Michaels Inspirational Quotes

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If you enter this world knowing you are loved and you leave this world knowing the same, then everything that happens in between can be dealt with.
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Michael Jackson
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I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.
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Michael Jordan
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Our biggest regrets are not for the things we have done but for the things we haven't done
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Chad Michael Murray
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When they say the sky's the limit to me that's really true
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Michael Jackson
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My happiness grows in direct proportion to my acceptance, and in inverse proportion to my expectations.
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Michael J. Fox
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We have to create culture, don't watch TV, don't read magazines, don't even listen to NPR. Create your own roadshow. The nexus of space and time where you are now is the most immediate sector of your universe, and if you're worrying about Michael Jackson or Bill Clinton or somebody else, then you are disempowered, you're giving it all away to icons, icons which are maintained by an electronic media so that you want to dress like X or have lips like Y. This is shit-brained, this kind of thinking. That is all cultural diversion, and what is real is you and your friends and your associations, your highs, your orgasms, your hopes, your plans, your fears. And we are told 'no', we're unimportant, we're peripheral. 'Get a degree, get a job, get a this, get a that.' And then you're a player, you don't want to even play in that game. You want to reclaim your mind and get it out of the hands of the cultural engineers who want to turn you into a half-baked moron consuming all this trash that's being manufactured out of the bones of a dying world.
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Terence McKenna
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Only you can take inner freedom away from yourself, or give it to yourself. Nobody else can.
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Michael A. Singer (The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself)
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I'm starting with the man in the mirror, I'm asking him to change his ways; And no message could have been any clearer, If you wanna make the world a better place, Take a look at yourself, and then make a change!
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Michael Jackson
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Get comfortable with being uncomfortable!
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Jillian Michaels
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I think of myself as a bad writer with big ideas, but I'd rather be that than a big writer with bad ideas.
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Michael Moorcock (Elric: The Stealer of Souls (Eternal Champion, #11))
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We are at our most powerful the moment we no longer need to be powerful.
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Eric Micha'el Leventhal
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Life is wonderful. It's a gift to be alive, to see the sun and breathe the air. And there isn't really anything else.
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Michael Crichton (The Lost World (Jurassic Park, #2))
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I want to be free Michael, just for once in my whole life I want to be free" "You are free. You just don't know it yet
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Francine Rivers (Redeeming Love)
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Dead, we are revealed in our true dimensions, and they are surprisingly modest.
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Michael Cunningham (The Hours)
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Each person you meet is an aspect of yourself, clamoring for love.
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Eric Micha'el Leventhal
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The single greatest lesson the garden teaches is that our relationship to the planet need not be zero-sum, and that as long as the sun still shines and people still can plan and plant, think and do, we can, if we bother to try, find ways to provide for ourselves without diminishing the world.
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Michael Pollan (The Omnivore's Dilemma: A Natural History of Four Meals)
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The pleasure of rooting for Goliath is that you can expect to win. The pleasure of rooting for David is that, while you don’t know what to expect, you stand at least a chance of being inspired.
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Michael Lewis (Moneyball)
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We are constantly trying to hold it all together. If you really want to see why you do things, then don't do them and see what happens.
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Michael A. Singer (The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself)
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The closer you come to knowing that you alone create the world of your experience, the more vital it becomes for you to discover just who is doing the creating.
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Eric Micha'el Leventhal
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A mind possessed by unmade books.
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Michael Faudet
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When you expect nothing from the world - not the light of the sun, the wet of water, nor the air to breathe - everything is a wonder and every moment a gift.
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Michael J. Sullivan (Percepliquis (The Riyria Revelations, #6))
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Look beyond yourself..
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Michael Jackson
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Nothing is too wonderful to be true if it be consistent with the laws of nature.
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Michael Faraday
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It's not about perfect. It's about effort. And when you bring that effort every single day, that's where transformation happens. That's how change occurs.
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Jillian Michaels
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Please go for your dreams. Whatever your ideals, you can become whatever you want to become.
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Michael Jackson
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Everyone has a hidden agenda. Except me!
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Michael Crichton
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I could taste the salt on her lips, each kiss like a summer wave breaking on an empty beach.
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Michael Faudet
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Not feeling is no replacement for reality. Your problems today are still your problems tomorrow
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Larry Michael Dredla
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But that's the challenge -- to change the system more than it changes you.
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Michael Pollan (The Omnivore's Dilemma: A Natural History of Four Meals)
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Any problem can be solved between people if only they can trust each other
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Michael Morpurgo (War Horse (War Horse, #1))
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Why choose to fail when success is an option?
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Jillian Michaels
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What other people think of me is not my business.
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Michael J. Fox
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A healer's power stems not from any special ability, but from maintaining the courage and awareness to embody and express the universal healing power that every human being naturally possesses.
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Eric Micha'el Leventhal
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Michael had once read to her how God had cast a man and woman out of paradise. Yet, for all their human faults and failures. God had shown them the way back in.
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Francine Rivers (Redeeming Love)
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The light of day showed you the limits of possibility. But walk through the dark, the absolute, total darkness, and the possibilities were limitless.
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Michael Grant (Fear (Gone, #5))
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Thriving. That's fighting... Surviving is barely getting by.
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Jillian Michaels
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When life takes away, something of greater value is always given in return.
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Michael J. Fox
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cause when there's life there's still hope
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Michael Morpurgo (War Horse (War Horse, #1))
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If experience is the best teacher, there's nothing that comes close to the experience of life.
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Michael A. Singer (The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself)
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Some stories wait their turn to be told, others just tap you on the shoulder and insist you tell them.
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Michael Scott
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The Vietnamese soldier said, β€œBefore I spoke to her, I had given her a cooked ration of rice. Instead of her being grateful for the meal, she abused me! What gives with these Kampuchean People?” (A Gracious Enemy & After the War Volume Two)
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Michael G. Kramer
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When prescribing one of the drugs I take, my doctor warned me of a common side effect: exaggerated, intensely vivid dreams. To be honest, I've never really noticed the difference. I've always dreamt big.
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Michael J. Fox
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When you're strong and good, then you're Bad.
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Michael Jackson
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If laughter is the best medicine, let's OD together.
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Michael P. Clutton
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Change happens for you the moment you want something more than you fear it.
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Eric Micha'el Leventhal
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King Norodom of Cambodia replied, β€œLt. General Kawamura of the Japanese Imperial Army, It is my understanding that you Japanese are granting my people a partial freedom which is always subject to the approval of any laws we make by the Japanese Government in Tokyo!” (A Gracious Enemy & After the War Volume Two)
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Michael G. Kramer
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The day we stop learning is the day we die.
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Michael Scott (The Warlock (The Secrets of the Immortal Nicholas Flamel, #5))
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Nothing is impossible. With so many people saying it couldn't be done, all it takes is an imagination.
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Michael Phelps
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CLAUDIA: I love you as high as the sky and as deep as the sea. MICHAEL: Multiply my love by infinity and take it to the depths of forever, and you still have only a glimpse of how much I feel for you. I love you more.
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Mary Ting (Crossroads (Crossroads Saga, #1))
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I believe that you're great, that there's something magnificent about you. Regardless of what has happened to you in your life, regardless of how young or how old you think you might be, the moment you begin to think properly, there's something that is within you, there's power within you, that's greater than the world. It will begin to emerge. It will take over your life. It will feed you. It will clothe you. It will guide you, protect you, direct you, sustain your very existence, if you let it. Now, that is what I know for sure.
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Michael Bernard Beckwith
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We are not born into the world. We are born into something that we make into the world.
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Michael Talbot (Mysticism and the New Physics (Compass))
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I want something new. I want something I’ve never seen or heard or imagined. I want a spark. I want to be ignited. I want my flesh scorched and imagination set ablaze.
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Michael Soll (Scorched)
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To attain true inner freedom, you must be able to objectively watch your problems instead of being lost in them... Once you've made the commitment to free yourself of the scared person inside, you will notice that there is a clear decision point at which your growth takes place.
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Michael A. Singer (The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself)
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Everyone's Taking Control Of Me Seems That The World's Got A Role For Me I'm So Confused Will You Show To Me You'll Be There For Me And Care Enough To Bear Me
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Michael Jackson
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Be brave and be patient. Have faith in yourself; trust in the significance of your life and the purpose of your passion. You are strong enough to sit in the space between spaces and allow divine inspiration to shed some light. When you put positive energy and productive effort into the world it will come back to you. Occasionally in ways you might not immediately understand and on a time frame you didn’t expect. Look. Listen. Learn. Stay open. Your destiny is awaiting you.
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Jillian Michaels (Unlimited: How to Build an Exceptional Life)
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US General Mathew Ridgeway was speaking about β€œOperation Vulture”. He said, β€œWhen the day comes for me to meet my maker and account for my actions, the thing that I would be most proud of is the fact that I fought against and perhaps totally prevented the carrying out of one of the most hare-brained tactical schemes that would have cost the lives of thousands upon thousands of men!” (A Gracious Enemy & After the War Volume Two)
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Michael G. Kramer
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Intelligence, Kant reminds, is not so much a result of genius, rather it is a consequence of a determination to use it.
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Michael R. LeGault
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Waste your money and you're only out of money, but waste your time and you've lost a part of your life.
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Michael LeBoeuf
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When you’re constantly thinking of others and what they must be thinking or feeling or expecting, you wind up in this perpetual state of trying to please them. You see yourself through their eyes and you lose sight of who you are.
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Michael Soll (Scorched)
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Slaying dragons, melting witches, and banishing demons is all fun and games until someone loses a sidekickβ€”then it’s personal. The bad guy isn’t just the β€œbad guy” anymore, he’s the BAD GUY!
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Michael J. Sullivan
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Working inspires inspiration. Keep working. If you succeed, keep working. If you fail, keep working. If you are interested, keep working. If you are bored, keep working.
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Michael Crichton
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One truth doesn't refute another. Truth doesn't lie in the object, but in how we see it.
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Michael J. Sullivan
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I believe in such cartography – to be marked by nature, not just label ourselves on a map like the names of rich men and women on buildings. We are communal histories, communal books. ... All I desired was to walk upon such an earth that had no maps.
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Michael Ondaatje (The English Patient)
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Go higher and higher, until it becomes impossible to bring you down, I wanna use a microscope to locate you, don't even dream of coming down.
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Michael Bassey Johnson
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The problem with thick skin is that it leaves you impervious to the sharpest of pins. Everything becomes dull. But without that sense of pain, there cannot be that sense of relief. Ultimately, the thickened skin leaves you numb, incapable of feeling the highs and lows of life. It leaves you rough like a rock and just as inanimate.
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Michael Soll
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Spirituality is not about being fixed; it is about God's being present in the mess of our unfixedness. (Messy Spirituality)
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Mike Yaconelli
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You naturally begin to center more and more on the spiritual part of your being. You do this not by reaching for the Spirit, but by letting go of the rest.
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Michael A. Singer (The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself)
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But still try for who knows what is possible!
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Michael Faraday
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You can fall in love and make love many times but there is only one bullet with your name etched on the side. And if you are lucky enough to be shot with that bullet then the wound never heals.
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Michael Connelly (Lost Light (Harry Bosch, #9; Harry Bosch Universe, #13))
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People of various parts of France, Belgium, Holland, Germany, Poland, the USSR, and other places, were living among the ruins in the best way that they could. Because I was alone and homeless as well as confused, I opted to join the French Foreign Legion. When I was in the Wehrmacht, I thought that their discipline was extreme. However, it was nothing when compared to the discipline as practised by the Foreign Legion!” (A Gracious Enemy & After the War Volume Two)
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Michael G. Kramer
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Acceptance means events can make it through you without resistance
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Michael A. Singer (The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself)
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You suffer the blow, but you capitalize on the opportunity left in its wake.
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Michael J. Fox (Always Looking Up: The Adventures of an Incurable Optimist)
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Your eyes are not really windows through which you look out into the world. Your eyes are cameras that send electronic images of the world into you.
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Michael A. Singer (The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself)
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Fear was about possibilities. Not things that happened. Things that might.
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Michael Grant (Fear (Gone, #5))
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The line between confidence and arrogance is very fine, and the line between arrogance and stupidity even finer.
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Michael Scott (The Sorceress (The Secrets of the Immortal Nicholas Flamel, #3))
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Music replays the past memories, awaken our forgotten worlds and make our minds travel.
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Michael Bassey Johnson
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Thoughts don't become things; thoughts ARE things.
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Eric Micha'el Leventhal
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Breathe the air, taste the wine, kiss the girls, and always remember that the tales of another are never as wondrous as your own.
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Michael J. Sullivan (Rise of Empire (The Riyria Revelations, #3-4))
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A person’s reason for doing someone a good turn matters as much as the good turn itself.
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Michael Ende (The Neverending Story)
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Every 'no' is a 'yes' to something.
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Eric Micha'el Leventhal
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After all that I'd been through, after all that I'd learned and all that I'd been given, I was going to do what I had been doing every day for the last few years now: just show up and do the best that I could do with whatever lay in front of me.
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Michael J. Fox (Lucky Man)
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The deepness of your mind produces the thickness of your thoughts.
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Michael Bassey Johnson
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No man is ever just one thing.
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Michael Scott (The Enchantress (The Secrets of the Immortal Nicholas Flamel, #6))
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A hundred years from now, people will look back on us and laugh. They'll say, 'You know what people used to believe? They believed in photons and electrons. Can you imagine anything so silly?' They'll have a good laugh, because by then there will be newer better fantasies... And meanwhile, you feel the way the boat moves? That's the sea. That's real. You smell the salt in the air? You feel the sunlight on your skin? That's all real. Life is wonderful. It's a gift to be alive, to see the sun and breathe the air. And there isn't really anything else.
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Michael Crichton (The Lost World (Jurassic Park, #2))
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Life is good, and there's no reason to think it won't be--right up until the moment when everything explodes into a fireball of tiny, unrecognizable fragments, or it all goes skidding sideways, through the guardrail, over the embankment, and down the mountain. This will happen (and probably more than once).
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Michael J. Fox
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-We need more love, to supersede hatred, -We need more strength, to resist our weaknesses, -We need more inspiration, to lighten up our innermind. -We need more learning, to erase our ignorance, -We need more wisdom, to live longer and happier, -We need more truths, to suppress deceptions, -We need more health, to enjoy our wealth, -We need more peace, to stay in harmony with our brethren -We need more smiles, to brighten up our day, -We need more hero's, and not zero's, -We need more change of ourselves, to change the lives of others, -We need more understanding, to tackle our misunderstanding, -We need more sympathy, not apathy, -We need more forgiveness, not vengeance, -We need more humility to be lifted up, -We need more patience and not undue eagerness, -We need more focus, to avoid distraction, -We need more optimism, not pessimism -We need more justice, not injustice, -We need more facts, not fiction, -We need more education, to curb illiteracy, -We need more skills, not incompetence, -We need more challenges, to make attempts, -We need more talents, to create the extraordinary, -We need more helping hands, not stingy folks, -We need more efforts, not laziness, -We need more jokes, to forget our worries, -We need more spirituality, not mean religion, -We need more freedom, not enslavement, -We need more peacemakers, not revolutionaries...with these, we create an heaven on earth.
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Michael Bassey Johnson
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Citizens, in the future there will be neither darkness nor thunderbolts; neither ferocious ignorance, nor bloody retaliation. As there will be no more Satan, there will be no more Michael. In the future no one will kill any one else, the earth will beam with radiance, the human race will love. The day will come, citizens, when all will be concord, harmony, light, joy and life; it will come, and it is in order that it may come that we are about to die.
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Victor Hugo (Les MisΓ©rables)
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And if someone felt that his life had been an utter failure, and that he himself was only one among millions of wholly unimportant people who could be replaced as easily as broken windowpanes, he would go and pour out his heart to Momo. And, even as he spoke, he would come to realize by some mysterious means that he was absolutely wrong: that there was only one person like himself in the whole world, and that, consequently, he mattered to the world in his own particular way. Such was Momo's talent for listening.
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Michael Ende
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How many victims must that be? Slaughtered in vain across the land, And how many strugles must that be? Before we choose to live the profits plan Everybody sing- Every day create your History, Every path you take you're leaving your legacy Every soldier dies in his glory Every legend tells of conquest and liberty.
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Michael Jackson
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The most important thing in life is your inner energy. If you’re always tired and never enthused, then life is no fun. But if you’re always inspired and filled with energy, then every minute of every day is an exciting experience. Learn to work with these things. Through meditation, through awareness and willful efforts, you can learn to keep your centers open. You do this by just relaxing and releasing. You do this by not buying into the concept that there is anything worth closing over. Remember, if you love life, nothing is worth closing over.
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Michael A. Singer (The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself)
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In the field I’m in, there is a lot of that and it gets offered to me all the time. People even go as far as to just stick it in your pocket and walk off. Now, if it was a good thing, they wouldn’t do that. I mean, would somebody drop something beautiful in my pocket and just walk off? But I don’t want to have anything to do with any of that. I mean, as corny as it sounds, but this is how I really believe: Natural highs are the greatest highs in the world. Who wants to take something and just sit around for the rest of the day after you take it (drugs), and don’t know who you are, what you’re doing, where you are? Take in something that’s gonna inspire you to do greater things in the world.
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Michael Jackson
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Ask ten different scientists about the environment, population control, genetics and you'll get ten different answers, but there's one thing every scientist on the planet agrees on. Whether it happens in a hundred years or a thousand years or a million years, eventually our Sun will grow cold and go out. When that happens, it won't just take us. It'll take Marilyn Monroe and Lao-Tzu, Einstein, Morobuto, Buddy Holly, Aristophanes .. and all of this .. all of this was for nothing unless we go to the stars.
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J. Michael Straczynski
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The spirit in the body is like wine in a glass; when it spills, it seeps into air and earth and light….It’s a mistake to think it’s the small things we control and not the large, it’s the other way around! We can’t stop the small accident, the tiny detail that conspires into fate: the extra moment you run back for something forgotten, a moment that saves you from an accident – or causes one. But we can assert the largest order, the large human values daily, the only order large enough to see.
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Anne Michaels (Fugitive Pieces)
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philosophy teaches us and unsettles us by confronting us with what we already know; there's an irony: the difficulty consisted in this course is that it teaches what you already know; it works by taking what we know from familiar and unquestioned settings and making it strange. that's how the examples work. ... philosophy estranges us, not by providing us with new information, but by inviting and provoking a new way of seeing. The risk is once the familiar turns strange it is never quiet the same again. Self-knowledge is like a lost innocence, however unsettling, you find it; it can never be unthought or unknown.
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Michael J. Sandel (Justice: What's the Right Thing to Do?)
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If you're lucky, in some point in the future when you're in need of guidance or perhaps moral support, you may cross paths with a suitable mentor. Even luckier, you'll realize you had one in your life all along and you'll gain a new appreciation for how you benefited from that relationship. The luckiest relationship of all, of course, is a combination of the two. You've had help all along, and as the path widens or narrows, whatever the case may be, new and powerful influences will enter your life and aid your progress. In my experience, a mentor doesn't necessarily tell you what to do, but more importantly: tells you what they did or might do, then trusts you to draw your own conclusions and act accordingly. If you succeed, they'll take one step back and if you fail, they'll take one step closer. Whatever it is they teach you, pass it on.
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Michael J. Fox (A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Future...)
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I tried to find a way to go on. I could see familiar traces of the path that was my life, but there was always the wall behind me. Do you know what I mean? First you try and climb, pretending it never happened, but it's too tall. Then you try to go around, thinking you can fix it, but it is too far. Then, in frustration, you beat on it with your hands, but it does nothing, so you tire and sit down and just stare at it. You stare because you can't bring yourself to walk away. Walking away means that you're giving up, abandoning them. "There is no way back. There is only forward. It's impossible to imagine there's any reason to move ahead, but that isn't the real reason you give up. The real fear--the terror that keeps you rooted--is that you might be wrong." --Myron, Monk of Maribor
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Michael J. Sullivan
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We may indeed die here, that's true. But we will all die anyway-is there any denying that? When you think of all the possible ways you might go, this is as fine a place as any, isn't it? I mean, to end one's life surrounded by friends, in a comfortable, dry room with plenty to read... that doesn't sound too awful, does it?" "What is the advantage of fear, or the benefit of regret, or the bonus of granting misery a foothold even if death is embracing you? My old abbot used to say, 'Life is only precious if you wish it to be.' I look at it like the last bite of a wonderful meal-do you enjoy it, or does the knowledge that there is no more to follow make it so bitter that you would ruin the experience?" The monk looked around, but no one answered him. "If Maribor wishes for me to die, who am I to argue? After all, it is he who gave me life to begin with. Until he decides I am done, each day is a gift granted to me, and it would be wasted if spent poorly. Besides, for me, I've learned that the last bite is often the sweetest.
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Michael J. Sullivan (Percepliquis (The Riyria Revelations, #6))
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It's easy to mistake being innocent for being simpleminded or naive. We all want to seem sophisticated; we all want to seem street-smart. To be innocent is to be "out of it." Yet there is a deep truth in innocence. A baby looks in his mother's eyes, and all he sees is love. As innocence fades away, more complicated things take its place. We think we need to outwit others and scheme to get what we want. We begin to spend a lot of energy protecting ourselves. Then life turns into a struggle. People have no choice but to be street-smart. How else can they survive? When you get right down to it, survival means seeing things the way they really are and responding. It means being open. And that's what innocence is. It's simple and trusting like a child, not judgmental and committed to one narrow point of view. If you are locked into a pattern of thinking and responding, your creativity gets blocked. You miss the freshness and magic of the moment. Learn to be innocent again, and that freshness never fades.
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Michael Jackson (Dancing the Dream: Poems and Reflections)
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You see, Momo,' he [Beppo Roadsweeper] told her one day, 'it's like this. Sometimes, when you've a very long street ahead of you, you think how terribly long it is and feel sure you'll never get it swept.' He gazed silently into space before continuing. 'And then you start to hurry,' he went on. 'You work faster and faster, and every time you look up there seems to be just as much left to sweep as before, and you try even harder, and you panic, and in the end you're out of breath and have to stop - and still the street stretches away in front of you. That's not the way to do it.' He pondered a while. Then he said, 'You must never think of the whole street at once, understand? You must only concentrate on the next step, the next breath, the next stroke of the broom, and the next, and the next. Nothing else.' Again he paused for thought before adding, 'That way you enjoy your work, which is important, because then you make a good job of it. And that's how it ought to be.' There was another long silence. At last he went on, 'And all at once, before you know it, you find you've swept the whole street clean, bit by bit. What's more, you aren't out of breath.' He nodded to himself. 'That's important, too,' he concluded.
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Michael Ende (Momo)
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Friendship is a difficult thing to define. Oscar here is my oldest friend. How would you define friendship, Oscar?" Oscar grunts slightly, as though the answer is obvious. "Friendship is about choice and chemistry. It cannot be defined." "But surely there's something more to it than that." "It is a willingness to overlook faults and to accept them. I would let a friend hurt me without striking back," he says, smiling. "But only once." De Souza laughs. "Bravo, Oscar, I can always rely on you to distill an argument down to its purest form. What do you think, Dayel?" The Indian rocks his head from side to side, proud that he has been asked to speak next. "Friendship is different for each person and it changes throughout our lives. At age six it is about holding hands with your best friend. At sixteen it is about the adventure ahead. At sixty it is about reminiscing." He holds up a finger. "You cannot define it with any one word, although honesty is perhaps the closest word-" "No, not honesty," Farhad interrupts. "On the contrary, we often have to protect our friends from what we truly think. It is like an unspoken agreement. We ignore each other's faults and keep our confidences. Friendship isn't about being honest. The truth is too sharp a weapon to wield around someone we trust and respect. Friendship is about self-awareness. We see ourselves through the eyes of our friends. They are like a mirror that allows us to judge how we are traveling." De Souza clears his throat now. I wonder if he is aware of the awe that he inspires in others. I suspect he is too intelligent and too human to do otherwise. "Friendship cannot be defined," he says sternly. "The moment we begin to give reasons for being friends with someone we begin to undermine the magic of the relationship. Nobody wants to know that they are loved for their money or their generosity or their beauty or their wit. Choose one motive and it allows a person to say, 'is that the only reason?'" The others laugh. De Souza joins in with them. This is a performance. He continues: "Trying to explain why we form particular friendships is like trying to tell someone why we like a certain kind of music or a particular food. We just do.
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Michael Robotham (The Night Ferry)