Haemin Sunim Best Quotes

The best way to get even with someone who has left you is to meet someone new and become happy again.

The best way to hide your wealth is to give it away. If you are generous with your wealth, the money that would have disappeared sooner or later becomes an everlasting jewel, deeply engraved in the heart of the recipient.” The air I inhale enters my body and becomes part of me. The air that I exhale moves into someone else and becomes part of her. Just by looking at how the air moves, we realize we are all connected to one another, not just figuratively but also literally. “Whether we like it or not, we are all connected, and it is unthinkable to be happy all by oneself.” —HIS HOLINESS THE DALAI LAMA* The whole universe is contained in an apple wedge in a lunch box. Apple tree, sunlight, cloud, rain, earth, air, farmer’s sweat are all in it. Delivery truck, gas, market, money, cashier’s smile are all in it. Refrigerator, knife, cutting board, mother’s love are all in it. Everything in the whole universe depends on one another. Now, think about what exists in you. The whole universe is in us.

When I think carefully about my life, it seems that my best friend changes about once every seven to ten years. If you have grown apart from a friend and are feeling lonely—maybe because they have moved, got married, switched jobs, or just become so busy that they don’t have time to see you—wait a bit. The universe will send you a new best friend if you ask for them.

There is no need to take rejection personally. Each person has unique tastes and preferences shaped by their own history. Those things were already formed long before meeting you. Therefore, if people reject you, it has much to do with their experiences and individual tastes. In addition, people subconsciously prefer what they are familiar with. Even if you are objectively the best candidate as a lover, friend, or employee, you won't be liked if you appear unfamiliar. This, however, doesn't diminish your value and self-worth.

The best way to get event with someone who has left you is to meet someone new and become happy again.

If you're not sure whether to do something, ask yourself whether it will weigh heavily on you if you don't do it. If it will, the best just to do it

Don't force people to achieve your goals, as the best results always come when they occur naturally with a sense of ease and flow.

If you are struggling in a larger task, do your best in the small task in front of you. What you can do right now are small things, and those small things add up to the larger thing.

Even when you have tried your absolute best, someone might still be critical or snide. There all kinds of people in this world, even those who think the food of a three-Michelin-star chef is just so so. No matter who you are, it is impossible for you to please everyone.

When something hasn't turned out well, don't give up; keep going, and try different ways of making it work. There is no fixed answer, no single solution. We find the best approach through trial and error.

When you are with one friend, you end up gossiping about celebrities; with another, you speak about money; with another, politics; and with yet another, spirituality. This is because, rather than "you" being something fixed, you change moment to moment, depending on whom you are with. In light of this, cultivate a deeper connection with those people in whose company you like yourself best.

It's best for two people to be equally drawn to each other. If one person likes the other too intensely, too soon, it can be scary, burdensome, or annoying.

Have you tried your best to the point of tears? No one else may know, but you know that you really did your best. Even if you fail, you will have nothing to regret.

Even though you did your best, their response was lukewarm, or they demanded even more of you. There's no need to despair. If you really did all you could, leave it be. If they need more, they'll be able to find a way to finish the job themselves.

If we do not express our feelings of disappointment, they will start to build up and transform into more difficult emotions, such as anger, hurt, or even betrayal, and we may come to hold a grudge. So it is best to share your disappointment, rather than leaving it to build up inside you. And when you express it, you should be careful not to do so in a way that is aggressive or critical of the other person, or when the other person is angry.

Many of us experience disconnection and related feelings like rejection, disappointment, and loneliness. If you are suffering in this way, pray for the one who has broken away from you. Send them some positive energy and good wishes. Choosing not to hate them is the best revenge, the only kind that won't leave a lasting would in your heart.