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Leave the past in the past,β is a signal that he doesnβt want to hear about painful experiences that shaped the way she moved in relationships are mantras of weak men. Of course, no one wants to dwell in the past for purposes of simply being a buzz-kill, but if a man has the capacity to be a good husband one day, heβs going to have to love that woman, including everything sheβs been through. He wonβt be responsible for healing her, but being a listening ear, and studying every inch of her heart, things she cares about, is afraid of, etc., better equips a man to love her.
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