friedrich Nietzsche
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Closed in a room, my imagination becomes the universe, and the rest of the world is missing out.
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Criss Jami (Diotima, Battery, Electric Personality)
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We sit silently and watch the world around us. This has taken a lifetime to learn. It seems only the old are able to sit next to one another and not say anything and still feel content. The young, brash and impatient, must always break the silence. It is a waste, for silence is pure. Silence is holy. It draws people together because only those who are comfortable with each other can sit without speaking. This is the great paradox.
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Nicholas Sparks (The Notebook)
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Every man takes the limits of his own field of vision for the limits of the world.
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Arthur Schopenhauer (Studies in Pessimism: The Essays)
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Most misunderstandings in the world could be avoided if people would simply take the time to ask, "What else could this mean?
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Shannon L. Alder
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The eye sees only what the mind is prepared to comprehend.
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Robertson Davies (Tempest-Tost (Salterton Trilogy, #1))
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No man has the right to dictate what other men should perceive, create or produce, but all should be encouraged to reveal themselves, their perceptions and emotions, and to build confidence in the creative spirit.
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Ansel Adams
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Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears.
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Marcus Aurelius (Meditations)
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To change ourselves effectively, we first had to change our perceptions.
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Stephen R. Covey (The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change)
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Forgiveness has nothing to do with absolving a criminal of his crime. It has everything to do with relieving oneself of the burden of being a victim--letting go of the pain and transforming oneself from victim to survivor.
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C.R. Strahan
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One of the symptoms of an approaching nervous breakdown is the belief that oneβs work is terribly important.
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Bertrand Russell (The Conquest of Happiness)
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How I would enjoy being told the novel is dead. How liberating to work in the margins, outside a central perception. You are the ghoul of literature.
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Don DeLillo (The Names)
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For art to exist, for any sort of aesthetic activity or perception to exist, a certain physiological precondition is indispensable: intoxication.
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Friedrich Nietzsche
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We gaze continually at the world and it grows dull in our perceptions. Yet seen from another's vantage point, as if new, it may still take the breath away.
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Alan Moore (Watchmen)
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We must not allow other peopleβs limited perceptions to define us.
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Virginia Satir
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Beauty is no quality in things themselves: It exists merely in the mind which contemplates them; and each mind perceives a different beauty.
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David Hume (Of the Standard of Taste and Other Essays)
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The most perfidious way of harming a cause consists of defending it deliberately with faulty arguments.
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Friedrich Nietzsche
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If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is - infinite.
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William Blake
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I believe I am in Hell, therefore I am.
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Arthur Rimbaud
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It's all in the mind.
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George Harrison
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What people in the world think of you is really none of your business.
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Martha Graham
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The difference between how you look and how you see yourself is enough to kill most people. And maybe the reason vampires donβt die is because they can never see themselves in photographs or mirrors.
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Chuck Palahniuk (Haunted)
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No matter how people try to dispute it, perception is reality. Its what you choose to believe that makes you the person you are.
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Karen Marie Moning
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It is the function of art to renew our perception. What we are familiar with we cease to see. The writer shakes up the familiar scene, and, as if by magic, we see a new meaning in it.
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AnaΓ―s Nin
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If I make a fool of myself, who cares? I'm not frightened by anyone's perception of me.
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Angelina Jolie
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You used," he said, and then took a sharp breath, "to call me Augustus.
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John Green (The Fault in Our Stars)
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Everything is created twice, first in the mind and then in reality.
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Robin S. Sharma (The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari: A Fable About Fulfilling Your Dreams and Reaching Your Destiny)
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Chaos is merely order waiting to be deciphered.
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JosΓ© Saramago (The Double)
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There is no truth. There is only perception.
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Gustave Flaubert
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The older you get, the more you understand how your conscience works. The biggest and only critic lives in your perception of people's perception of you rather than people's perception of you.
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Criss Jami (Killosophy)
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Life is 10 percent what you make it
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Irving Berlin
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All our knowledge has its origin in our perceptions
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Leonardo da Vinci
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Power is an illusion of perception.
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Brandon Sanderson (Words of Radiance (The Stormlight Archive, #2))
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Everything looks beautiful. The Book of Shhh says that deliria alters your perception, disables your ability to reason clearly, impairs you from making sound judgments. But it does not tell you this: that love will turn the whole world into something greater than itself.
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Lauren Oliver (Delirium (Delirium, #1))
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We see the world, not as it is, but as we areββor, as we are conditioned to see it.
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Stephen R. Covey (The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change)
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Just because love don't look the way you think it should, don't mean you don't have it.
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Leslye Walton (The Strange and Beautiful Sorrows of Ava Lavender)
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Once you've seen how broken someone is it's like seeing them nakedβyou can't look at them the same anymore.
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Angie Thomas (The Hate U Give (The Hate U Give, #1))
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There is no good or bad without us, there is only perception. There is the event itself and the story we tell ourselves about what it means.
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Ryan Holiday (The Daily Stoic Journal: 366 Days of Writing and Reflection on the Art of Living)
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Two people can see the same thing, disagree, and yet both be right. It's not logical; it's psychological.
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Stephen R. Covey (The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change)
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Cal had been waiting for us at the pond. When heβd seen me, heβd given me a barely perceptible nod, which was the Cal version of waving his hands over his head and yelling, βHey, Sophie!
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Rachel Hawkins (Demonglass (Hex Hall, #2))
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Some people see a magic trick and say, βImpossible!β They clap their hands, turn over their money, and forget about it ten minutes later. Other people ask how it worked. They go home, get into bed, toss and turn, wondering how it was done. It takes them a good nightβs sleep to forget all about it. And then there are the ones who stay awake, running through the trick again and again, looking for that skip in perception, the crack in the illusion that will explain how their eyes got duped; theyβre the kind who wonβt rest until theyβve mastered that little bit of mystery for themselves. Iβm that kind.β
βYou love trickery.β
βI love puzzles. Trickery is just my native tongue.
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Leigh Bardugo (Six of Crows (Six of Crows, #1))
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A European says: I can't understand this, what's wrong with me? An American says: I can't understand this, what's wrong with him?
I make no suggestion that one side or other is right, but observation over many years leads me to believe it is true.
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Terry Pratchett
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Hereβs what I think: the only reason Iβm not ordinary is that no one else sees me that way.
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R.J. Palacio (Wonder (Wonder, #1))
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Dream delivers us to dream, and there is no end to illusion. Life is like a train of moods like a string of beads, and, as we pass through them, they prove to be many-colored lenses which paint the world their own hue. . . .
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Ralph Waldo Emerson
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The optimist sees the doughnut, the pessimist sees the hole.
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McLandburgh Wilson
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Maybe each human being lives in a unique world, a private world different from those inhabited and experienced by all other humans. . . If reality differs from person to person, can we speak of reality singular, or shouldn't we really be talking about plural realities? And if there are plural realities, are some more true (more real) than others? What about the world of a schizophrenic? Maybe it's as real as our world. Maybe we cannot say that we are in touch with reality and he is not, but should instead say, His reality is so different from ours that he can't explain his to us, and we can't explain ours to him. The problem, then, is that if subjective worlds are experienced too differently, there occurs a breakdown in communication ... and there is the real illness.
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Philip K. Dick
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You can never know if a person forgives you when you wrong them. Therefore it is existentially important to you. It is a question you are intensely concerned with. Neither can you know whether a person loves you. Itβs something you just have to believe or hope. But these things are more important to you than the fact that the sum of the angles in a triangle is 180 degrees. You don't think about the law of cause and effect or about modes of perception when you are in the middle of your first kiss.
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Jostein Gaarder (Sophie's World: A Novel About the History of Philosophy)
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People are a lot more knowable than they think they are.
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Sally Rooney (Normal People)
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We know so little about one another. We embrace a shadow and love a dream.
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Hjalmar SΓΆderberg (Doctor Glas)
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The wise do not buy into other peopleβs perceptions of who they are and what they are capable of. Instead, they bypass a personβs public persona and see who they are in their highest expression. When you see actions taken with integrity, instead of words only, you will then know a soulβs worth.
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Oh, that," said the king with a shrug. "That isn't your honor, Costis. That's the public perception of your honor. It has nothing to do with anything important, except perhaps for manipulating fools who mistake honor for its bright, shiny trappings. You can always change the perceptions of fools.
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Megan Whalen Turner (The King of Attolia (The Queen's Thief, #3))
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Fathers never have exactly the daughters they want because they invent a notion a them that the daughters have to conform to.
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Simone de Beauvoir (The Woman Destroyed)
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The fact is that we have no way of knowing if the person who we think we are is at the core of our being. Are you a decent girl with the potential to someday become an evil monster, or are you an evil monster that thinks it's a decent girl?"
"Wouldn't I know which one I was?"
"Good God, no. The lies we tell other people are nothing to the lies we tell ourselves.
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Derek Landy (Death Bringer (Skulduggery Pleasant, #6))
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Always focus on the front windshield and not the review mirror.
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Colin Powell
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Have you ever been in love? Horrible, isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses. You build up this whole armor, for years, so nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life⦠You give them a piece of you. They don't ask for it. They do something dumb one day like kiss you, or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so a simple phrase like "maybe we should just be friends" or "how very perceptive" turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a body-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. Nothing should be able to do that. Especially not love. I hate love.
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Neil Gaiman (The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones)
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We live together, we act on, and react to, one another; but always and in all circumstances we are by ourselves. The martyrs go hand in hand into the arena; they are crucified alone. Embraced, the lovers desperately try to fuse their insulated ecstasies into a single self-transcendence; in vain. By its very nature every embodied spirit is doomed to suffer and enjoy in solitude. Sensations, feelings, insights, fanciesβall these are private and, except through symbols and at second hand, incommunicable. We can pool information about experiences, but never the experiences themselves. From family to nation, every human group is a society of island universes.
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Aldous Huxley (The Doors of Perception)
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Persons appear to us according to the light we throw upon them from our own minds. -Laura Ingalls Wilder, author (1867-1957)
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Laura Ingalls Wilder
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Somewhere between love and hate lies confusion, misunderstanding and desperate hope.
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Shannon L. Alder
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I really would like to stop working foreverβnever work again, never do anything like the kind of work Iβm doing nowβand do nothing but write poetry and have leisure to spend the day outdoors and go to museums and see friends. And Iβd like to keep living with someone β maybe even a man β and explore relationships that way. And cultivate my perceptions, cultivate the visionary thing in me. Just a literary and quiet city-hermit existence.
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Humans are pattern-seeking story-telling animals, and we are quite adept at telling stories about patterns, whether they exist or not.
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Michael Shermer
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...What happens is of little significance compared with the stories we tell ourselves about what happens. Events matter little, only stories of events affect us.
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Rabih Alameddine (The Hakawati)
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Always think of what is useful and not what is beautiful. Beauty will come of its own accord.
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Nikolai Gogol
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While there is perhaps a province in which the photograph can tell us nothing more than what we see with our own eyes, there is another in which it proves to us how little our eyes permit us to see.
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If we wish to know about a man, we ask 'what is his story--his real, inmost story?'--for each of us is a biography, a story. Each of us is a singular narrative, which is constructed, continually, unconsciously, by, through, and in us--through our perceptions, our feelings, our thoughts, our actions; and, not least, our discourse, our spoken narrations. Biologically, physiologically, we are not so different from each other; historically, as narratives--we are each of us unique.
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Oliver Sacks (The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat and Other Clinical Tales)
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The man who comes back through the Door in the Wall will never be quite the same as the man who went out. He will be wiser but less sure, happier but less self-satisfied, humbler in acknowledging his ignorance yet better equipped to understand the relationship of words to things, of systematic reasoning to the unfathomable mystery which it tries, forever vainly, to comprehend
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Aldous Huxley (The Doors of Perception)
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My feelings are not God. God is God. My feelings do not define truth. Godβs word defines truth. My feelings are echoes and responses to what my mind perceives. And sometimes - many times - my feelings are out of sync with the truth. When that happens - and it happens every day in some measure - I try not to bend the truth to justify my imperfect feelings, but rather, I plead with God: Purify my perceptions of your truth and transform my feelings so that they are in sync with the truth.
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John Piper (Finally Alive)
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Listen to the trees as they sway in the wind.
Their leaves are telling secrets. Their bark sings songs of olden days as it grows around the trunks. And their roots give names to all things.
Their language has been lost.
But not the gestures.
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Vera Nazarian (The Perpetual Calendar of Inspiration)
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I squat there and think about how you get trained early on as a woman to perceive how others are perceiving you, at the great expense of what you yourself are feeling about them. Sometimes you mix the two up in a terrible tangle thatβs hard to unravel.
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Lily King (Writers & Lovers)
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Om is not just a sound or vibration. It is not just a symbol. It is the entire cosmos, whatever we can see, touch, hear and feel. Moreover, it is all that is within our perception and all that is beyond our perception. It is the core of our very existence. If you think of Om only as a sound, a technique or a symbol of the Divine, you will miss it altogether. Om is the mysterious cosmic energy that is the substratum of all the things and all the beings of the entire universe. It is an eternal song of the Divine. It is continuously resounding in silence on the background of everything that exists.
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Amit Ray (Om Chanting and Meditation)
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Thermodynamic miracles... events with odds against so astronomical they're effectively impossible, like oxygen spontaneously becoming gold. I long to observe such a thing.
And yet, in each human coupling, a thousand million sperm vie for a single egg. Multiply those odds by countless generations, against the odds of your ancestors being alive; meeting; siring this precise son; that exact daughter... Until your mother loves a man she has every reason to hate, and of that union, of the thousand million children competing for fertilization, it was you, only you, that emerged. To distill so specific a form from that chaos of improbability, like turning air to gold... that is the crowning unlikelihood. The thermodynamic miracle.
But...if me, my birth, if that's a thermodynamic miracle... I mean, you could say that about anybody in the world!.
Yes. Anybody in the world. ..But the world is so full of people, so crowded with these miracles that they become commonplace and we forget... I forget. We gaze continually at the world and it grows dull in our perceptions. Yet seen from the another's vantage point. As if new, it may still take our breath away. Come...dry your eyes. For you are life, rarer than a quark and unpredictable beyond the dreams of Heisenberg; the clay in which the forces that shape all things leave their fingerprints most clearly. Dry your eyes... and let's go home.
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Alan Moore (Watchmen)
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It's just that you're about to do something out of the ordinary. And after you do something like that, the everyday look of things might seem to change a little. Things may look different to you than they did before. But don't let appearances fool you. There's always only one reality.
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Haruki Murakami (1Q84 (1Q84, #1-3))
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Monotony collapses time; novelty unfolds it. You can exercise daily and eat healthily and live a long life, while experiencing a short one. If you spend your life sitting in a cubicle and passing papers, one day is bound to blend unmemorably into the next - and disappear. That's why it's so important to change routines regularly, and take vacations to exotic locales, and have as many new experiences as possible that can serve to anchor our memories. Creating new memories stretches out psychological time, and lengthens our perception of our lives.
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Joshua Foer (Moonwalking with Einstein: The Art and Science of Remembering Everything)
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We have learned that trauma is not just an event that took place sometime in the past; it is also the imprint left by that experience on mind, brain, and body. This imprint has ongoing consequences for how the human organism manages to survive in the present. Trauma results in a fundamental reorganization of the way mind and brain manage perceptions. It changes not only how we think and what we think about, but also our very capacity to think.
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Bessel van der Kolk (The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma)
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You know what, sometimes it seems to me we're living in a world that we fabricate for ourselves. We decide what's good and what isn't, we draw maps of meanings for ourselves... And then we spend our whole lives struggling with what we have invented for ourselves. The problem is that each of us has our own version of it, so people find it hard to understand each other.
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Olga Tokarczuk (Drive Your Plow Over the Bones of the Dead)
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I saw in their eyes something I was to see over and over in every part of the nation- a burning desire to go, to move, to get under way, anyplace, away from any Here. They spoke quietly of how they wanted to go someday, to move about, free and unanchored, not toward something but away from something. I saw this look and heard this yearning everywhere in every states I visited. Nearly every American hungers to move.
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John Steinbeck (Travels with Charley: In Search of America)
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This is the Manifesto of Little Monster
There is something heroic about the way my fans operate their cameras. So precisely, so intricately and so proudly. Like Kings writing the history of their people, is their prolific nature that both creates and procures what will later be percieved as the kingdom. So the real truth about Lady Gaga fans, my little monsters, lies in this sentiment: They are the Kings. They are the Queens. They write the hisory of the kingdom and I am something of a devoted Jester. It is in the theory of perception that we have established our bond, or the lie I should say, for which we kill. We are nothing without our image. Without our projection. Without the spiritual hologram of who we percieve ourselves to be or rather to become, in the future.
When you are lonely,
I will be lonely too.
And this is the fame.
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Forget what hurt you in the past, but never forget what it taught you. However, if it taught you to hold onto grudges, seek revenge, not forgive or show compassion, to categorize people as good or bad, to distrust and be guarded with your feelings then you didnβt learn a thing. God doesnβt bring you lessons to close your heart. He brings you lessons to open it, by developing compassion, learning to listen, seeking to understand instead of speculating, practicing empathy and developing conflict resolution through communication. If he brought you perfect people, how would you ever learn to spiritually evolve?
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Shannon L. Alder
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Maybe from as early as when you're five or six, there's been a whisper going at the back of your head, saying: βOne day, maybe not so long from now, you'll get to know how it feels.β So you're waiting, even if you don't quite know it, waiting for the moment when you realise that you really are different to them; that there are people out there, like Madame, who don't hate you or wish you any harm, but who nevertheless shudder at the very thought of you β of how you were brought into this world and why β and who dread the idea of your hand brushing against theirs. The first time you glimpse yourself through the eyes of a person like that, it's a cold moment. It's like walking past a mirror you've walked past every day of your life, and suddenly it shows you something else, something troubling and strange.
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Kazuo Ishiguro (Never Let Me Go)
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You differ from a great man in only one respect: the great man was once a very little man, but he developed one important quality: he recognized the smallness and narrowness of his thoughts and actions. Under the pressure of some task that meant a great deal to him, he learned to see how his smallness, his pettiness endangered his happiness. In other words, a great man knows when and in what way he is a little man. A little man does not know he is little and is afraid to know. He hides his pettiness and narrowness behind illusions of strength and greatness, someone else's strength and greatness. He's proud of his great generals but not of himself. He admires an idea he has not had, not one he has had. The less he understands something, the more firmly he believes in it. And the better he understands an idea, the less he believes in it.
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Wilhelm Reich (Listen, Little Man!)
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At times I feel as if I had lived all this before and that I have already written these very words, but I know it was not I: it was another woman, who kept her notebooks so that one day I could use them. I write, she wrote, that memory is fragile and the space of a single life is brief, passing so quickly that we never get a chance to see the relationship between events; we cannot gauge the consequences of our acts, and we believe in the fiction of past, present, and future, but it may also be true that everything happens simultaneously. ... That's why my Grandmother Clara wrote in her notebooks, in order to see things in their true dimension and to defy her own poor memory.
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Isabel Allende (The House of the Spirits)
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In a traditional German toilet, the hole into which shit disappears after we flush is right at the front, so that shit is first laid out for us to sniff and inspect for traces of illness. In the typical French toilet, on the contrary, the hole is at the back, i.e. shit is supposed to disappear as quickly as possible. Finally, the American (Anglo-Saxon) toilet presents a synthesis, a mediation between these opposites: the toilet basin is full of water, so that the shit floats in it, visible, but not to be inspected. [...] It is clear that none of these versions can be accounted for in purely utilitarian terms: each involves a certain ideological perception of how the subject should relate to excrement. Hegel was among the first to see in the geographical triad of Germany, France and England an expression of three different existential attitudes: reflective thoroughness (German), revolutionary hastiness (French), utilitarian pragmatism (English). In political terms, this triad can be read as German conservatism, French revolutionary radicalism and English liberalism. [...] The point about toilets is that they enable us not only to discern this triad in the most intimate domain, but also to identify its underlying mechanism in the three different attitudes towards excremental excess: an ambiguous contemplative fascination; a wish to get rid of it as fast as possible; a pragmatic decision to treat it as ordinary and dispose of it in an appropriate way. It is easy for an academic at a round table to claim that we live in a post-ideological universe, but the moment he visits the lavatory after the heated discussion, he is again knee-deep in ideology.
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Slavoj Ε½iΕΎek (The Plague of Fantasies (Wo Es War Series))
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We live together, we act on, and react to, one another; but always and in all circumstances we are by ourselves. The martyrs go hand in hand into the arena; they are crucified alone. Embraced, the lovers desperately try to fuse their insulated ecstasies into a single self-transcendence; in vain. By its very nature every embodied spirit is doomed to suffer and enjoy in solitude. Sensations, feelings, insights, fancies - all these are private and, except through symbols and at second hand, incommunicable. We can pool information about experiences, but never the experiences themselves. From family to nation, every human group is a society of island universes. Most island universes are sufficiently like one another to Permit of inferential understanding or even of mutual empathy or "feeling into." Thus, remembering our own bereavements and humiliations, we can condole with others in analogous circumstances, can put ourselves (always, of course, in a slightly Pickwickian sense) in their places. But in certain cases communication between universes is incomplete or even nonexistent. The mind is its own place, and the Places inhabited by the insane and the exceptionally gifted are so different from the places where ordinary men and women live, that there is little or no common ground of memory to serve as a basis for understanding or fellow feeling. Words are uttered, but fail to enlighten. The things and events to which the symbols refer belong to mutually exclusive realms of experience.
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