Loren Weisman Quotes

A straightforward answer to a straightforward question will move you that much more forward in this world, that much faster.

Playing the blame game is stupid and childish. Even if it is someone else’s fault, the blame game is wasted time, effort, and energy that takes you somewhere that is not going to get you anywhere.

If some musicians put half as much effort in to the business side as they do their outer look and appearances, they could be twice as far.

The more you engage and connect, the more engagements and connections you will have.

It is ironic how those so hungry for an honest opinion are so quickly offended by that honesty. If you are not ready to hear the bad with the good, do not ask.

Stay Calm, Stay Covered, Stay Considerate, Stay Cautious & Stay Caffeinated.

The people who blame everything and every body else for their lack of success, tended to continue to have a lack of success. Your Proactive, problem solving minded, assertive and responsible approach is going to carry you much further than whining, blaming, pointing fingers and justifying your failures.

Try holding yourself accountable to yourself. If you had to give yourself a daily, weekly, or monthly report, would you be proud to talk about what you had done, or would you need to be prettying up things, bullshitting, or lying to keep your job?

For your own professionalism, reputation & appearance, it really is ok to NOT post every #video, picture, event or show on social media. On the contrary, holding back, waiting or not posting certain things all together can help much more than hurt.

The Cream Does NOT Always Rise To The Top! There is a serious misconception, misconnection and mistake in this idea of thinking.

Are you considering the other person you're calling when you call? Do you ask if it is a good time? If not, why not?

Learning, empowering, studying, practicing, and not repeating the same mistakes will help you move forward, move up, and move on to where you want to be.

Stop drowning your dreams by jumping into waters that you are unable to swim in.

The more you engage and connect, the more engagement and connections you will have.

No one can create your brand for you. No one can create your story for you. To be authentically created, this has to be with you.

Confidence is sexy, but sexy does not necessarily make someone confident, competent or able to do what they claim they can. Don't let looks fool you.

The most effective brand messaging strategy is not to create the messaging that makes the most sense to you. It is creating the brand messaging that makes you, your brand and your products make the most sense to others.

If your dream is all about winning an ‪#oscar‬, a ‪‎grammy‬, an ‪#emmy‬, or another award, give up and quit now! Why dream for accolades, awards, recognition or celebrity status? Dream to learn, achieve, grow, sustain and succeed. You will be a happier person in life over trying to define your success or your dream by what others think of you.

If you don’t understand something clearly that you are being taught…speak up. If you feel something is confusing or you are unsure of exactly what to do…ask about it. If you need clarification or something repeated to make sure you got it…request it. If you feel lost, forgot something, or feel like you are falling behind…bring it up. Nodding your head, saying “yeah, yeah” and pretending to know things you don’t is right up there with one of the worst things you can do when you hire some one to help you and your career.

A well-written article does not make what was written factual or something to subscribe to. Fiction does not become fact because it looks good. Fiction does not become fact because you wish it were true. Fiction does not become fact because it has turned into popular opinion. Remember this before reading the news, views, opinions or commentary.

No one has a right to tell you what you want, what you need, or what you must have. So why let them?

A single experience can make someone a celebrity, but it does not make them an authority.

Just because it is legal to do, it does not make it an ethical, honorable, moral or professional choice.

Differentiate your opinions from facts. Honor your audience with messaging that clearly defines when you are sharing truth and when you are sharing an opinion.

Artists of today can be inspired by the past, but they have to apply present methods if they want a future in music.

Only Getting the A and Z with out the B through Y, leaves you SOL.

Your actions and approach with what you have, will showcase to others what you would be able to do with more.

If you don’t know your tendencies and can’t analyze when you are most effective, then how can you get the most done in the least amount of time with the best results?

Sharing the same exact content, message or advertisements over and over again only showcases your limited content and a serious lack of depth in your message.

Choose those you give your trust to carefully. Be caring; be loving; be creative. But also be careful.

It is not your fans or your customers’ job to market you. Stop treating them like it is.

Your volume speaks volumes. Be aware of your dynamics, your tones as well as the loudness and softness of your voice on the phone and in person.

Carrying someone else’s weight is only going to weigh down on you and add stress, frustration, and pain. Choose who you work with and play with wisely.

Are you joining a conversation or taking it over? Stay aware of how you join a conversation and of your effect on a conversation.

Keep the momentum while you are moving to guarantee additional motion and momentum.

If you are saying the same thing as everyone else, then why would and why should anyone think you are different from everyone else?

Calling for change and being part of making change are two very different things. Stop calling for change and be a part of making the change you want to see.

It's time to respect yourself and your dream, both truly deserve that respect. be the person you would do anything for. Be the person you will not let down.

The honor of your presentation, execution, experience, and growth will do much more for you and your career over false claims that have no substance yet.

Would you mind if that post, pic, comment or content was seen tomorrow, next week, next month and next year? If the answer is yes, then don’t post it today.

Your mistakes aren’t learning experiences…if you aren’t learning from them.

A content creator can have authority and expertise, but being a content creator does not automatically make them a true authority or expert.

Methodically messaging in a harmony of honor, humility, authenticity and authority may create more resonation for your story to be heard by that many more connections.

AI can not make you an expert or an authority. AI can only make you appear to be an expert or an authority.

If it comes from a pot that reads decaf, it is not coffee. If it comes from a nut, it is not milk.

Take the time to vet the source before you make it a resource.

Your story, shared with authenticity can do more to sell you than any sales pitch, marketing piece or ad.

Is your brand messaging telling a story or is it telling your story.

Lead with the how. So many scream only about what they can do for you. Consider standing out by sharing the authenticity, authority and intelligence of how you can do it with them.

Don’t oversell what or where you are, especially in today’s industry. It is easier now than ever to be found out as a big-talking beginner or a liar. On the other hand, honesty is strength; use it.

Marketing and promoting doesn’t come down to the likes, the pins, the plus ones, the followers, the fans, the friends, the views, or the plays online. Marketing and promoting comes down to the conversions.

It’s not about the amount of time you put in, it is the way you spend the time on the work you need to get done. Saying that you worked ten hours on something that went nowhere is not really anything to brag about.

Learn the rules and learn the game, before you start breaking the rules and changing the game. Your education, experience and understanding of what was and what is, will give you the best foundation to change what will be.

Content without continuity and connection will leave you with fewer conversions, sales, and engagement. Stop trying to create something to go viral. Start building an authentic connection rooted in endurance and engagement.

Your choice to match insult with insult and respond to sarcasm with sarcasm is part of the reason the narrative does not and has not changed. Instead of matching the weakness of insults, respond with the strength of your argument.

You can want, wish, and dream all day, but those that prepare, work, learn, practice, and problem-solve are the ones that find success in sports, business, music, or whatever. Back up what you want with doing the work it takes to get it.

While working with different people in different cities with very different viewpoints, I noticed one very similar theme: The people who blamed everything and everybody else for their lack of success tended to continue to have a lack of success.

I see many more successes and wins from those working to be better over those trying to be the best. Remove the hype, the hate and the ego in your growth to truly grow to your potential and beyond. Stop subscribing to the idea that you have to be the best.

If someone is trying to sell you with only past credentials and older accolades without including present examples and up to date proof, you might be dealing with someone that is sharing expired information and does not have the up to date knowledge to help you.

I trust those with discipline much more than I trust those with motivation to get the job done. Motivation often times shows an expiration date. Those with true discipline have the endurance, the dedication and the problem solving skills to make things happen.

Instead of trying to shake 20 hands, get 30 business cards and add 40 people to your LinkedIn, consider taking the time with authentic introductions and conversations that are grounded in connection over racing to see how quickly they can find a new conversion or sale.

Issues or fears of confrontation tend to showcase unhealthy and unprofessional communication. If you are trusting someone to tell you all the good, bad and ugly, but they only give you the good out of their fears and confrontational issues… the bad and the ugly can grow worse and worse quickly.

An add is not an introduction. Neither is a like, a share, a comment or a follow. Adding a person on social media and expecting that to be your introduction and a reason for them to respond does not highlight your authenticity or allow you to stand out. Engage online like you would in person.

Consider choosing the "here is how" over the "I know you can" types. Consider connecting with those that have the authority and ability to show, educate and help you create what you want... instead of those that only focus on vague directions, hearsay instructions, empty motivation and scripted hype.

You can do something nice without posting it on social media. Give with heart. Share with authenticity. And help without the spotlight. It gets old fast with so many bragging, marketing and showcasing how giving they are. It also creates the perception that these individuals are doing this for their own promotion, marketing, and visibility, over genuinely trying to help another. There is something beautiful in giving a gift and just doing it to do it and not doing it to brag. The real honor of a person shines through so much brighter when they are not bragging about how much they do, how much they give and how much they care.

Backing up your argument with unnamed sources, rumored facts and hearsay only backs your view and your professional reputation into a corner. Argue the facts with validity, authority and substantial proof or walk away. It is ok to say you don’t know and it can serve your reputation better than sharing what you can’t prove.

The most devastating thing artists can do to their career is get in their own way, and way too many people do. It’s not the labels, the industry, the fans, the cities, the economy, the social media, the marketing, the promoting, the “right time,” the music, or whatever other excuse you can come up with that determines whether you succeed or you fail. It is you—no one else.

Love it or hate it, thrive in it or still getting the hang of it, the recording studio is the place where your main product is going to be captured, recorded, mixed and created. You need a clear platform from preproduction to the schedule, tracking to the overdubs, vocals to the final mix. The best-laid studio planning will save you the most money and greatly reduce stress.

The most devastating thing artists can do to their career is get in their own way, and way too many people do. It's not the labels, the industry, the fans, the cities, the economy, the social media, the marketing, the promoting, the 'right time,' the music, or whatever other excuse you can come up with that determines whether you succeed or you fail. It is you, no one else,

Social media is not toxic. Social media sites are not toxic. It might just be that you've allowed the toxic people you follow on social media to make it toxic for you. There is no rule, no law or no condition on any of these sites that says you must continue to follow or stay connected with someone you don't want to on social media. Unfollow, disconnect and block if need be and as often as you like.

I'm less concerned with how hard you can work and how much time and effort you can dedicate to a project when everything is going right. Plenty of people can do that. I'm more concerned with how hard you can work and how much time and effort you can dedicate to a project when everything is going wrong. That's a rarity and shows true honor, true character and will lead you that much closer to success.

An effective content strategy has to mix your authenticity, your story & your authority mixed with the shares of other peoples content. If you're only sharing other peoples stories, authority, authenticity & brands, how does that make any new or old visitors want to connect with yours? And, only reposting without sharing why you chose to share it & what your thoughts are on that content creates zero connection to you and for you.

speakers becoming the rare find. ... and for very little investment you can become a "certified speaker and expert" from your choice of many so-called and even established business gurus. Look to those with authority, #integrity, experience, #excellence, and #credibility to help inspire with applicable information and not just empty sugar high motivation (that wears off quickly) Watch out, look up and dig in as you choose the best people to follow, listen to and learn from.

I really don't care about your core values. I care about your authority, ability and authenticity. I care about how you showcase your ability to do what you claim you can do and why you do it the way you do it. I care more about experience over hype. And... Im not the only one.

Are you trying to control and guide truth or are you allowing truth to control and guide you?

Connecting with a professional on a networking site will not always make them a professional connection for you.

Consider practicing some solid vetting and due diligence with those that spend most of their time spotlighting the number of people they are connected to instead of highlighting their authority, authenticity and expertise.

Motivation without animation can be a core factor in the early extermination of a vision or venture.

Be careful who you pay, who you trust, who you listen to and who you read. Are they guiding you and teaching you how to build something or are they only trying to build you up?

The foundation of your messaging is framed by your words, your story and your actions. Consider making them strong, true, authentic and yours.

Amplified authentic opinions can be driven with passion while still anchored in respect for those that have a different view.

As challenging as it can be from businesses to relationships to anything else, if we ground ourselves in the respect to hear the other side, differentiate our opinion from proven and vetted facts, while remove the insulting and attacking elements, we can create impactful conversations of change.

Consider leading with the engagement and the content to engage first, over just trying to funnel someone to buy from you right from the start.

Consider taking an approach to your non profit asks by explaining what is needed, what would help and way, over telling them that if they skip one coffee here or one beer there, they can do so much more and show that they really care.

Wait What Really OK is A methodical, comical and informational podcast sharing authentic brand messaging, optics approaches & strategies for honorable authority driven businesses.

By creating a personalized content blueprint that is created off of respectful etiquette, inviting brand messaging, authentic engagement, and formats to work across number media platforms, the process can become streamlined and the creative phase of content creation becomes less stressful,

Are they drawing up and creating a strategy made just for you? Or are they just coloring in the lines and strategies created by and for someone else ?

My PEMF Experience with Bemer has helped me with the reduction of physical pain, an increased creative endurance and a renewed awareness and connection to the needs of my mind and body

I see this as permissive plagiarism. A license has been bought, but how does this create authentic authority and a foundation of integrity to trust this new author if the truth was revealed? Would these authors be ok with openly stating that they bought eighty to ninety percent of a book and just added a few pieces to it? I seriously doubt it. So where is the honor and transparency there?

We have noticed a rise in companies that allow you to purchase what we term as a prefabricated book. These books fall into one of the genres of success or coaching toward business, health, wealth, and sales to name just a few. You simply buy a system that you download which allows you to move some chapters around, change a few words, headers, add a few stories of your own, create a book cover, publish as an eBook or print on demand, and wham, you’re an author.

If some hunted as hard for information as they do for inspiration, they might find themselves in a better situation.

When everyone is on the same page, has a clear understanding of expectations and responsibilities, the best coaching outcomes can occur. Consider stepping away from the big promises, guarantees and claims if they are not backed up on paper and stepping toward those that can highlight and prove themselves ethically, professionally and authentically. 

Is that content for the present, past and future? Consider strategizing your content creation to deliver a resonating endurance impact for the present, future and past. Allow your present content to compound and continue to help what has been created in the past and what is coming in the future. And stop creating linear content made for a moment that will only last for that moment. This type of connection in your content may create more connections for you.

Where is the authority and authenticity in plagiarizing someone else's authority and authenticity?

We have more coaches on the sidelines than we have players on the field.

I do not believe in my truth and I do not believe in your truth. I believe in the truth.

Just because they came through an experience, doesn’t mean they have the experience or ability to help someone else.

Creating authentic messaging with your story allows for the strategy, products, and security to come together correctly and create a melody that can be heard over the same old harmonies sung by everyone else.

Are you commenting for popularity and to be seen? Or are you commenting for authenticity and adding to the conversation? People are starting to notice the difference.

If you can vote many times for some content or award, where is the authenticity, honor and rewards in those results?