Doyle Quotes

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When you have eliminated all which is impossible, then whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Case-Book of Sherlock Holmes (Sherlock Holmes, #9))
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It is a great thing to start life with a small number of really good books which are your very own.
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Arthur Conan Doyle
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You see, but you do not observe.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (A Scandal in Bohemia (The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes, #1))
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There is nothing more deceptive than an obvious fact.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Boscombe Valley Mystery - a Sherlock Holmes Short Story)
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And that is how change happens. One gesture. One person. One moment at a time.
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Libba Bray (The Sweet Far Thing (Gemma Doyle, #3))
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It has long been an axiom of mine that the little things are infinitely the most important.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Memoirs of Sherlock Holmes (Sherlock Holmes, #4))
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My name is Sherlock Holmes. It is my business to know what other people do not know.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Adventure of the Blue Carbuncle - a Sherlock Holmes Short Story (The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes, #7))
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What you do in this world is a matter of no consequence. The question is what can you make people believe you have done.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (A Study in Scarlet (Sherlock Holmes, #1))
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A dog reflects the family life. Whoever saw a frisky dog in a gloomy family, or a sad dog in a happy one? Snarling people have snarling dogs, dangerous people have dangerous ones.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Case-Book of Sherlock Holmes (Sherlock Holmes, #9))
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The world is full of obvious things which nobody by any chance ever observes.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Hound of the Baskervilles (Sherlock Holmes, #5))
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It is a capital mistake to theorize before one has data. Insensibly one begins to twist facts to suit theories, instead of theories to suit facts.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (Sherlock Holmes)
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Mediocrity knows nothing higher than itself; but talent instantly recognizes genius.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Valley of Fear (Sherlock Holmes, #7))
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People have a habit of inventing fictions they will believe wholeheartedly in order to ignore the truth they cannot accept.
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Libba Bray (The Sweet Far Thing (Gemma Doyle, #3))
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You have a grand gift for silence, Watson. It makes you quite invaluable as a companion.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Complete Sherlock Holmes)
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It is funny how you do not miss affection until it is given, but once it is, it can never be enough; you would drown in it if possible.
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Libba Bray (The Sweet Far Thing (Gemma Doyle, #3))
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Women are naturally secretive, and they like to do their own secreting.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes)
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Education never ends, Watson. It is a series of lessons, with the greatest for the last.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (His Last Bow (Sherlock Holmes, #8))
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The love of books is among the choicest gifts of the gods.
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Arthur Conan Doyle
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Watson. Come at once if convenient. If inconvenient, come all the same.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (Adventure of the Creeping Man)
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Because you don't notice the light without a bit of shadow. Everything has both dark and light. You have to play with it till you get it exactly right.
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Libba Bray (A Great and Terrible Beauty (Gemma Doyle, #1))
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Populus me sibilat, at mihi plaudo Ipse domi stimul ac nummos contemplar in arca. (The public hiss at me, but I cheer myself when in my own house I contemplate the coins in my strong-box.)
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Arthur Conan Doyle (A Study in Scarlet (Sherlock Holmes, #1))
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There are no safe choices. Only other choices.
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Libba Bray (A Great and Terrible Beauty (Gemma Doyle, #1))
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Excellent!" I cried. "Elementary," said he.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Complete Sherlock Holmes)
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Sometimes we seek that which we are not yet ready to find.
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Libba Bray (Rebel Angels (Gemma Doyle, #2))
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When I dream, I dream of him. For several nights now he’s come to me, waving from a distant shore as if he’s been waiting patiently for me to arrive. He doesn’t utter a word, but his smile says everything: I’ve missed you.
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Libba Bray (The Sweet Far Thing (Gemma Doyle, #3))
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I am a jumble of passions, misgivings, and wants. It seems that I am always in a state of wishing and rarely in a state of contentment.
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Libba Bray (The Sweet Far Thing (Gemma Doyle, #3))
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It may be that you are not yourself luminous, but that you are a conductor of light. Some people without possessing genius have a remarkable power of stimulating it.
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Arthur Conan Doyle
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I am a brain, Watson. The rest of me is a mere appendix.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Adventure of the Mazarin Stone)
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I do not want to pass the time. I want to grab hold of it and leave my mark upon the world.
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Libba Bray (The Sweet Far Thing (Gemma Doyle, #3))
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Is there any point to which you would wish to draw my attention?' 'To the curious incident of the dog in the night-time.' 'The dog did nothing in the night-time.' 'That was the curious incident,' remarked Sherlock Holmes.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (Silver Blaze (The Memoirs of Sherlock Holmes, #1))
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The game is afoot.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (Adventure of the Abbey Grange - a Sherlock Holmes Short Story)
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To a great mind, nothing is little,' remarked Holmes, sententiously.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (A Study in Scarlet (Sherlock Holmes, #1))
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I will not stay, not ever again - in a room or conversation or relationship or institution that requires me to abandon myself.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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There is an ancient tribal proverb I once heard in India. It says that before we can see properly we must first shed our tears to clear the way.
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Libba Bray (The Sweet Far Thing (Gemma Doyle, #3))
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Do you ever feel that way?" "Lonely?" I search for the words. "Restless. As if you haven't really met yourself yet. As is you'd passed yourself once in the fog, and your heart leapt - 'Ah! There I Am! I've been missing that piece!' But it happens too fast, and then that part of you disappears into the fog again. And you spend the rest of your days looking for it." He nods, and I think he's appeasing me. I feel stupid of having said it. It's sentimental and true, and I've revealed a part of myself I shouldn't have. "Do you know what I think?" Kartik says at last. "What?" "Sometimes, I think you can glimpse it in another.
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Libba Bray (The Sweet Far Thing (Gemma Doyle, #3))
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I am an omnivorous reader with a strangely retentive memory for trifles.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Adventure of the Lion's Mane)
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Life is infinitely stranger than anything which the mind of man could invent. We would not dare to conceive the things which are really mere commonplaces of existence. If we could fly out of that window hand in hand, hover over this great city, gently remove the roofs, and and peep in at the queer things which are going on, the strange coincidences, the plannings, the cross-purposes, the wonderful chains of events, working through generations, and leading to the most outre results, it would make all fiction with its conventionalities and foreseen conclusions most stale and unprofitable.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Complete Adventures of Sherlock Holmes)
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Life is infinitely stranger than anything which the mind of man could invent.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (A Case of Identity - a Sherlock Holmes Short Story (The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes #3))
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Work is the best antidote to sorrow, my dear Watson.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Return of Sherlock Holmes)
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How often have I said to you that when you have eliminated the impossible, whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth?
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Sign of Four (Sherlock Holmes, #2))
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In each of us lie good and bad, light and dark, art and pain, choice and regret, cruelty and sacrifice. We’re each of us our own chiaroscuro, our own bit of illusion fighting to emerge into something solid, something real. We’ve got to forgive ourselves that. I must remember to forgive myself. Because there is a lot of grey to work with. No one can live in the light all the time.
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Libba Bray
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No man burdens his mind with small matters unless he has some very good reason for doing so.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (A Study in Scarlet (Sherlock Holmes, #1))
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Being human is not hard because you're doing it wrong, it's hard because you're doing it right.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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I consider that a man's brain originally is like a little empty attic, and you have to stock it with such furniture as you choose. A fool takes in all the lumber of every sort that he comes across, so that the knowledge which might be useful to him gets crowded out, or at best is jumbled up with a lot of other things, so that he has a difficulty in laying his hands upon it. Now the skillful workman is very careful indeed as to what he takes into his brain-attic. He will have nothing but the tools which may help him in doing his work, but of these he has a large assortment, and all in the most perfect order. It is a mistake to think that that little room has elastic walls and can distend to any extent. Depend upon it there comes a time when for every addition of knowledge you forget something that you knew before. It is of the highest importance, therefore, not to have useless facts elbowing out the useful ones.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (A Study in Scarlet (Sherlock Holmes, #1))
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Power changes everything till it is difficult to say who are the heroes and who the villains.
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Libba Bray (The Sweet Far Thing (Gemma Doyle, #3))
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There are always some lunatics about. It would be a dull world without them.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Red-Headed League (Sherlock Holmes))
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There is no scent so pleasant to my nostrils as that faint, subtle reek which comes from an ancient book.
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Arthur Conan Doyle
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Do you think they missed him terribly when he fell? Did God cry over his lost angel, I wonder?
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Libba Bray (Rebel Angels (Gemma Doyle, #2))
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My mind," he said, "rebels at stagnation. Give me problems, give me work, give me the most abstruse cryptogram or the most intricate analysis, and I am in my own proper atmosphere. I can dispense then with artificial stimulants. But I abhor the dull routine of existence. I crave for mental exaltation. That is why I have chosen my own particular profession, or rather created it, for I am the only one in the world.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Sign of Four (Sherlock Holmes, #2))
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If you tell them what they want to hear, they don't bother to try to see.
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Libba Bray (A Great and Terrible Beauty (Gemma Doyle, #1))
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This life is mine alone. So I have stopped asking people for directions to places they’ve never been.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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There is nothing more to be said or to be done tonight, so hand me over my violin and let us try to forget for half an hour the miserable weather and the still more miserable ways of our fellowmen.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Five Orange Pips (The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes, #5))
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When a woman finally learns that pleasing the world is impossible, she becomes free to learn how to please herself.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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My life is spent in one long effort to escape from the commonplaces of existence. These little problems help me to do so.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Red-Headed League (The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes #2))
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Crime is common. Logic is rare. Therefore it is upon the logic rather than upon the crime that you should dwell.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Adventure of the Copper Beeches - a Sherlock Holmes Short Story (The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes #12))
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I run after her, not really giving chase. I’m running because I can, because I must. Because I want to see how far I can go before I have to stop.
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Libba Bray (A Great and Terrible Beauty (Gemma Doyle, #1))
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How I'd love to get away from here and be someone else for a while in a place where no one knows or expects certain things from me.
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Libba Bray (A Great and Terrible Beauty (Gemma Doyle, #1))
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In every end, there is also a beginning.
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Libba Bray (A Great and Terrible Beauty (Gemma Doyle, #1))
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Grief is love's souvenir. It's our proof that we once loved. Grief is the receipt we wave in the air that says to the world: Look! Love was once mine. I love well. Here is my proof that I paid the price.
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Glennon Doyle Melton (Love Warrior)
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We sit and listen and are enthralled anew, for good stories, it seems, never lose their magic.
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Libba Bray (The Sweet Far Thing (Gemma Doyle, #3))
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You must remember, my dear lady, the most important rule of any successful illusion: First, the people must want to believe in it.
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Libba Bray (The Sweet Far Thing (Gemma Doyle, #3))
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What one man can invent, another can discover.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Adventure of the Dancing Men (Stories from the return of Sherlock Holmes))
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A man always finds it hard to realize that he may have finally lost a woman's love, however badly he may have treated her.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Musgrave Ritual - a Sherlock Holmes Short Story (The Memoirs of Sherlock Holmes, #5))
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I'm like everyone else in this stupid, bloody, amazing world. I'm flawed. Impossibly so. But hopeful. I'm still me.
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Libba Bray (The Sweet Far Thing (Gemma Doyle, #3))
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I wanted to end the world, but I'll settle for ending yours.
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Arthur Conan Doyle
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Do you remember what Darwin says about music? He claims that the power of producing and appreciating it existed among the human race long before the power of speech was arrived at. Perhaps that is why we are so subtly influenced by it. There are vague memories in our souls of those misty centuries when the world was in its childhood.' That's a rather broad idea,' I remarked. One's ideas must be as broad as Nature if they are to interpret Nature,' he answered.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (A Study in Scarlet (Sherlock Holmes, #1))
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Evil indeed is the man who has not one woman to mourn him.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Hound of the Baskervilles (Sherlock Holmes, #5))
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Never trust to general impressions, my boy, but concentrate yourself upon details.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes (Sherlock Holmes, #3))
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It's quite exciting," said Sherlock Holmes, with a yawn.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (A Study in Scarlet (Sherlock Holmes, #1))
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Where there is no imagination, there is no horror.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (A Study in Scarlet (Sherlock Holmes, #1))
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I wonder how many times each day she dies a little.
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Libba Bray (A Great and Terrible Beauty (Gemma Doyle, #1))
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What happens if your choice is misguided?' I ask, softly. Miss Moore takes a pear from the bowl and offers us the grapes to devour. 'You must try to correct it.' 'But what if it’s too late? What if you can’t?' There's a sad sympathy in Miss Moore's catlike eyes as she regards my painting again. She paints the thinnest sliver of shadow along the bottom of the apple, bringing it fully to life. 'Then you must find a way to live with it.
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Libba Bray (A Great and Terrible Beauty (Gemma Doyle, #1))
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I'm sorry, Gemma. But we can't live in the light all of the time. You have to take whatever light you can hold into the dark with you.
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Libba Bray (A Great and Terrible Beauty (Gemma Doyle, #1))
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Shall I tell you a story? A new and terrible one? A ghost story? Are you ready? Shall I begin? Once upon a time there were four girls. One was pretty. One was clever. One charming, and one...one was mysterious. But they were all damaged, you see. Something not right about the lot of them. Bad blood. Big dreams. Oh, I left that part out. Sorry, that should have come before. They were all dreamers, these girls. One by one, night after night, the girls came together. And they sinned. Do you know what that sin was? No one? Pippa? Ann? Their sin was that they believed. Believed they could be different. Special. They believed they could change what they were--damaged, unloved. Cast-off things. They would be alive, adored, needed. Necessary. But it wasn't true. This is a ghost story remember? A tragedy. They were misled. Betrayed by their own stupid hopes. Things couldn't be different for them, because they weren't special after all. So life took them, led them, and they went along, you see? They faded before their own eyes, till they were nothing more than living ghosts, haunting each other with what could be. With what can't be. There, now. Isn't that the scariest story you've ever heard?
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Libba Bray (A Great and Terrible Beauty (Gemma Doyle, #1))
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There's a lot about discovering who you are and how difficult that is. And it never stops.
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Libba Bray (A Great and Terrible Beauty (Gemma Doyle, #1))
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I wish to live for myself. I should never want to be trapped.
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Libba Bray (The Sweet Far Thing (Gemma Doyle, #3))
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You are not supposed to be happy all the time. Life hurts and it's hard. Not because you're doing it wrong, but because it hurts for everybody. Don't avoid the pain. You need it. It's meant for you. Be still with it, let it come, let it go, let it leave you with the fuel you'll burn to get your work done on this earth.
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Glennon Doyle Melton
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The unexpected has happened so continually in my life that it has ceased to deserve the name.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Stark Munro Letters)
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Felicity ignores us. She walks out to them, an apparition in white and blue velvet, her head held high as they stare in awe at her, the goddess. I don't know yet what power feels like. But this is surely what it looks like, and I think I'm beginning to understand why those ancient women had to hide in caves. Why our parents and suitors want us to behave properly and predictably. It's not that they want to protect us; it's that they fear us.
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Libba Bray (A Great and Terrible Beauty (Gemma Doyle, #1))
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But aren't many gardens beautiful because they are imperfect?...aren't the strange, new flowers that arise by mistake or misadventure as pleasing as the well-tended and planned?
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Libba Bray (The Sweet Far Thing (Gemma Doyle, #3))
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No one asks how or what I am doing. They could not care less. We’re all looking glasses, we girls, existing only to reflect their images back to them as they’d like to be seen. Hollow vessels of girls to be rinsed of our own ambitions, wants, and opinions, just waiting to be filled with the cool, tepid water of gracious compliance. A fissure forms in the vessel. I’m cracking open.
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Libba Bray (A Great and Terrible Beauty (Gemma Doyle, #1))
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I am somewhat exhausted; I wonder how a battery feels when it pours electricity into a non-conductor?
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Adventure of the Dying Detective - a Sherlock Holmes Short Story)
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When women lose themselves, the world loses its way. We do not need more selfless women. What we need right now is more women who have detoxed themselves so completely from the world's expectations that they are full of nothing but themselves. What we need are women who are full of themselves. A woman who is full of herself knows and trusts herself enough to say and do what must be done. She lets the rest burn.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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How sweet the morning air is! See how that one little cloud floats like a pink feather from some gigantic flamingo. Now the red rim of the sun pushes itself over the London cloud-bank. It shines on a good many folk, but on none, I dare bet, who are on a stranger errand than you and I. How small we feel with our petty ambitions and strivings in the presence of the great elemental forces of Nature!
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Arthur Conan Doyle (Sherlock Holmes: The Complete Novels and Stories, Volume I)
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As a rule, the more bizarre a thing is the less mysterious it proves to be. It is your commonplace, featureless crimes which are really puzzling, just as a commonplace face is the most difficult to identify.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes)
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I am the most incurably lazy devil that ever stood in shoe leather.
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Arthur Conan Doyle
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I followed you.' I saw no one.' That is what you may expect to see when I follow you.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (Die Teufelskralle (Sherlock Holmes Chronicles 24))
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What the deuce is it to me?" he interrupted impatiently: "you say that we go round the sun. If we went round the moon it would not make a pennyworth of difference to me or to my work.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (A Study in Scarlet (Sherlock Holmes, #1))
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No: I am not tired. I have a curious constitution. I never remember feeling tired by work, though idleness exhausts me completely." ~ Sherlock Holmes
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Sign of Four (Sherlock Holmes, #2))
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Instead, I try to adjust to the dawn, letting the tears fall where they may, because it is morning; it is morning and there is so much to see.
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Libba Bray (The Sweet Far Thing (Gemma Doyle, #3))
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From the first day I met her, she was the only woman to me. Every day of that voyage I loved her more, and many a time since have I kneeled down in the darkness of the night watch and kissed the deck of that ship because I knew her dear feet had trod it. She was never engaged to me. She treated me as fairly as ever a woman treated a man. I have no complaint to make. It was all love on my side, and all good comradeship and friendship on hers. When we parted she was a free woman, but I could never again be a free man.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Return of Sherlock Holmes (Sherlock Holmes, #6))
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May I suggest that you all read? And often. Believe me, it's nice to have something to talk about other than the weather and the Queen's health. Your mind is not a cage. It's a garden. And it requires cultivating.
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Libba Bray (A Great and Terrible Beauty (Gemma Doyle, #1))
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My dear Watson," said [Sherlock Holmes], "I cannot agree with those who rank modesty among the virtues. To the logician all things should be seen exactly as they are, and to underestimate one's self is as much a departure from truth as to exaggerate one's own powers.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Adventure of the Greek Interpreter (The Memoirs of Sherlock Holmes, #9 ) (Sherlock Holmes))
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Dr. Watson's summary list of Sherlock Holmes's strengths and weaknesses: "1. Knowledge of Literature: Nil. 2. Knowledge of Philosophy: Nil. 3. Knowledge of Astronomy: Nil. 4. Knowledge of Politics: Feeble. 5. Knowledge of Botany: Variable. Well up in belladonna, opium, and poisons generally. Knows nothing of practical gardening. 6. Knowledge of Geology: Practical but limited. Tells at a glance different soils from each other. After walks has shown me splashes upon his trousers, and told me by their colour and consistence in what part of London he had received them. 7. Knowledge of Chemistry: Profound. 8. Knowledge of Anatomy: Accurate but unsystematic. 9. Knowledge of Sensational Literature: Immense. He appears to know every detail of every horror perpetrated in the century. 10. Plays the violin well. 11. Is an expert singlestick player, boxer, and swordsman. 12. Has a good practical knowledge of British law.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (A Study in Scarlet (Sherlock Holmes, #1))
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You're not hurt, Watson? For God's sake, say that you are not hurt!" It was worth a wound -- it was worth many wounds -- to know the depth of loyalty and love which lay behind that cold mask. The clear, hard eyes were dimmed for a moment, and the firm lips were shaking. For the one and only time I caught a glimpse of a great heart as well as of a great brain. All my years of humble but single-minded service culminated in that moment of revelation.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Case-Book of Sherlock Holmes (Sherlock Holmes, #9))
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Tish is sensitive, and that is her superpower. The opposite of sensitive is not brave. It’s not brave to refuse to pay attention, to refuse to notice, to refuse to feel and know and imagine. The opposite of sensitive is insensitive, and that’s no badge of honor.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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I'm not a mess but a deeply feeling person in a messy world. I explain that now, when someone asks me why I cry so often, I say, 'For the same reason I laugh so often--because I'm paying attention.' I tell them that we can choose to be perfect and admired or to be real and loved. We must decide.
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Glennon Doyle Melton (Love Warrior)
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What a lovely thing a rose is!" He walked past the couch to the open window and held up the drooping stalk of a moss-rose, looking down at the dainty blend of crimson and green. It was a new phase of his character to me, for I had never before seen him show any keen interest in natural objects. "There is nothing in which deduction is so necessary as religion," said he, leaning with his back against the shutters. "It can be built up as an exact science by the reasoner. Our highest assurance of the goodness of Providence seems to me to rest in the flowers. All other things, our powers, our desires, our food, are all really necessary for our existence in the first instance. But this rose is an extra. Its smell and its color are an embellishment of life, not a condition of it. It is only goodness which gives extras, and so I say again that we have much to hope from the flowers.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Naval Treaty - a Sherlock Holmes Short Story)
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Mothers have martyred themselves in their children’s names since the beginning of time. We have lived as if she who disappears the most, loves the most. We have been conditioned to prove our love by slowly ceasing to exist. What a terrible burden for children to bearβ€”to know that they are the reason their mother stopped living. What a terrible burden for our daughters to bearβ€”to know that if they choose to become mothers, this will be their fate, too. Because if we show them that being a martyr is the highest form of love, that is what they will become. They will feel obligated to love as well as their mothers loved, after all. They will believe they have permission to live only as fully as their mothers allowed themselves to live. If we keep passing down the legacy of martyrdom to our daughters, with whom does it end? Which woman ever gets to live? And when does the death sentence begin? At the wedding altar? In the delivery room? Whose delivery roomβ€”our children’s or our own? When we call martyrdom love we teach our children that when love begins, life ends. This is why Jung suggested: There is no greater burden on a child than the unlived life of a parent.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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But forgiveness...I'll hold on to that fragile slice of hope and keep it close, remembering that in each of us lie good and bad, light and dark, art and pain, choice and regret, cruelty and sacrifice. We're each of us our own...bit of illusion fighting to emerge into something solid, something real. We've got to forgive ourselves that. I must remember to forgive myself. Because there's an awful lot of gray to work with. No one can live in the light all the time.
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Libba Bray (A Great and Terrible Beauty (Gemma Doyle, #1))