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Now he haunts me seldom: some fierce umbilical is broken,
I live with my own fragile hopes and sudden rising despair.
Now I do not weep for my sins; I have learned to love them
And to know that they are the wounds that make love real.
His face illudes me; his voice, with its pity, does not ring in my ear.
His maxims memorized in boyhood do not make fruitless and pointless my experience.
I walk alone, but not so terrified as when he held my hand.
I do not splash in the blood of his son
nor hear the crunch of nails or thorns piercing protesting flesh.
I am a boy again--I whose boyhood was turned to manhood in a brutal myth.
Now wine is only wine with drops that do not taste of blood.
The bread I eat has too much pride for transubstantiation,
I, too--and together the bread and I embrace,
Each grateful to be what we are, each loving from our own reality.
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James Kavanaugh (There Are Men Too Gentle to Live Among Wolves)
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Manhood and Christlikeness are synonymous.
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Edwin Louis Cole (Maximized Manhood)
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wisdom, when it comes to sin, is that human wisdom wants to cover it up. Adam
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Edwin Louis Cole (Maximized Manhood)
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If all boys could be made to know that with every breath of cigarette smoke they inhale imbecility and exhale manhood ... and that the cigarette is a maker of invalids, criminals and fools—not men—it ought to deter them some. The yellow finger stain is an emblem of deeper degradation and enslavement than the ball and chain.
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Hudson Maxim
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Sins are not hereditary. They are unforgiven, and, in their retention, passed from father to son, mother to daughter, generation to generation.
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Edwin Louis Cole (Maximized Manhood: A Guide to Family Survival)
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All pornography is idolatrous. It’s based upon man’s ability to create a fantasy or image in his mind which satisfies him, and to which he can devote himself.
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Edwin Louis Cole (Maximized Manhood: A Guide to Family Survival)
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Idolatry keeps men from being maximized in their potential. Personally, maritally, professionally, spiritually.
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Edwin Louis Cole (Maximized Manhood: A Guide to Family Survival)
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Every expression of manhood is a reassertion of this cock privilege. All men are male supremacists. Gay men are no exception to the maxim.
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New York Public Library (The Stonewall Reader)
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After serving in the United States Coast Guard in the Second World War, he began his career in radio and television ministry. In 1979, he founded the Christian Men’s Network, and not long after he diagnosed a catastrophic condition plaguing the nation. An “anti-hero syndrome” had “eliminated our heroes and left us bereft of role models as patriotic examples.” His 1982 book on the topic, Maximized Manhood, would sell more than one million copies.15
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Kristin Kobes Du Mez (Jesus and John Wayne: How White Evangelicals Corrupted a Faith and Fractured a Nation)
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Problems are more convenient than sins because we don’t have to do anything about problems. If you only have a problem, you can get sympathy for it, or understanding for it, or professional help for it, to name a few. Sins, on the other hand, have to be repeated of, confessed, and forsaken.
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Edwin Louis Cole (Maximized Manhood)
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It is a year and eight months since I last looked at these notes of mine. I do so now only because, being overwhelmed with depression, I wish to distract my mind by reading them through at random. I left them off at the point where I was just going to Homburg. My God, with what a light heart (comparatively speaking) did I write the concluding lines!—though it may be not so much with a light heart, as with a measure of self-confidence and unquenchable hope. At that time had I any doubts of myself? Yet behold me now. Scarcely a year and a half have passed, yet I am in a worse position than the meanest beggar. But what is a beggar? A fig for beggary! I have ruined myself—that is all. Nor is there anything with which I can compare myself; there is no moral which it would be of any use for you to read to me. At the present moment nothing could well be more incongruous than a moral. Oh, you self-satisfied persons who, in your unctuous pride, are forever ready to mouth your maxims—if only you knew how fully I myself comprehend the sordidness of my present state, you would not trouble to wag your tongues at me! What could you say to me that I do not already know? Well, wherein lies my difficulty? It lies in the fact that by a single turn of a roulette wheel everything for me, has become changed. Yet, had things befallen otherwise, these moralists would have been among the first (yes, I feel persuaded of it) to approach me with friendly jests and congratulations. Yes, they would never have turned from me as they are doing now! A fig for all of them! What am I? I am zero—nothing. What shall I be tomorrow? I may be risen from the dead, and have begun life anew. For still, I may discover the man in myself, if only my manhood has not become utterly shattered.
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Fyodor Dostoevsky (The Gambler)
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The secret of philosophy, said Leibnitz, is to treat familiar things as unfamiliar. By the secret of “philosophy” Leibnitz meant the secret of what we call science. Let us apply this wholesome maxim in [pg 099] our present study; let us, in so far as we can, regard the familiar terms—wealth, capital and money—as unfamiliar; let us deal with them afresh; let us examine openmindedly the facts—the phenomena—to which the terms relate and ascertain scientifically the significance the terms must have in a genuine science of human economy. Examine “the facts” I say—examine “the phenomena”—for bending facts to theories is a vital danger, while bending theories to facts is essential to science and the peaceful progress of society.
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Alfred Korzybski (Manhood of Humanity: Unlocking Human Potential: A Journey Through Language, Symbolism, and Time-Binding)
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Because they never forgave him, they retained their father’s sin and became like the thing they hated. Hate binds it to you. They bound themselves to their father’s sin.
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Edwin Louis Cole (Maximized Manhood: A Guide to Family Survival)
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In forgiving someone’s sins we release them, but when we do not forgive them, those sins are retained. It is a Kingdom principle.
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Edwin Louis Cole (Maximized Manhood: A Guide to Family Survival)
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When you do not forgive someone’s sin against you, you bear that sin, carry it. And make the same mistake again and again, with person after person.
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Edwin Louis Cole (Maximized Manhood: A Guide to Family Survival)
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Love gives. But lust wants to get. It is basically selfish. Love gives—lust gets.
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Edwin Louis Cole (Maximized Manhood: A Guide to Family Survival)
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Tempting Christ is demanding that God do what is contrary to His will, or inconsistent with His character.
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Edwin Louis Cole (Maximized Manhood: A Guide to Family Survival)
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Lying and cheating in business and demanding that God bless and prosper it is tempting Christ.
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Edwin Louis Cole (Maximized Manhood: A Guide to Family Survival)