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Bob Geldof’s autobiography, when he talked about his late wife Paula Yates: “In every relationship, there is one person who loves, and one who is loved.” At the time, I just accepted it: I believed it to be true. I thought it a fact. Perhaps that is the way of love? A yin and a yang, a nut and a bolt, a lover and a loved. I wondered, Which would I be? Which would be best? Which one would work for me? I
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