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The grand illusion of committed love is that we think our partners are ours. In truth, their separateness is unassailable, and their mystery is forever ungraspable. As soon as we can begin to acknowledge this, sustained desire becomes a real possibility. It’s remarkable to me how a sudden threat to the status quo (an affair, an infatuation, a prolonged absence, or even a really good fight) can suddenly ignite desire. There’s nothing like the fear of loss to make those old shoes look new again.
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Esther Perel (Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence)
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It is hard to imagine how free will can operate if our behavior is determined by physical law, so it seems that we are no more than biological machines and that free will is just an illusion.
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Stephen Hawking (The Grand Design)
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Memories are the grandest illusion of all.
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Roshani Chokshi (Aru Shah and the End of Time (Pandava, #1))
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Only one sort of man is worse than an Italian when it comes to their appetite for women."
"Oh? And what is that?"
"A Frenchmen.
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Lisa Tawn Bergren (Glamorous Illusions (Grand Tour, #1))
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Tu n'as rien appris, sinon que la solitude n'apprend rien, que l'indifférence n'apprend rien: c'était un leurre, une illusion fascinante et piégée. Tu étais seul et voilà tout et tu voulais te protéger: qu'entre le monde et toi les ponts soient à jamais coupés. Mais tu es si peu de chose et le monde est un si grand mot: tu n'as jamais fait qu'errer dans une grande ville, que longer sur quelques kilomètres des façades, des devantures, des parcs et des quais.
L'indifférence est inutile. Tu peux vouloir ou ne pas vouloir, qu'importe! Faire ou ne pas faire une partie de billard électrique, quelqu'un, de toute façon, glissera une pièce de vingt centimes dans la fente de l'appareil. Tu peux croire qu'à manger chaque jour le même repas tu accomplis un geste décisif. Mais ton refus est inutile. Ta neutralité ne veut rien dire. Ton inertie est aussi vaine que ta colère.
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Georges Perec (Un Homme qui dort)
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When he smiles, they mostly look away. But Martin likes to think they carry his smile for a few blocks – that even the smallest gesture is something grand.
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Simon Van Booy (The Illusion of Separateness)
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God," she said, her tone gently reproving, "brought Mr.Kensington to you, and with him, a world of potential. As I see it, each of our lives is a journey, Miss Cora. A path that takes us over the mountain or down through a dark valley. But He never abandons us. Never. That is how He cares for us - walking with us every step of the way.
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Lisa Tawn Bergren (Glamorous Illusions (Grand Tour, #1))
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We are well," Hugh said, looking me over with more intensity than seemed proper. "And you?"
"I'm well, thank you," I said, lying through my teeth. I'd been better the day I took to my bed with measles.
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Lisa Tawn Bergren (Glamorous Illusions (Grand Tour, #1))
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The grand illusion of committed love is that we think our partners are ours. In truth, their separateness is unassailable, and their mystery is forever ungraspable. As soon as we can begin to acknowledge this, sustained desire becomes a real possibility.
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Esther Perel (Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence)
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Consider the apparent dimension of the universe. According to M-theory, space-time has ten space dimensions and one time dimension. The idea is that seven of the space dimensions are curled up so small that we don’t notice them, leaving us with the illusion that all that exist are the three remaining large dimensions we are familiar with.
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Stephen Hawking (The Grand Design)
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Recent experiments in neuroscience support the view that it is our physical brain, following the known laws of science, that determines our actions, and not some agency that exists outside those laws. For example, a study of patients undergoing awake brain surgery found that by electrically stimulating the appropriate regions of the brain, one could create in the patient the desire to move the hand, arm or foot, or to move the lips and talk. It is hard to imagine how free will can operate if our behaviour is determined by physical law, so it seems that we are no more than biological machines and that free will is just an illusion.
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Stephen Hawking (The Grand Design)
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When you release the illusion of control, you begin an effortless free-fall toward a grand reunion with your original self.
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Bryant McGill
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Una de las desgracias a las que se ven sometidas las grandes inteligencias es la de comprender por fuerza todas las cosas, tanto los vicios como las virtudes.
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Honoré de Balzac (Lost Illusions)
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But that's the grand irony: countries will go to war to decide who owns the hydrocarbons and then countries gather to decide who does not own the carbon dioxide.
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Ziya Tong (The Reality Bubble: Blind Spots, Hidden Truths and the Dangerous Illusions that Shape Our World)
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Let go of limiting illusions that have held you back from knowing that just to be alive is a grand thing.
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Sarah Ban Breathnach (Simple Abundance: A Daybook of Comfort of Joy)
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And what of your children?" I gestured to the others at the table. "The only thing that divides us from that laborer who toils far beneath the surface of the earth in our fathers' mines is the blood that runs through our veins."
"Or half our blood," Vivian said with a sniff.
"Vivian,"Mr Kensington warned.
I didn't flinch. "Half my blood, then," I said with a prim nod back at Vivian. "But if I cut open my wrist alongside yours, would it not appear as the very same red? Despite your effort to be a blueblood, sister, you are as red-blooded as I.
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Lisa Tawn Bergren (Glamorous Illusions (Grand Tour, #1))
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It is a spectacular illusion – a deeply three-dimensional scene flattened onto an earthly canvas.
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Stefanie Payne (A Year in the National Parks: The Greatest American Road Trip)
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it seems that we are no more than biological machines and that free will is just an illusion.
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Stephen Hawking (The Grand Design)
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The Grand Illusion, one of the great war films of all time.
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Studs Terkel (The Good War: An Oral History of World War II)
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(Mr. Moustafa) I think his world ended long before he even entered it. Although I must say, he certainly maintained the illusion with a marvelous grace.
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Wes Anderson (The Grand Budapest Hotel: The Illustrated Screenplay)
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Le journalisme est un enfer, un abîme d'iniquités, de mensonges, de trahisons, que l'on ne peut traverser et d'où l'on ne peut sortir pur, que protégé comme Dante par le divin laurier de Virgile.
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Honoré de Balzac (Etudes de moeurs. 2e livre. Scènes de la vie de province. T. 4. Illusions perdues. 2. Un grand homme de province à Paris (French Edition))
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Were they laughing at me? I forced myself to block them from my mind, to concentrate on the lake, the water. What were they to me? People I met today, that was all. We shared blood. The One who mattered to me still found me worthy, still loved me, whether I knew when to curtsy properly or not.
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Lisa Tawn Bergren (Glamorous Illusions (Grand Tour, #1))
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Your reluctance to grow may be feeding your illusion of safety, but truth is, it's a big sign of cowardice. You're actually rejecting a HUGE OPPORTUNITY to learn how to meet the deeper needs of others.
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Lebo Grand
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How dare you - "
"How dare I offer you more than you could've ever dreamed?"
"How dare you waltz in here and presume - "
"Presume to prescribe a future with hope and promise?"
I shut my mouth abruptly, glaring at him. Then, "Are you quite finished?"
"Are you?" he asked.
"I am a free woman, Mr.Kensington. Grown. I can do as I wish.I may be blood kin to you, but I am not your employee." My eyes cut to Mama, but hers remained on the barn.
"Regardless, you shall do as I say."
I let out a sputtering, exasperated laugh. "And if I do not?"
He traced the edge of his chipped china saucer. "That would be ill advised.
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Lisa Tawn Bergren (Glamorous Illusions (Grand Tour, #1))
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Believing then … that human life is actually worth living, one can combat one’s natural pessimism by stoicism and the refusal of illusion, while embellishing the scene with any one of the following. There are the beauties of science and the extraordinary marvels of nature. There is the consolation and irony of philosophy. There are the infinite splendors of literature and poetry, not excluding the liturgical and devotional aspects of these, such as those found in John Donne or George Herbert. There is the grand resource of art and music and architecture, again not excluding those elements that aspire to the sublime. In all of these pursuits, any one of them enough to absorb a lifetime, there may be found a sense of awe and magnificence that does not depend at all on any invocation of the supernatural. Indeed, nobody armed by art and culture and literature and philosophy is likely to be anything but bored and sickened by ghost stories, UFO tales, spiritualist experiences, or babblings from the beyond.
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Christopher Hitchens (The Portable Atheist: Essential Readings for the Nonbeliever)
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A person only experiences the fathomlessly beautiful and mysterious particulars that constitute reality by giving up the distorting spectacles of our egotistical appetites and repulsive pretensions, shedding artificial attachments, living without grand illusions, and free of deceptive delusions.
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Kilroy J. Oldster (Dead Toad Scrolls)
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CYRANO à LE BRET :
Regarde-moi, mon cher, et dis quelle espérance
Pourrait bien me laisser cette protubérance !
Oh ! je ne me fais pas d'illusion ! - Parbleu,
Oui, quelquefois, je m'attendris, dans le soir bleu ;
J'entre en quelque jardin où l'heure se parfume ;
Avec mon pauvre grand diable de nez je hume
L'avril, - je suis des yeux, sous un rayon d'argent,
Au bras d'un cavalier, quelque femme, en songeant
Que pour marcher, à petits pas, dans de la lune,
Aussi moi j'aimerais au bras en avoir une,
Je m'exalte, j'oublie... et j'aperçois soudain
L'ombre de mon profil sur le mur du jardin !
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Edmond Rostand (Cyrano de Bergerac)
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The grand illusion of life is that our minds have the capacity to understand reality. But human minds didn’t evolve to understand reality. We didn’t need that capability. A clear view of reality wasn’t necessary for our survival. Evolution cares only that you survive long enough to procreate. And that’s a low bar. The result is that each of us is, in effect, living in our own little movie that our brain has cooked up for us to explain our experiences
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Scott Adams (Win Bigly: Persuasion in a World Where Facts Don't Matter)
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Science similarly contains within itself the devices for correcting the illusions of science. That is its crowning glory. When we come upon intellectual endeavours that contain no such devices—one might cite psychoanalysis, grand political theories, ‘new age’ science, creationist science—we need not be interested.
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Simon Blackburn (Think: A Compelling Introduction to Philosophy)
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just an actor in the grand illusion.
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L.T. Ryan (Unleashed (Blake Brier #2))
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We have arrived here in this illusory place. Now we just have to figure out how to deal with this grand illusion of our life.
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Art Hochberg
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there are other requirements for some jobs besides academic brilliance.
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L.E. Modesitt Jr. (Isolate (The Grand Illusion, #1))
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L’un des malheurs auxquels sont soumises les grandes intelligences, c’est de comprendre forcément toutes choses, les vices aussi bien que les vertus.
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Honoré de Balzac (Illusions perdues; Tome 3 (French Edition))
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Une des plus grandes niaiseries du commerce parisien est de vouloir trouver le succès dans les analogues, quand il est dans les contraires A
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Honoré de Balzac (Etudes de moeurs. 2e livre. Scènes de la vie de province. T. 4. Illusions perdues. 2. Un grand homme de province à Paris (French Edition))
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Control? This is the grand illusion. I can barely control my bladder. Money doesn’t give you control, it buys you a nicer coat.
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Alok Sama (The Money Trap: Lost Illusions Inside the Tech Bubble)
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In her fantastic mood she stretched her soft, clasped hands upward toward the moon.
'Sweet moon,' she said in a kind of mock prayer, 'make your white light come down in music into my dancing-room here, and I will dance most deliciously for you to see". She flung her head backward and let her hands fall; her eyes were half closed, and her mouth was a kissing mouth. 'Ah! sweet moon,' she whispered, 'do this for me, and I will be your slave; I will be what you will.'
Quite suddenly the air was filled with the sound of a grand invisible orchestra. Viola did not stop to wonder. To the music of a slow saraband she swayed and postured. In the music there was the regular beat of small drums and a perpetual drone. The air seemed to be filled with the perfume of some bitter spice. Viola could fancy almost that she saw a smoldering campfire and heard far off the roar of some desolate wild beast. She let her long hair fall, raising the heavy strands of it in either hand as she moved slowly to the laden music. Slowly her body swayed with drowsy grace, slowly her satin shoes slid over the silver sand.
The music ceased with a clash of cymbals. Viola rubbed her eyes. She fastened her hair up carefully again. Suddenly she looked up, almost imperiously.
"Music! more music!" she cried.
Once more the music came. This time it was a dance of caprice, pelting along over the violin-strings, leaping, laughing, wanton. Again an illusion seemed to cross her eyes. An old king was watching her, a king with the sordid history of the exhaustion of pleasure written on his flaccid face. A hook-nosed courtier by his side settled the ruffles at his wrists and mumbled, 'Ravissant! Quel malheur que la vieillesse!' It was a strange illusion. Faster and faster she sped to the music, stepping, spinning, pirouetting; the dance was light as thistle-down, fierce as fire, smooth as a rapid stream.
The moment that the music ceased Viola became horribly afraid. She turned and fled away from the moonlit space, through the trees, down the dark alleys of the maze, not heeding in the least which turn she took, and yet she found herself soon at the outside iron gate. ("The Moon Slave")
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Barry Pain (Ghostly By Gaslight)
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Los hombres de genio no tenían hermanos ni hermanas, ni padres ni madres; las grandes obras que habrían de crear les imponían un egoísmo aparente al obligarles a sacrificarlo todo a su grandeza.
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Honoré de Balzac (Lost Illusions)
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In the grand scheme of things, all human beings are part of the same family, regardless of origin.* The divisions we have built between ourselves along the lines of race and geography are illusions.
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Daniel H. Wilson (The Andromeda Evolution (Andromeda #2))
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There’s this contrived illusion that when you have some sort of sex appeal, it means you are sensual. But sex appeal isn’t indicative of sensuality, it’s your vibration that’s indicative of your sensuality.
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Lebo Grand
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All, when life is new,
Commence with feelings warm and prospects high;
But time strips our illusions of their hue,
And one by one in turn, some grand mistake
Casts off its bright skin yearly like the snake.
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Lord Byron
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once votes are made public, those with power and marks can target councilors who oppose them, and the temptation becomes ever greater for each councilor to give in to either marks or popularity, if not both.
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L.E. Modesitt Jr. (Isolate (The Grand Illusion, #1))
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a study of patients undergoing awake brain surgery found that by electrically stimulating the appropriate regions of the brain, one could create in the patient the desire to move the hand, arm, or foot, or to move the lips and talk. It is hard to imagine how free will can operate if our behavior is determined by physical law, so it seems that we are no more than biological machines and that free will is just an illusion.
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Stephen Hawking (The Grand Design)
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Progress. — Let us not be deceived! Time marches forward; we'd like to believe that everything that is in it also marches forward— that the development is one that moves forward. The most level-headed are led astray by this illusion. But the nineteenth century does not represent progress over the sixteenth; and the German spirit of 1888 represents a regress from the German spirit of 1788. "Mankind" does not advance, it does not even exist. The overall aspect is that of a tremendous experimental laboratory in which a few successes are scored, scattered throughout all ages, while there are untold failures, and all order, logic, union, and obligingness are lacking. How can we fail to recognize that the ascent of Christianity is a movement of decadence? -That the German Reformation is a recrudescence of Christian barbarism? -That the Revolution destroyed the instinct for a grand organization of society? Man represents no progress over the animal: the civilized tenderfoot is an abortion compared to the Arab and Corsican; the Chinese is a more successful type, namely more durable, than the European.
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Friedrich Nietzsche
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Les jeunes gens, qui ne savaient à quoi employer leurs forces, ne les jetaient pas seulement dans le journalisme, dans les conspirations, dans la littérature et dans l'art, ils les dissipaient dans les plus étranges excès, tant
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Honoré de Balzac (Etudes de moeurs. 2e livre. Scènes de la vie de province. T. 4. Illusions perdues. 2. Un grand homme de province à Paris (French Edition))
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The thing you have to remember about artists...is never to trust their immediate response. Whatever the news, their reaction will be self-protective. The mask goes on, and you see only what they let you see. These creatures carry their emotions around in a violin-case, reserving their only honest expression for the public stage. In private, they turn emotion on and off at will. Never believe an artist when he weeps or declares love. It's all a grand performance. Treat their upsets as you would a child's tantrums. Console, then instruct. Show compassion when it's called for, firmness when it runs out. Give them an illusion of your love for them - but never love itself, or they will devour you.
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Norman Lebrecht (The Song of Names)
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Notre plus grande peur est la peur d'aimer. Toute souffrance a commencé par l'amour ; l'amour bafoué, renié, ignoré. L'abandon ou les cris dans une chambre d'enfant.
Si c'est cette peur qui nous fait souhaiter construire un univers où nous n'aurons plus peur - où régnera une atmosphère de sécurité- , alors l'impulsion créatrice n'est pas la bonne. Si c'est la peur qui nous fait rêver d'un monde sans violence, nous y programmons aussitôt la violence.
"Qui préfère la sécurité à la liberté aura vite fait de perdre les deux."
Il faut sortir de l'illusion sécurisante.
L'amour, par nature, met en danger. L'amour nous emporte au large, loin des estuaires et des ports de plaisance. Il décoiffe les anxieux, les craintifs, les inquiets. (p. 79-80)
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Christiane Singer (N'oublie pas les chevaux écumants du passé)
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Tatyana’s Letter to Onegin I’m writing you this declaration— What more can I in candour say? It may be now your inclination To scorn me and to turn away; But if my hapless situation Evokes some pity for my woe, You won’t abandon me, I know. I first tried silence and evasion; Believe me, you‘d have never learned My secret shame, had I discerned The slightest hope that on occasion— But once a week—I’d see your face, Behold you at our country place, Might hear you speak a friendly greeting, Could say a word to you; and then, Could dream both day and night again Of but one thing, till our next meeting. They say you like to be alone And find the country unappealing; We lack, I know, a worldly tone, But still, we welcome you with feeling. Why did you ever come to call? In this forgotten country dwelling I’d not have known you then at all, Nor known this bitter heartache’s swelling. Perhaps, when time had helped in quelling The girlish hopes on which I fed, I might have found (who knows?) another And been a faithful wife and mother, Contented with the life I led. Another! No! In all creation There’s no one else whom I’d adore; The heavens chose my destination And made me thine for evermore! My life till now has been a token In pledge of meeting you, my friend; And in your coming, God has spoken, You‘ll be my guardian till the end…. You filled my dreams and sweetest trances; As yet unseen, and yet so dear, You stirred me with your wondrous glances, Your voice within my soul rang clear…. And then the dream came true for me! When you came in, I seemed to waken, I turned to flame, I felt all shaken, And in my heart I cried: It’s he! And was it you I heard replying Amid the stillness of the night, Or when I helped the poor and dying, Or turned to heaven, softly crying, And said a prayer to soothe my plight? And even now, my dearest vision, Did I not see your apparition Flit softly through this lucent night? Was it not you who seemed to hover Above my bed, a gentle lover, To whisper hope and sweet delight? Are you my angel of salvation Or hell’s own demon of temptation? Be kind and send my doubts away; For this may all be mere illusion, The things a simple girl would say, While Fate intends no grand conclusion…. So be it then! Henceforth I place My faith in you and your affection; I plead with tears upon my face And beg you for your kind protection. You cannot know: I’m so alone, There’s no one here to whom I’ve spoken, My mind and will are almost broken, And I must die without a moan. I wait for you … and your decision: Revive my hopes with but a sign, Or halt this heavy dream of mine— Alas, with well-deserved derision! I close. I dare not now reread…. I shrink with shame and fear. But surely, Your honour’s all the pledge I need, And I submit to it securely.
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Alexander Pushkin (Eugene Onegin)
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Las almas grandes están siempre dispuestas a hacer de una desgracia una virtud. Existe además un atractivo irresistible en obstinarse en hacer un bien en aquello en lo que los demás ven un motivo de reproche: la inocencia tiene el atractivo propio del vicio.
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Honoré de Balzac (Lost Illusions)
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Lucien traversa le Pont-Neuf en proie à mille réflexions. Ce qu'il avait compris de cet argot commercial lui fit deviner que, pour ces libraires, les livres étaient comme des bonnets de coton pour des bonnetiers, une marchandise à vendre cher, à acheter bon marché.
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Honoré de Balzac (Etudes de moeurs. 2e livre. Scènes de la vie de province. T. 4. Illusions perdues. 2. Un grand homme de province à Paris (French Edition))
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Ces journalistes obscurs, payés seulement après l'insertion, restaient souvent pendant la nuit aux imprimeries pour voir mettre sous presse, soit les grands articles obtenus, Dieu sait comme ! soit ces quelques lignes qui prirent depuis le nom de réclames. Aujourd'hui,
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Honoré de Balzac (Etudes de moeurs. 2e livre. Scènes de la vie de province. T. 4. Illusions perdues. 2. Un grand homme de province à Paris (French Edition))
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Dans la langue des viveurs, doubler un cap dans Paris, c'est faire un détour, soit pour ne pas passer devant un créancier, soit pour éviter l'endroit où il peut être rencontre. Lucien qui n'allait pas indifféremment par toutes les rues, connaissait la manoeuvre sans en connaître le nom.
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Honoré de Balzac (Etudes de moeurs. 2e livre. Scènes de la vie de province. T. 4. Illusions perdues. 2. Un grand homme de province à Paris (French Edition))
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At its root, the logic is that of the Grand Inquisitor, who bitterly assailed Christ for offering people freedom and thus condemning them to misery. The Church must correct the evil work of Christ by offering the miserable mass of humanity the gift they most desire and need: absolute submission. It must “vanquish freedom” so as “to make men happy” and provide the total “community of worship” that they avidly seek. In the modern secular age, this means worship of the state religion, which in the Western democracies incorporates the doctrine of submission to the masters of the system of public subsidy, private profit, called free enterprise. The people must be kept in ignorance, reduced to jingoist incantations, for their own good. And like the Grand Inquisitor, who employs the forces of miracle, mystery, and authority “to conquer and hold captive for ever the conscience of these impotent rebels for their happiness” and to deny them the freedom of choice they so fear and despise, so the “cool observers” must create the “necessary illusions” and “emotionally potent oversimplifications” that keep the ignorant and stupid masses disciplined and content.
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Noam Chomsky (Necessary Illusions: Thought Control in Democratic Societies)
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Love isn’t grand gestures and fancy declarations; it’s getting your hands dirty, and being there, and opening yourself up for the people you love…and letting them give all of that back to you. It’s about being honest and handling their hearts with the amount of care you want yours handled with.
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Nina Levine (Illusive (Storm MC, #5))
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Les actrices payent aussi les éloges, mais les plus habiles payent les critiques, le silence est ce qu'elles redoutent le plus. Aussi une critique, faite pour être rétorquée ailleurs, vaut-elle mieux et se paye-t-elle plus cher qu'un éloge tout sec, oublié le lendemain. La polémique, mon cher, est le piédestal des célébrités. A
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Honoré de Balzac (Etudes de moeurs. 2e livre. Scènes de la vie de province. T. 4. Illusions perdues. 2. Un grand homme de province à Paris (French Edition))
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I fucking stunk. I mean embarrassingly stunk, and it reflected like a funhouse mirror in the eyes of everyone present including Mother—after she’d made such a production over me being in Hollywood chasing my acting dream. Testifying-in-court kind of stink. If you’ve ever had the honor of publically sucking on a grand scale, you know that the worst part is how you’re treated afterwards. People avoid you like you’re carrying head lice or, if cornered, try to spin an illusive positive angle, as though you are somehow unaware that you just ruthlessly embarrassed yourself. I’ve had friends with terminal cancer who’ve talked about getting similar reactions. I had acting cancer.
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Doug Stanhope (Digging Up Mother: A Love Story)
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You take things coolly, sir,’ said Juan. ‘Why,’
Replied the other, ‘what can a man do?
There still are many rainbows in your sky,
But mine have vanish’d. All, when life is new,
Commence with feelings warm, and prospects high;
But time strips our illusions of their hue,
And one by one in turn, some grand mistake
Casts off its bright skin yearly like the snake.
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Lord Byron (Don Juan)
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Lucien ne reconnut pas sa Louise dans cette chambre froide, sans soleil, à rideaux passés, dont le carreau frotté semblait misérable, où le meuble était usé, de mauvais goût, vieux ou d'occasion. Il est en effet certaines personnes qui n'ont plus ni le même aspect ni la même valeur, une fois séparées des figures, des choses, des lieux qui leur servent de cadre. Les
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Honoré de Balzac (Etudes de moeurs. 2e livre. Scènes de la vie de province. T. 4. Illusions perdues. 2. Un grand homme de province à Paris (French Edition))
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The United States has not consciously chosen a grand strategy over the last several decades; rather it has made a series of policy decisions that have largely resulted from political motivations while being sold as part of a coherent plan after the fact, or more precisely, as a collection of coherent plans that are advocated for or forgotten about depending on the needs of the moment. Thus, those who want to change American foreign policy should not expect to succeed primarily by making arguments as to why the United States is implementing the wrong grand strategy. Rather, one would have to work to change the incentive structures that lead some ideas to gain currency, and government officials to make certain decisions but not others.
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Richard Hanania (Public Choice Theory and the Illusion of Grand Strategy: How Generals, Weapons Manufacturers, and Foreign Governments Shape American Foreign Policy)
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L'étudiant parqué dans le quartier latin y a la connaissance la plus exacte des Temps : il sait quand les haricots et les petits pois réussissent, quand la Halle regorge de choux, quelle salade y abonde, et si la betterave a manqué. Une vieille calomnie, répétée au moment où Lucien y venait, consistait à attribuer l'apparition des beafteaks à quelque mortalité sur les chevaux. Peu
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Honoré de Balzac (Etudes de moeurs. 2e livre. Scènes de la vie de province. T. 4. Illusions perdues. 2. Un grand homme de province à Paris (French Edition))
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femme est le grand mensonge du Rêve. Tu connais ces heures délicieuses passées face à face avec cet être à longs cheveux, aux traits charmeurs et dont le regard nous affole. Quel délire égare notre esprit ! Quelle illusion nous emporte ! Elle et moi, nous n’allons plus faire qu’un, tout à l’heure, semble-t-il ? Mais ce tout à l’heure n’arrive jamais, et, après des semaines d’attente, d’espérance et
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Guy de Maupassant (Œuvres complètes)
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As psychologist Bruce Hood writes in his book The Self Illusion, you have an origin story and a sense that you’ve traveled from youth to now along a linear path, with ups and downs that ultimately made you who you are today. Babies don’t have that. That sense is built around events that you can recall and place in time. Babies and small children have what Hood calls “unconscious knowledge,” which is to say they simply recognize patterns and make associations with stimuli. Without episodic memories, there is no narrative; and without any narrative, there is no self. Somewhere between ages two and three, according to Hood, that sense of self begins to come online, and that awakening corresponds with the ability to tell a story about yourself based on memories. He points to a study by Alison Gopnik and Janet Astington in 1988 in which researchers presented to three-year-olds a box of candy, but the children were then surprised to find pencils inside instead of sweets. When they asked each child what the next kid would think was in the box when he or she went through the same experiment, the answer was usually pencils. The children didn’t yet know that other people have minds, so they assumed everyone knew what they knew. Once you gain the ability to assume others have their own thoughts, the concept of other minds is so powerful that you project it into everything: plants, glitchy computers, boats with names, anything that makes more sense to you when you can assume, even jokingly, it has a sort of self. That sense of agency is so powerful that people throughout time have assumed a consciousness at the helm of the sun, the moon, the winds, and the seas. Out of that sense of self and other selves come the narratives that have kept whole societies together. The great mythologies of the ancients and moderns are stories made up to make sense of things on a grand scale. So strong is the narrative bias that people live and die for such stories and devote whole lives to them (as well as take lives for them).
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David McRaney (You Are Now Less Dumb: How to Conquer Mob Mentality, How to Buy Happiness, and All the Other Ways to Outsmart Yourself)
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[W]here in the world did you get the ideathat the Lord wants the truth from us? It is a strange, a most orig-
inal, idea of yours, My Lord [Cardinal]. Why, he knows it already, and may even have found it a little bit dull. Truth is for tailors and shoemakers, My Lord. I, on the contrary, have always held that the Lord has a penchant for masquerades. Do you not yourself tell us, my lords spiritual, that our trials are really blessings in disguise? And so they are. I, too, have found them to be so, at midnight, at the hour when the mask falls. But at the same time nobody can deny that they have been dressed up by the hand of an unrivaled expert. The Lord himself—with your permission—seems
to me to have been masquerading pretty freely at the time when he took on flesh and dwelt amongst us.”
--The Deluge at Norderney
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Isak Dinesen (Seven Gothic Tales)
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Un jeune homme se présenta pour être rédacteur de l'air timide et inquiet qu'avait Lucien naguère. Lucien vit avec un plaisir secret Giroudeau pratiquant sur le néophyte les plaisanteries par lesquelles le vieux militaire l'avait abusé ; son intérêt lui fit parfaitement comprendre la nécessité de ce manége, qui mettait des barrières presque infranchissables entre les débutants et la mansarde où pénétraient les élus.
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Honoré de Balzac (Etudes de moeurs. 2e livre. Scènes de la vie de province. T. 4. Illusions perdues. 2. Un grand homme de province à Paris (French Edition))
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As philosopher Brian Keeley has pointed out, by weaving every niggling anomaly into a grand unifying theory, conspiracy theories can look stronger than the official stories by sheer virtue of completeness. Conspiracy theories “always explain more than competing theories, because by invoking a conspiracy, they can explain both the data of the received account and the errant data that the received theory fails to explain.” But this apparent virtue, Keeley argues, is an illusion. You can find anomalies everywhere if you look hard enough. Our understanding of complex events will always contain errors, contradictions, and gaps. History is messy, people are fallible. “Given the imperfect nature of our human understanding of the world, we should expect that even the best possible theory would not explain all the available data,” Keeley concludes.
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Rob Brotherton (Suspicious Minds: Why We Believe Conspiracy Theories)
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Though we feel that we can choose what we do, our understanding of the molecular basis of biology shows that biological processes are governed by the laws of physics and chemistry and therefore are as determined as the orbits of the planets. Recent experiments in neuroscience support the view that it is our physical brain, following the known laws of science, that determines our actions, and not some agency that exists outside those laws. For example, a study of patients undergoing awake brain surgery found that by electrically stimulating the appropriate regions of the brain, one could create in the patient the desire to move the hand, arm, or foot, or to move the lips and talk. It is hard to imagine how free will can operate if our behavior is determined by physical law, so it seems that we are no more than biological machines and that free will is just an illusion.
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Stephen Hawking (The Grand Design)
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Tout écrivain porte en son coeur un monstre qui, semblable au taenia dans l'estomac, y dévore les sentiments à mesure qu'ils y éclosent. Qui triomphera ? la maladie de l'homme, ou l'homme de la maladie ? Certes, il faut être un grand homme pour tenir la balance entre son génie et son caractère. Le talent grandit, le coeur se dessèche. A moins d'être un colosse, à moins d'avoir des épaules d'Hercule, on reste ou sans coeur ou sans talent. Vous
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Honoré de Balzac (Etudes de moeurs. 2e livre. Scènes de la vie de province. T. 4. Illusions perdues. 2. Un grand homme de province à Paris (French Edition))
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Nous arrivons à un temps où, les fortunes diminuant par leur égalisation, tout s'appauvrira : nous voudrons du linge et des livres à bon marché, comme on commence à vouloir de petits tableaux, faute d'espace pour en placer de grands. Les chemises et les livres ne dureront pas, voilà tout. La solidité des produits s'en va de toutes parts. Aussi le problème à résoudre est-il de la plus haute importance pour la littérature, pour les sciences et pour la politique. Il
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Honoré de Balzac (Etudes de moeurs . 2e livre. Scènes de la vie de province. T. 4. Illusions perdues. 3. Eve et David (French Edition))
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the Sicilians never want to improve for the simple reason that they think themselves perfect; their vanity is stronger than their misery; every invasion by outsiders, whether so by origin or, if Sicilian, by independence of spirit, upsets their illusion of achieved perfection, risks disturbing their satisfied waiting for nothing; having been trampled on by a dozen different peoples, they consider they have an imperial past which gives them a right to a grand funeral. Do
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Giuseppe Tomasi di Lampedusa (The Leopard)
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Je verrais tous mes ancêtres, des pauvres, des hors-la-loi, des perdants épuisés par la vie, mais je verrais surtout l’ensemble de mes rêves, le catalogue de mes illusions, le sourire de mes peines, la lumière de mes émerveillements. Dans la profondeur de ma glace intime, je me suis imaginé heureux, je me suis déclaré beau, contre les évidences qui me disent le contraire. Le chien, quand il regarde son maître, voit un grand chien-maître. Ou peut-être croit-il qu’il est lui-même un humain, allez savoir.
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Serge Bouchard (Un café avec Marie (French Edition))
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A so-called busy man may declare the day to be endless, or may mourn how the hours crawl slowly toward dinner time, but this is no evidence that this man’s life is long. For when the busy man finally has some time to himself he’s left to stew in boundless boredom with nothing to do and with no clue how to fill his day. Restlessly these types seek new ways to be at leisure and the time between play needles them to no end. Their excitement peaks at the announcement of a gladiator bout or some other such spectacle and they long to skip the days that lie between now and the grand day of extravagant entertainment. Their impatient waiting for something they desire gives them the illusion that time is passing by slowly. Yet their days on Earth remain finite, even as they fritter away time bobbing from one pleasure to another. For these wasters, uneventful afternoons of no play are long and hateful. Yet a single night out drinking with a harlot seems to fly by in no time! This strange perception of the passage of time depending on one’s mood and company has provided material for the poets. We have heard tales of how when Jupiter was with a lover the night he spent in her pleasant company seemed to pass twice as long. But doesn’t using the story concerning a god as an example of how to make time pass longer merely encourage more human vice? Can a night that costs a man so much really be regretted by that same man for being so short? They waste the day in anticipation of the night, then spend the night worrying about the coming dawn.
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Seneca (Stoic Six Pack 2 (Illustrated): Consolations From A Stoic, On The Shortness of Life and More)
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Pero las personas que viven como vivía monsieur de Bargeton, en un silencio impuesto por su cortedad mental y sus pocos alcances, adquieren en los grandes momentos de la vida una grandeza natural. Al hablar poco, se les escapan naturalmente muy pocas tonterías; luego, al reflexionar mucho sobre lo que deben decir, la extrema desconfianza hacia sí mismos les leva a estudiar tan bien lo que han de decir que se expresan a las mil maravillas debido a un fenómeno parecido al que desató la lengua de la burra de Balaam.
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Honoré de Balzac (Lost Illusions)
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She hopes that she will love him this way for the rest of her life. But just because she loves him, and he loves her, it doesn't mean he knows her. What is love anyway, she thinks, but a grand illusion? We fall in love with an ideal, not a reality. Tom loves who he thinks she is. He's proven himself to be remarkably adaptable in that regard. She loves who she thinks he is. And that's the way it is the whole world over, she tells herself, watching out the train window, people falling in and out of love, as their perception of reality changes.
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Shari Lapena (A Stranger in the House)
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When Franz returned to himself, he seemed still to be in a dream. He thought himself in a sepulchre, into which a ray of sunlight in pity scarcely penetrated. He stretched forth his hand, and touched stone; he rose to his seat, and found himself lying on his bournous in a bed of dry heather, very soft and odoriferous. The vision had fled; and as if the statues had been but shadows from the tomb, they had vanished at his waking. He advanced several paces towards the point whence the light came, and to all the excitement of his dream succeeded the calmness of reality. He found that he was in a grotto, went towards the opening, and through a kind of fanlight saw a blue sea and an azure sky. The air and water were shining in the beams of the morning sun; on the shore the sailors were sitting, chatting and laughing; and at ten yards from them the boat was at anchor, undulating gracefully on the water. There for some time he enjoyed the fresh breeze which played on his brow, and listened to the dash of the waves on the beach, that left against the rocks a lace of foam as white as silver. He was for some time without reflection or thought for the divine charm which is in the things of nature, specially after a fantastic dream; then gradually this view of the outer world, so calm, so pure, so grand, reminded him of the illusiveness of his vision, and once more awakened memory. He recalled his arrival on the island, his presentation to a smuggler chief, a subterranean palace full of splendor, an excellent supper, and a spoonful of hashish. It seemed, however, even in the very face of open day, that at least a year had elapsed since all these things had passed, so deep was the impression made in his mind by the dream, and so strong a hold had it taken of his imagination. Thus every now and then he saw in fancy amid the sailors, seated on a rock, or undulating in the vessel, one of the shadows which had shared his dream with looks and kisses. Otherwise, his head was perfectly clear, and his body refreshed; he was free from the slightest headache; on the contrary, he felt a certain degree of lightness, a faculty for absorbing the pure air, and enjoying the bright sunshine more vividly than ever.
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Alexandre Dumas (The Count of Monte Cristo)
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True, at first sight, Grand manifested both the outward signs and typical manner of a humble employee in the local administration. Tall and thin he seemed lost in the garments that the always chose a size too large, under the illusion that they would wear longer. Though he still had most of the teeth in his lower jaw, all the upper ones were gone, with the result that when he smiled, raising his upper lip - the lower scarcely moved - his mouth looked like a small black hole let into his face. Also he had the walk of a shy young priest, sidling along walls and slipping mouselike into doorways, and he exuded a faint odor of smoke and basement rooms; in short, he had all the attributes of insignificance. Indeed, it cost an effort to picture him otherwise than bent over a desk, studiously revising the tariff of the town baths or gathering for a junior secretary the materials of a report on the new garbage-collection tax. Even before you knew what his employment was, you had a feeling that he'd been brought into the world for the sole purpose of performing the discreet but needful duties of a temporary assistant municipal clerk on a salary of sixty-two francs, thirty centimes a day.
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Albert Camus
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The point is that if you think you can pinpoint the cause, then you can fool yourself into thinking you can avert the cause. It's deeply egotistical. It's life played as a grand insurance policy. Our myth-making around cancer stems from the same impulse. Because we don't know exactly why most of it happens, we weave a makeshift wisdom around it, a false prophet, which seeps into the common story and feeds our hunger to understand why. The guilt is a byproduct, a way to assign blame and seek absolution. It's a lesser evil than the forces of randomness. And it gives us the illusion of control.
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Alanna Mitchell (Malignant Metaphor: Confronting Cancer Myths)
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Grand Sky/Grand Prairie
Both harbor the vastness of space. One holds the space
Of starlight, thunder snow, rock and icy comets, scrolls
Of clouds; the other the spaces inside see heart and ovum,
Root webs, spider webs, budded blossoms.
They lean together tightly day and night, pressing
One into the other, each creating the horizon of the other.
They exchange themselves. At evening one becomes
The steady night in which the other lives. Yet witness
How the moon first rises from the body of the prairie
Into the height of the sky that then possesses it.
Their horizons are persistent illusion.
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Pattiann Rogers (Quickening Fields (Penguin Poets))
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the modern religions of secular salvation have undermined their own main assumption: that the future would be materially superior to the present. Nothing less than this sense of expectation, central to modern political and economic thinking, has gone missing today, especially among those who have themselves never had it so good. History suddenly seems dizzyingly open-ended, just as Henry James experienced it when war broke out in 1914 and he confronted the possibility that the much-vaunted progress of the nineteenth century was a malign illusion – ‘the tide that bore us along was all the while moving to this as its grand Niagara’.
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Pankaj Mishra (Age of Anger: A History of the Present)
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But an adherence to ideology, to any ideology, can give us the grand illusion of freedom when in fact we are being manipulated and used by those whom the theory serves. The struggle for freedom has to be a struggle toward integrity defined in every possible sphere of reality—sexual integrity, economic integrity, psychological integrity, integrity of expression, integrity of faith and loyalty and heart. Anything that shortcuts us away from viewing integrity as an essential goal or anything that diverts our attention from integrity as a revolutionary value serves only to reinforce the authoritarian values of the world in which we live.
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Robert Jensen (The End of Patriarchy: Radical Feminism for Men)
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Certes, si les sacristies humides où les prières se pèsent et se
payent comme des épices, si les magasins des revendeuses où flottent des guenilles qui flétrissent toutes les illusions de la vie en nous montrant où aboutissent nos fêtes, si ces deux cloaques de la poésie n’existaient pas, une étude d’avoué serait de toutes les boutiques sociales la plus horrible. Mais il en est ainsi de la maison de jeu, du tribunal, du bureau de loterie et du mauvais lieu. Pourquoi? Peut-être dans ces endroits le drame, en se jouant dans l’âme de l’homme, lui rend-il les accessoires indifférents, ce qui expliquerait aussi la simplicité du grand penseur et des grands ambitieux.
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Honoré de Balzac (Le Colonel Chabert)
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Qui me reflète sinon toi-même
Je me vois si peu
Sans toi je ne vois rien
Qu’une étendue déserte
Entre autrefois et aujourd’hui
Il y a eu toutes ces morts
Que j’ai franchies
Sur de la paille
Je n’ai pas pu percer
Le mur de mon miroir
Il m’a fallu apprendre
Mot par mot la vie
Comme on oublie
Je t’aime pour ta sagesse
Qui n’est pas la mienne
Pour la santé je t’aime
Contre tout ce qui n’est qu’illusion
Pour ce cœur immortel
Que je ne détiens pas
Que tu crois être le doute
Et tu n’es que raison
Tu es le grand soleil
Qui me monte à la tête
Quand je suis sûr de moi
Quand je suis sûr de moi
Tu es le grand soleil
Qui me monte à la tête
Quand je suis sûr de moi
Quand je suis sûr de moi
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Paul Éluard
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Ce papier, qui d’abord a l’inconvénient de se couper et de se casser, se dissout dans l’eau si facilement qu’un livre en papier de coton s’y mettrait en bouillie en y restant un quart d’heure, tandis qu’un vieux livre ne serait pas perdu en y restant deux heures. On ferait sécher le vieux livre ; et, quoique jauni, passé, le texte en serait encore lisible, l’œuvre ne serait pas détruite. Nous arrivons à un temps où, les fortunes diminuant par leur égalisation, tout s’appauvrira : nous voudrons du linge et des livres à bon marché, comme on commence à vouloir de petits tableaux, faute d’espace pour en placer de grands. Les chemises et les livres ne dureront pas, voilà tout. La solidité des produits s’en va de toutes parts.
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Honoré de Balzac (Illusions perdues; Tome 3 (French Edition))
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Mais cette grande Angleterre s’irritera de ce que nous disons ici. Elle a encore, après son 1688 et notre 1789, l’illusion féodale. Elle croit à l’hérédité et à la hiérarchie. Ce peuple, qu’aucun ne dépasse en puissance et en gloire, s’estime comme nation, non comme peuple. En tant que peuple, il se subordonne volontiers et prend un lord pour une tête. Workmann, il se laisse dédaigner ; soldat, il se laisse bâtonner. On se souvient qu’à la bataille d’Inkermann un sergent qui, à ce qu’il paraît, avait sauvé l’armée, ne put être mentionné par lord Raglan, la hiérarchie militaire anglaise ne permettant de citer dans un rapport aucun héros au-dessous du grade d’officier. Ce que nous admirons par-dessus tout, dans une rencontre du genre de celle de Waterloo, c’est la prodigieuse habileté du hasard.
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Victor Hugo (Les Misérables: Roman (French Edition))
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Mankind - proud conqueror and king
swings its flag of primal glory to the winds
Titans of the power-myth that failed
Neanderthal hunger for the flesh of war so frail
So weak, so hollow-minded
the primat flock responds
the jester race submits
For each day of war is a failure for man,
enslaved in her mordial genes
Illusions bleed from their fetid cores,
bent to their rotten extremes
We, the plague of Terra Firma,
nature's grand and last mistake
plant the poisoned seed of cancer,
set the severed fruits awake
Burning like frozen relics
in god's archaic graveland
Burn the visionaire
Kill the ideaologies
Mankind must die
The doves and the angels return to their graves
with flames on their pestilent wings
while mushroom-clouds haunt their virginwhite skies
to rape their utopian dreams
Living the last days of evolution's end
from the nest of humanity, the graveland vultures rend
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Anders Friden
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So there are two ways of seeing this world. One is maya, the grand illusion. You want nothing to do with this. This is what creates problems. This appears to create animosity, sorrow. But then there is the real world. The world of the Self. The world of Bliss. The world of total joy, unalloyed peace and happiness. This is what you really are. This is your real nature, your swarupa. You have always been this and you will always be this. Forget about the past. Do not worry about the future. Have total faith, total joy, in yourself. Only when you can understand yourself as All Pervading Consciousness can you possibly understand that all the universe is an emanation of your mind. Everything that you see comes out of you. You are the Creator. You are the God. You are the Avatar, the Atman. All the Gods that you've heard of, the Buddha, Krishna, Jehovah, Allah, they're all you. You are That. You are nothing else but That. You've always been That. Tat Tvam Asi. This is you.
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Robert Adams (Silence of the Heart: Dialogues with Robert Adams)
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Dr. Kerry said he'd been watching me. "You act like someone who is impersonating someone else. And it's as if you think your life depends on it."
I didn't know what to say, so I said nothing.
"It has never occurred to you," he said, "that you might have as much right to be here as anyone." He waited for an explanation.
"I would enjoy serving the dinner," I said, "more than eating it."
Dr. Kerry smiled. "You should trust Professor Steinberg. If he says you're a scholar-'pure gold,' I heard him say-then you are."
"This is a magical place," I said. "Everything shines here."
"You must stop yourself from thinking like that," Dr. Kerry said, his voice raised. "You are not fool's gold, shining only under a particular light. Whomever you become, whatever you make yourself into, that is who you always were. It was always in you. Not in Cambridge. In you. You are gold. And returning to BYU, or even to that mountain you came from, will not change who you are. It may change how others see you, it may even change how you see yourself-even gold appears dull in some lighting-but that is the illusion. And it always was."
I wanted to believe him, to take his words and remake myself, but I'd never had that kind of faith. No matter how deeply I interred the memories, how tightly I shut my eyes against them, when I thought of my self, the images that came to mind were of that girl, in the bathroom, in the parking lot.
I couldn't tell Dr. Kerry about that girl. I couldn't tell him that the reason I couldn't return to Cambridge was that being here threw into great relief every violent and degrading moment of my life. At BYU I could almost forget, allow what had been to blend into what was. But the contrast here was too great, the world before my eyes too fantastical. The memories were more real-more believable-than the stone spires.
To myself I pretended there were other reasons I couldn't belong at Cambridge, reasons having to do with class and status: that it was because I was poor, had grown up poor. Because I could stand in the wind on the chapel roof and not tilt. That was the person who didn't belong in Cambridge: the roofer, not the whore. I can go to school, I had written in my journal that very afternoon. And I can buy new clothes. But I am still Tara Westover. I have done jobs no Cambridge student would do. Dress us any way you like, we are not the same. Clothes could not fix what was wrong with me. Something had rotted on the inside.
Whether Dr. Kerry suspected any part of this, I'm not sure. But he understood that I had fixated on clothes as the symbol of why I didn't, and couldn't, belong. It was the last thing he said to me before he walked away, leaving me rooted, astonished, beside that grand chapel.
"The most powerful determinant of who you are is inside you," he said. "Professor Steinberg says this is Pygmalion. Think of the story, Tara." He paused, his eyes fierce, his voice piercing. "She was just a cockney in a nice dress. Until she believed in herself. Then it didn't matter what dress she wore.
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Tara Westover (Educated)
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May I inquire what is the point?” he snapped impatiently.
“Indeed you may,” Lucinda said, thinking madly for some way to prod him into remembering his long-ago desire for Elizabeth and to prick his conscience. “The point is that I am well apprised of all that transpired between Elizabeth and yourself when you were last together. I, however,” she decreed grandly, “am inclined to place the blame for your behavior not on a lack of character, but rather a lack of judgment.” He raised his brows but said nothing. Taking his silence as assent, she reiterated meaningfully, “A lack of judgment on both your parts.”
“Really?” he drawled.
“Of course,” she said, reaching out and brushing the dust from the back of a chair, then rubbing her fingers together and grimacing with disapproval. “What else except lack of judgment could have caused a seventeen-year-old girl to rush to the defense of a notorious gambler and bring down censure upon herself for doing it?”
“What indeed?” he asked with growing impatience.
Lucinda dusted off her hands, avoiding his gaze. “Who can possibly know except you and she? No doubt it was the same thing that prompted her to remain in the woodcutter’s cottage rather than leaving it the instant she discovered your presence.” Satisfied that she’d done the best she was able to on that score, she became brusque again-an attitude that was more normal and, therefore, far more convincing. “In any case, that is all water under the bridge. She has paid dearly for her lack of judgment, which is only right, and even though she is now in the most dire straits because of it, that, too, is justice.”
She smiled to herself when his eyes narrowed with what she hoped was guilt, or at least concern. His next words disabused her of that hope: “Madam, I do not have all day to waste in aimless conversation. If you have something to say, say it and be done!”
“Very well,” Lucinda said, gritting her teeth to stop herself from losing control of her temper. “My point is that it is my duty, my obligation to see to Lady Cameron’s physical well-being as well as to chaperon her. In this case, given the condition of your dwelling, the former obligation seems more pressing than the latter, particularly since it is obvious to me that the two of you are not in the least need of a chaperon to keep you from behaving with impropriety. You may need a referee to keep you from murdering each other, but a chaperon is entirely superfluous. Therefore, I feel duty-bound to now ensure that adequate servants are brought here at once. In keeping with that, I would like your word as a gentleman not to abuse her verbally or physically while I am gone. She has already been ill-used by her uncle. I will not permit anyone else to make this terrible time in her life more difficult than it already is.”
“Exactly what,” Ian asked in spite of himself, “do you mean by a ‘terrible time’?”
“I am not at liberty to discuss that, of course,” she said, fighting to keep her triumph from her voice. “I am merely concerned that you behave as a gentleman. Will you give me your word?”
Since Ian had no intention of laying a finger on her, or even spending time with her, he didn’t hesitate to nod. “She’s perfectly safe from me.”
“That is exactly what I hoped to hear,” Lucinda lied ruthlessly.
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Judith McNaught (Almost Heaven (Sequels, #3))
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(...) Celui qui ignore que la maison brûle, n'a aucune raison d'appeler au secours; de même, l'homme qui ne sait pas qu'il est en train de se noyer ne saisira pas la corde salvatrice; mais savoir que nous périssons, c'est soit désespérer, soit prier. Savoir réellement que nous ne sommes rien, parce que le monde entier n'est rien, c'est se souvenir de « Ce qui est », et se libérer par ce souvenir.
Quand un homme est victime d'un cauchemar et qu'il se met alors, en plein rêve, à appeler Dieu au secours, il se réveille infailliblement, et cela démontre deux choses : premièrement, que l'intelligence consciente de l'Absolu subsiste dans le sommeil comme une personnalité distincte, - notre esprit reste donc en dehors de nos états d'illusion, et deuxièmement, que l'homme, quand il appelle Dieu, finira par se réveiller aussi de ce grand rêve qu'est la vie, le monde, l'ego. S'il est un appel qui peut briser le mur du rêve, pourquoi ne briserait-il pas aussi le mur de ce rêve plus vaste et plus tenace qu'est l'existence ? Il n'y a, dans cet appel, aucun égoïsme, du moment que l'oraison pure est la forme la plus intime et la plus précieuse du don de soi.(2)
(2) « L'Heure suprême ne viendra qu'alors qu'il n'y aura plus personne sur terre qui dise : Allah! Allah! » (hadith). - C'est en effet la sainteté et la sagesse - et avec elles l'oraison universelle et quintessencielle - qui soutiennent le monde.
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Frithjof Schuon (Understanding Islam)
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You didn’t allow me anything! I allowed you! I allowed you to fool yourselves into thinking you had a choice!” Strom took a breath. When he had his anger under control, he spoke again. “You are clearly unfit to serve as Grand Mage,” he announced, “and all three of you are unfit to serve on the Council of Elders. By the authority vested in me by the international community I am hereby taking command of this Sanctuary. You are relieved of your duties.” Nobody moved. Valkyrie was frozen to the spot, though her eyes darted from person to person. Moving slowly, Grim reached for his jacket, and Skulduggery drew his revolver and pointed it into his face. “I wouldn’t do that if I were you,” Skulduggery said. The bodyguard raised his hands. Strom’s eyes widened. “What you just did is illegal.” “We’re in charge,” Ravel told him. “You think we’re going to roll over just because you tell us to? Who the hell do you think you are?” “I am a Grand Mage, Mr Ravel, a title I earned because of hard work and dedication. Whereas you, on the other hand, are Grand Mage because nobody else wanted the job.” “Whoa,” said Ravel. “That was a little below the belt, don’t you think?” “None of you have the required experience or wisdom to do what is expected of you. I know you’ll find it hard to believe, but we didn’t come here to take control. We came here to help.” “And now you want to take control anyway.” “You have proven yourselves incompetent. And what are you doing now? You’re holding a Grand Mage at gunpoint?” “Technically, Skulduggery is only holding a Grand Mage’s bodyguard at gunpoint. Which isn’t nearly as bad.” “You all seem to be forgetting that I have thirty-eight mages loyal to the Supreme Council in this country.” “And you seem to be under the illusion that we find that intimidating.” “If I go missing—” “Missing?” Ravel said. “Who said anything about going missing? No, no. You’re just going to be in a really long and really important meeting, that’s all.” “Don’t be a fool,” said Strom. “You can’t win here, Ravel. There are more of us than there are of you. And the moment our mages get wind of what’s going on down here, the rest of the Supreme Council will descend on you like nothing you’ve ever seen.” “Quintin, Quintin, Quintin... you make it sound like we’re going to war. This isn’t war. This is an argument. And like all arguments between grown-ups, we keep it away from the kiddies. You’ve got thirty-eight mages in the country? Ghastly, how many cells do we have?” “If we double up we’ll manage.” “Don’t make this any worse for yourselves,” said Strom. “An attack on any one of our mages will be considered an act of war.” “There’s that word again,” said Ravel. “This is insanity. Erskine, think about what you’re doing.” “What we’re doing, Quintin, is allowing our people to do their jobs.” “This is kidnapping.” “Don’t be so dramatic. We’re just going to keep you separated from your people for as long as we need to resolve the current crisis. Skulduggery and Valkyrie are on the case. When have they ever let us down?” Ravel turned to them, gave them a smile. “You’d better not let us down.” Skulduggery inclined his head slightly, and Valkyrie went with him as he walked away. “Holy cow,” Valkyrie whispered when they were around the corner. “Holy cow indeed.
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Derek Landy (Kingdom of the Wicked (Skulduggery Pleasant, #7))
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Je tourne en rond autour d'un abîme, funambule sur le fil du rasoir, volcanologue halluciné au bord d'un cratère en ébullition ; je suis aux portes de la mémoire, ces infinies bobines de rushes qui nous archivent, ces grands tiroirs obscurs où sont stockés les héros ordinaires que nous avons été, les mythes camusiens que nous n'avons pas su incarner, enfin les acteurs et les figurants que nous fûmes tour à tour, géniaux et grotesques, beaux et monstrueux, ployés sous le fardeau de nos petites lâchetés, de nos faits d'armes, de nos mensonges, de nos aveux, de nos serments et nos abjurations, de nos bravoures et nos défections, de nos certitudes et nos doutes ; bref, de nos indomptables illusions... Que garder de ces rushes en vrac ? Que rejeter ? S'il n'y avait qu'un seul instant de notre vie à emporter pour le grand voyage, lequel choisir ? Au détriment de quoi et de qui ? Et surtout, comment se reconnaître au milieu de tant d'ombres, tant de spectres, de tant de titans ?... Qui sommes nous au juste ? Ce que nous avons été ou bien ce que nous aurions aimé être ? Le tord que nous avons causé ou bien celui que nous avons subi ? Les rendez-vous que nous avons ratés ou les rencontres fortuites qui ont dévié le cours de notre destin ? Les coulisses qui nous ont préservés de la vanité ou bien les feux de la rampe qui nous ont servi de bûchers ? Nous sommes tout cela et en même temps, toute la vie qui a été la nôtre, avec ses hauts et ses bas, ses prouesses et ses vicissitudes ; nous sommes aussi l'ensemble des fantômes qui nous hantent... nous sommes plusieurs personnages en un, si convaincants dans les différents rôles que nous avons assumés qu'il nous est impossible de savoir lequel nous avons été vraiment, lequel nous sommes devenus, lequel nous survivra.
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Yasmina Khadra (Ce que le jour doit à la nuit)
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The grand illusion of life is that our minds have the capacity to understand reality. But human minds didn’t evolve to understand reality. We didn’t need that capability. A clear view of reality wasn’t necessary for our survival. Evolution cares only that you survive long enough to procreate. And that’s a low bar. The result is that each of us is, in effect, living in our own little movie that our brain has cooked up for us to explain our experiences.
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Scott Adams (Win Bigly: Persuasion in a World Where Facts Don't Matter)
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I have too many questions for that, Atri-Ceda. Why is the Hold empty?’
‘Because it is home to all which cannot be possessed, cannot be owned. And so too is the throne within the Hold empty, left eternally vacant. Because the very nature of rule is itself an illusion, a conceit and the product of a grand conspiracy. To have a ruler one must choose to be ruled over, and that forces notions of inequity to the fore, until they become, well, formalized. Made central to education, made essential as a binding force in society, until everything exists to prop up those in power. The Empty Throne reminds us of all that. Well, some of us, anyway.
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Steven Erikson (The Crippled God (Malazan Book of the Fallen, #10))
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Rien de grand ne s'était fait sans illusions.
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Barouk Salamé (Le testament syriaque)
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All our opinions are false and don’t matter in the grand scheme of things. We live ,we die. We
as individuals don’t matter in this world ,we will be a memory if anyone does remember us. We will be lucky.But soon , our memory will die with them and maybe someone will utter our name in passing in this age of technology ,as a footnote to something that grabbed more of their attention. Ultimately in this world our lives do not matter. So why do we feel we are in a one man play? Why do we want to accomplish so much just to be bellowed as heroes or heroines, to be adored or thought highly of by other people who do not even have favorable opinions of themselves? You see the truth is that the trace we leave In this world do not matter in this world, the track we leave in this world is what matters in the afterlife and it will be mirror in the memory of your future. Everything we do today is either for our own comforts or to avoid discomfort we are living in a perpetual state of pleasing ourselves , self gratification and being busy bodies for the momentarily exhalation of relief that will almost always follow up with a crisis. No one will have a continuous state of bliss as the pendulum swings up it will eventually come down before it comes back up again, yet we act surprised and devastated. This life is a perpetual test to try to develop and polish your outlook and inner life so you may be the lucky ones to develop the acuteness to see this world for what it is, and not lose that vision. An illusion of forms presenting the beauty and ugliness of our souls to us on a platter and tempting us to forget we are mortal. You don’t finish school when you graduate with that degree. You finish school when you die.
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Ilwaad isa
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L’Occident dispose de la force et d’une organisation suffisante pour circonscrire ce qui s’oppose à lui, à défaut de pouvoir l’éradiquer complètement. S’il a peur, c’est parce qu’il commence à comprendre, même s’il refuse encore à l’admettre (17), que la voie du modernisme et du « progrès » proclamé l’a mené à une impasse ; c’est-à-dire : parce qu’il est fondé, tout entier et dès l’origine, sur une erreur, le monde moderne a peur de la vérité ; parce qu’il se nourrit d’illusions, il a peur d’une réalité dont l’essence est divine ; parce qu’il a négligé le Dépôt de confiance (amâna) (18) que Dieu a confié à l’homme, il a peur de voir que celui-ci ne maîtrise plus son destin ; parce qu’il a trahi les alliances traditionnelles, il a peur d’être sanctionné et châtié. Telles sont les raisons profondes, en grande partie mal perçues, qui explique sa peur de l’islâm.
17) Par exemple en promouvant l’idée, typiquement antéchristique d’une «
conquête de l’espace ».
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Charles-André Gilis (L'intégrité islamique : Ni intégrisme ni intégration)
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Ambrosius arrêta son interlocuteur d’un geste agacé.« As-tu déjà contemplé Rome de tes propres yeux ? L’un d’entre vous a-t-il même jamais approché la Ville ? D’ici, à vous entendre, vous l’imaginez comme une cité céleste toute de marbre, mais en réalité il n’y a plus que des ruines là-bas, tenant tout juste debout. Si par habitude l’on y entretient encore quelques palais, tant bien que mal, et qu’on les empêche de s’effondrer une fois pour toutes, les grands édifices du temps de sa splendeur blanchissent peu à peu tels des os laissés au soleil. Les maisons où l’on vit encore sont comme les vôtres, bâties de chaux et de torchis, ou de brique pour les plus luxueuses. Tout au plus plaque-t-on parfois un stuc sur leurs façades et leurs murs en espérant vainement faire illusion. Il ne subsiste de Rome qu’un fantôme s’accrochant aux marais des miasmes desquels elle avait jailli plus d’un millénaire auparavant.
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Alex Nikolavitch (Trois coracles cinglaient vers le couchant)
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An expert is a man who doesn't make the slightest error on the road to the
Grand Illusion.
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Marshall McLuhan
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Then one of them asked me what those Italian volunteers were really coming to do in Sicily. ‘They are coming to teach us good manners,’ I replied in English. ‘But they won’t succeed, because we think we are gods.’ “I don’t think they understood, but they laughed and went off. That is my answer to you too, my dear Chevalley: the Sicilians never want to improve for the simple reason that they think themselves perfect; their vanity is stronger than their misery; every invasion by outsiders, whether so by origin or, if Sicilian, by independence of spirit, upsets their illusion of achieved perfection, risks disturbing their satisfied waiting for nothing; having been trampled on by a dozen different peoples, they consider they have an imperial past which gives them a right to a grand funeral.
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Giuseppe Tomasi di Lampedusa (The Leopard)
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Most people care about whether they have shelter and enough food, a good job, whether their lives will be better, and whether government is honest and evenhanded,
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L.E. Modesitt Jr. (Councilor (The Grand Illusion #2))
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Too many illusions were being shattered for Catherine these last few days. While the court was grand, it was also terrifying, and the illustrious figures of court were merely men and women in positions of extraordinary power. Power that could be taken away at any moment.
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Anne R. Bailey (The Lady Carey (Royal Court #1))
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the most powerful source of his appeal as well as his greatest legacy may be that Walt Disney, more than any other American artist, defined the terms of wish fulfillment and demonstrated on a grand scale to his fellow Americans, and ultimately to the entire world, how one could be empowered by fantasy—how one could learn, in effect, to live within one’s own illusions and even to transform the world into those illusions.
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Neal Gabler (Walt Disney)