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Yet each man kills the thing he loves
By each let this be heard
Some do it with a bitter look
Some with a flattering word
The coward does it with a kiss
The brave man with a sword
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Oscar Wilde (The Ballad of Reading Gaol)
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A coward is incapable of exhibiting love; it is the prerogative of the brave.
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Mahatma Gandhi
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If you build the guts to do something, anything, then you better save enough to face the consequences.
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Criss Jami (Killosophy)
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He held up a book then. βI'm going to read it to you for relax.β
βDoes it have any sports in it?β
βFencing. Fighting. Torture. Poison. True Love. Hate. Revenge. Giants. Hunters. Bad men. Good men. Beautifulest Ladies. Snakes. Spiders... Pain. Death. Brave men. Cowardly men. Strongest men. Chases. Escapes. Lies. Truths. Passion. Miracles.β
βSounds okay,β I said and I kind of closed my eyes.
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William Goldman (The Princess Bride)
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Yet each man kills the thing he loves,
By each let this be heard,
Some do it with a bitter look,
Some with a flattering word,
The coward does it with a kiss,
The brave man with a sword!
Some kill their love when they are young,
And some when they are old;
Some strangle with the hands of Gold:
The kindest use a knife, because
The dead so soon grow cold.
Some love too little, some too long,
Some sell and others buy;
Some do the deed with many tears,
And some without a sigh:
For each man kills the thing he loves,
Yet each man does not die.
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Oscar Wilde (Selected Poems of Oscar Wilde including the Ballad of Reading Gaol)
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Why so much grief for me? No man will hurl me down to Death, against my fate. And fate? No one alive has ever escaped it, neither brave man nor coward, I tell you - itβs born with us the day that we are born.
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Homer (The Iliad)
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You have no enemies, you say? Alas, my friend, the boast is poor. He who has mingled in the fray of duty that the brave endure, must have made foes. If you have none, small is the work that you have done. Youβve hit no traitor on the hip. Youβve dashed no cup from perjured lip. Youβve never turned the wrong to right. Youβve been a coward in the fight.
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Charles Mackay
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The coward dies a thousand deaths, the brave but one'.... (The man who first said that) was probably a coward.... He knew a great deal about cowards but nothing about the brave. The brave dies perhaps two thousand deaths if he's intelligent. He simply doesn't mention them.
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Ernest Hemingway (A Farewell to Arms)
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Lots of people would be as cowardly as me if they were brave enough.
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Terry Pratchett (The Last Hero (Discworld, #27; Rincewind, #7))
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Cowards die a thousand deaths, but the brave only die once.
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Ernest Hemingway (A Farewell to Arms)
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No one can hurry me down to Hades before my time, but if a man's hour is come, be he brave or be he coward, there is no escape for him when he has once been born.
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Homer (The Iliad)
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No man or woman born, coward or brave, can shun his destiny.
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Homer (The Iliad)
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I am surprised how difficult for people is to say "I love you". They only say the three magic words when they are sure they will hear "I love you too" back. C'mon! Spread the energy of love without expecting anything! Cowards are incapable of expressing love; it is the prerogative of the brave
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Paulo Coelho
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To not do what you can to protect someone, that's cowardly.
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Jodi Lynn Anderson (Tiger Lily)
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And I thought about how, actually, if you wanted to, you could say the same thing about life. That life is terrifying and overwhelming and it can happen at any moment. And when youβre confronted with life you can either be cowardly or you can be brave, but either way youβre going to live. So you might as well be brave.
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Raphael Bob-Waksberg (Someone Who Will Love You in All Your Damaged Glory)
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A brave man helps. A coward just gives presents.
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Stephen King (Fairy Tale)
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What a lousy earth! He wondered how many people were destitute that same night even in his own prosperous country, how many homes were shanties, how many husbands were drunk and wives socked, and how many children were bullied, abused, or abandoned. How many families hungered for food they could not afford to buy? How many hearts were broken? How many suicides would take place that same night, how many people would go insane? How many cockroaches and landlords would triumph? How many winners were losers, successes failures, and rich men poor men? How many wise guys were stupid? How many happy endings were unhappy endings? How many honest men were liars, brave men cowards, loyal men traitors, how many sainted men were corrupt, how many people in positions of trust had sold their souls to bodyguards, how many had never had souls? How many straight-and-narrow paths were crooked paths? How many best families were worst families and how many good people were bad people? When you added them all up and then subtracted, you might be left with only the children, and perhaps with Albert Einstein and an old violinist or sculptor somewhere.
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Joseph Heller (Catch-22)
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They always end up alone in the storiesβwitches, I meanβliving in the woods or mountains or locked in towers. I suppose it would take a brave man to love a witch, and most men are cowards.
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Alix E. Harrow (The Ten Thousand Doors of January)
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Cowards start wars, and the brave fight them.
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Benjamin Alire SΓ‘enz (Aristotle and Dante Dive into the Waters of the World (Aristotle and Dante, #2))
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How can such a coward teach someone to be brave?
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Samantha Young (Before Jamaica Lane (On Dublin Street, #3))
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He lay back, put his arm over his eyes, and tried to hold onto the anger, because the anger made him feel brave. A brave man could think. A coward couldn't.
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Stephen King (Misery)
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Fighting is like champagne. It goes to the heads of cowards as quickly as of heroes. Any fool can be brave on a battlefield when it's be brave or else be killed.
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Margaret Mitchell (Gone with the Wind)
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You listen to me, Beaumont Tyler Grady. You are a wise-cracking, stubborn, annoying pain in the ass who lives to cause trouble. Youβre also a brave, courageous, and valiant Marine who puts his life on the line for what he believes and for those he loves. There is no way you have ever been or ever will be a coward. It simply isnβt in you.
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Abigail Roux (Sticks & Stones (Cut & Run, #2))
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Conscience is but a word that cowards use,
Devis'd at first to keep the strong in awe:
Our strong arms be our conscience, swords our law.
March on, join bravely, let us to't pell-mell;
If not to heaven, then hand in hand to hell.
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William Shakespeare (Richard III)
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Bravery may be observed when a person tramples one fear whilst in secret flight from a greater terror. And those whose greatest terror is being thought a coward are always brave. I, on the other hand, am a coward.
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Mark Lawrence (Prince of Fools (The Red Queen's War, #1))
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You always know the mark of a coward. A coward hides behind freedom. A brave person stands in front of freedom and defends it for others.
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Henry Rollins (Talk is Cheap: Volume 1)
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In deep waters, you encounter only the wise and the brave; in shallow waters, the ignorant and the coward!
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Mehmet Murat ildan
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The power of "can't": The word "can't" makes strong people weak, blinds people who can see, saddens happy people, turns brave people into cowards, robs a genius of their brilliance, causes rich people to think poorly, and limits the achievements of that great person living inside us all.
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Robert T. Kiyosaki (Rich Dad's Who Took My Money?: Why Slow Investors Lose and Fast Money Wins!)
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And fate? No one alive has ever escaped it, neither brave man nor coward, I tell youβ itβs born with us the day that we are born.
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Homer (The Iliad)
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If the point of life is the same as the point of a story, the point of life is character transformation. If I got any comfort as I set out on my first story, it was that in nearly every story, the protagonist is transformed. He's a jerk at the beginning and nice at the end, or a coward at the beginning and brave at the end. If the character doesn't change, the story hasn't happened yet. And if story is derived from real life, if story is just condensed version of life then life itself may be designed to change us so that we evolve from one kind of person to another.
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Donald Miller (A Million Miles in a Thousand Years: What I Learned While Editing My Life)
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Remember, the only thing to fear is Fear, and - well, don't even fear Fear, for he's a cowardly chap at the best, who will run if you show a brave front.
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William Walker Atkinson (Thought Vibration)
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You taught me to be brave again, Nate.'
I swiped at the tears, my heart catching painfully as his eyes seared into mine.
'How can such a coward teach someone to be brave?
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Samantha Young (Before Jamaica Lane (On Dublin Street, #3))
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We don't ignore bigotry, Jack. That's how cowardly bigots turn into brave bigots.
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Jessica Townsend (Hollowpox: The Hunt for Morrigan Crow (Nevermoor, #3))
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Cowards are nice, they're interesting, they're gentle, they wouldn't think of shooting down people in a parade from a tower. They want to live, so they can see their kids. They're very brave.
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William Saroyan (Madness in the Family: Stories (New Directions Paperbook))
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I'm always telling myself I don't have many feelings. Even when something does affect me I'm only moderately moved. I almost never cry. It's not that I'm stronger than the ones with teary eyes, I'm weaker. They have courage. When all you are is skin and bones, feelings are a brave thing. I'm more of a coward. The difference is minimal though, I just use my strength not to cry. When I do allow myself a feeling, I take the part that hurts and bandage it up with a story that doesn't cry, that doesn't dwell on homesickness.
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Herta MΓΌller (The Hunger Angel)
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Whether you are brave or not cannot be judged by people on the outside. Sometimes being brave requires letting the crowd think youβre a coward. Sometimes being brave means letting everyone down but yourself.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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I donβt know what to tell you, Mog.β Jupiter sighed. βSome people are brave bullies. Some people are friendly cowards.
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Jessica Townsend (Wundersmith: The Calling of Morrigan Crow (Nevermoor, #2))
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Both the brave man and the coward feel the same. The only difference between them is that the brave man faces his fear, does not run.
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John Gwynne (Malice (The Faithful and the Fallen, #1))
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Death and destruction are necessary to the health of the world, and therefore as natural, and lovable, as birth and life. Only priests and born cowards moan and weep over dying. Brave men face it with approving nonchalance.
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Ragnar Redbeard
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What? I demand to know. "What is it now?"
"You're not going to go." he says.
"Watch me."
"I've been having a vision of this place, too." This stops me from my wild, cowardly (how can he think I'm brave?) retreat back to the road ...
"You're having a new vision, too?" I ask.
"It's right here." He walks toward me, his strides long and purposeful across the grass. "Right now. I've been seeing it for weeks, and it's happening right now."
He stops in front of me.
"This is the part where I kiss you," he says.
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Cynthia Hand (Hallowed (Unearthly, #2))
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Every man is scared in his first battle. If he says he s not he s a liar. Some men are cowards but they fight the same as the brave men or they get the hell slammed out of them watching men fight who are just as scared as they are. The real hero is the man who fights even though he is scared.
Some men get over their fright in a minute under fire. For some it takes an hour. For some it takes days. But a real man will never let his fear of death overpower his honor his sense of duty to his country and his innate manhood.
Battle is the most magnificent competition in which a human being can indulge. It brings out all that is best and it removes all that is base.
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George S. Patton Jr.
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That man is not truly brave who is afraid either to seem or to be, when it suits him, a coward.
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Edgar Allan Poe
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You pretended to hate him because you were a coward. But you eventually loved him, and he is a part of you now, because you have since grown brave.
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N.K. Jemisin (The Obelisk Gate (The Broken Earth, #2))
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Bravery did not come to her naturally. She spent too much time weighing her options to be brave. Too much time calculating the many paths before her. But Mariko knew it was time to do more. Time to be more. She would not die a coward.
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RenΓ©e Ahdieh (Flame in the Mist (Flame in the Mist, #1))
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I can only miss the true and I can only mourn the brave. Cowards make it easy to let go because you're not losing anything worth having.
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Donna Lynn Hope
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Then [Hurl] sat up, holding out her fist. "Not cowards. No backing down. Brave until the end, right Spin? A pact."
I met her fist with mine. "Brave to the end.
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Brandon Sanderson (Skyward (Skyward, #1))
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The coward dies a thousand deaths, the brave but one?'
'Of course. Who said it?'
'I don't know.'
'He was probably a coward,' she said. "He knew a great deal about cowards but nothing about the brave. The brave dies perhaps two thousand deaths if he's intelligent. He simply doesn't mention them.
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Ernest Hemingway (A Farewell to Arms)
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A coward,' he declared with dignity, when he'd stopped coughing and had got his breath back, 'dies a hundred times. A brave man dies but once. But Dame Fortune favours the brave and holds the coward in contempt.'
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Dandelion
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Andrzej Sapkowski (Czas pogardy (Saga o WiedΕΊminie, #2))
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There are enough cowards in the world without killing a brave creature for so little reason.
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Brian Jacques (Mossflower (Redwall, #2))
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Cowards shrink from challenges, weaklings flee from them, but warriors wink at them.
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Matshona Dhliwayo
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Don't bother too much about your feelings. When they are humble, loving, brave, give thanks for them; when they are conceited, selfish, cowardly, ask to have them altered. In neither case are they you, but only a thing that happens to you. What matters is your intentions and your behavior
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C.S. Lewis
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There are no brave men and cowardly men in the world, my son. There are only brave men. To be born, to live, to dieβthat takes courage enough in itself, and more than enough.
We are all brave men and we are all afraid, and what the world calls a brave man, he too is brave and afraid like the all rest of us. Only he is brave for five minutes longer.
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Alistair MacLean (The Guns of Navarone)
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For every hero, a thousand cowards," said Hel. "For every brave death, a thousand senseless ones.
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Rick Riordan (The Sword of Summer (Magnus Chase and the Gods of Asgard, #1))
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A lot of people hate heroes. I was criticized for portraying people who are brave, honest, loving, intelligent. That was called weak and sentimental. People who dismiss all real emotion as sentimentality are cowards. Theyβre afraid to commit themselves, and so they remain βcoolβ for the rest of their lives, until theyβre deadβthen theyβre really cool.
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Mark Helprin
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Even a dog mocks a lion when the lion is inside a cage.
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Amit Kalantri (Wealth of Words)
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It is far easier to see brave men die than to hear a coward beg for life.
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Jack London (The Iron Heel)
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America: Land of the free and home of the gun.
We are not brave, we are cowards, or we would have done something, anything after Newtown. Instead we did Nothing.
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Jonathan Heatt (Teaching Snapping Turtles How To Chew Bubblegum)
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There was more courage in bearing trouble than in escaping from it; the brave and the energetic cling to hope, even in spite of fortune; the cowardly and the indolent are hurried by their fears,' said Plotius Firmus, Roman Praetorian Guard.
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Tacitus (The Histories)
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Victory does not come to cowards;it comes to the brave ones.
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Jaachynma N.E. Agu (The Prince and the Pauper)
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I like being brave well enough, but I will be a lazy coward again if you think that would be better.
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Peter S. Beagle (The Last Unicorn (The Last Unicorn, #1))
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Even cowards can endure hardship; only he brave can endure suspense
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Mignon McLaughlin
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Everyone has scars. Cowards conceal them. The brave reveal them.
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A.D. Posey
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And all men kill the thing they love,
By all let this be heard,
Some do it with a bitter look,
Some with a flattering word,
The coward does it with a kiss,
The brave man with a sword!β
Ballad of Reading Gaol, 1898
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Oscar Wilde
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Fencing. Fighting. Torture. Poison. True love. Hate. Revenge. Giants. Hunters. Bad men. Good men. Beautiful ladies. Snakes. Spiders. Pain. Death. Brave men. Cowardly men. Strongest men. Chases. Escapes. Lies. Truths. Passion. Miracles.
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Cary Elwes (As You Wish: Inconceivable Tales from the Making of The Princess Bride)
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I remember it so well. Dying. It was the most painful thing I've ever experienced. I couldn't scream because my lungs were torn apart or full of blood. I don't know. I just had to lie there, trying to breathe, hoping to drop dead as quickly as possible. And the whole time, the whole time I kept thinking about how I'd spent my entire life being a coward, and how it got me nowhere. And I knew that if I had the chance to do it all again, I'd do it differently. I promised myself I'd finally stop being afraid.
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Tahereh Mafi (Ignite Me (Shatter Me, #3))
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To say that a man lieth, is as much to say, as that he is brave towards God, and a coward towards men.
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Francis Bacon
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The coward, then, is a despairing sort of person; for he fears everything,β Aristotle wrote. βThe brave man, on the other hand, has the opposite disposition; for confidence is the mark of a hopeful disposition.
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Jon Meacham (The Soul of America: The Battle for Our Better Angels)
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what is the difference between a hero and a coward? What is the difference between being yellow and being brave? No difference. Only what you do. They both feel the same. They both fear dying and getting hurt. The man who is yellow refuses to face up to what heβs got to face. The hero is more disciplined and he fights those feelings off and he does what he has to do. But they both feel the same, the hero and the coward. People who watch you judge you on what you do, not how you feel.
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Ben Horowitz (The Hard Thing About Hard Things: Building a Business When There Are No Easy Answers)
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A book is like a man - clever and dull, brave and cowardly, beautiful and ugly. For every flowering thought there will be a page like a wet and mangy mongrel, and for every looping flight a tap on the wing and a reminder that wax cannot hold the feathers firm too near the sun.
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John Steinbeck
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If it be well weighed, to say that a man lieth, is as much to say, as that he is brave towards God and a coward towards men.
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Michel de Montaigne
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If We Must Die
If we must die, let it not be like hogs
Hunted and penned in an inglorious spot,
While round us bark the mad and hungry dogs,
Making their mock at our accursèd lot.
If we must die, O let us nobly die,
So that our precious blood may not be shed
In vain; then even the monsters we defy
Shall be constrained to honor us though dead!
O kinsmen! we must meet the common foe!
Though far outnumbered let us show us brave,
And for their thousand blows deal one death-blow!
What though before us lies the open grave?
Like men we'll face the murderous, cowardly pack,
Pressed to the wall, dying, but fighting back!
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Claude McKay (Selected Poems of Claude McKay)
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fortes et strenuos etiam contra fortunam insistere, timidos et ignoros ad desperationem formidine properare - the brave and bold persist even against fortune; the timid and cowardly rush to despair through fear alone
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Tacitus
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I am not brave enough to be a coward," she said. "I see the consequences too clearly
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Ayn Rand
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Life's not about security. It's about picking up the pieces after it's all over and carrying on. We can choose to be cowards who fear letting someone inside us, and do that alone. Or we can choose to be brave and let someone stand by our side and help us.
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Sherrilyn Kenyon (The Guardian (Dark-Hunter, #20; Dream-Hunter, #5; Were-Hunter, #6; Hellchaser, #5))
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Fencing. Fighting. Torture. Poison. True love. Hate. Revenge. Giants. Hunters. Bad men. Good men. Beautifulest ladies. Snakes. Spiders. Beasts of all natures and descriptions. Pain. Death. Brave men. Coward men. Strongest men. Chases. Escapes. Lies. Truths. Passion. Miracles.
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William Goldman
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If you live in Milton, you must learn to have a brave heart, Miss Hale.β
βI would do my best,β said Margaret rather pale. βI do not know
whether I am brave or not till I am tried; but I am afraid I
should be a coward.
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Elizabeth Gaskell (North and South)
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When I'm brave and strong, and care for children and the sick and the poor, I become a better person. And when I'm cruel, cowardly, or tell lies, or get drunk, I turn into someone less worthy, and I can't respect myself. That's the divine retribution I believe in
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Ken Follett (World Without End (Kingsbridge, #2))
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I once knew a man who was heir to the throne of a great kingdom, he lived as a ranger and fought his destiny to sit on a throne but in his blood he was a king. I also knew a man who was the king of a small kingdom, it was very small and his throne very humble but he and his people were all brave and worthy conquerors. And I knew a man who sat on a magnificent throne of a big and majestic kingdom, but he was not a king at all, he was only a cowardly steward. If you are the king of a great kingdom, you will always be the only king though you live in the bushes. If you are the king of a small kingdom, you can lead your people in worth and honor and together conquer anything. And if you are not a king, though you sit on the kingβs throne and drape yourself in many fine robes of silk and velvet, you are still not the king and you will never be one.
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C. JoyBell C.
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Everything is possible, and yet nothing is. All is permitted, and yet again, nothing. No matter which way we go, it is no better than any other. It is all the same whether you achieve something or not, have faith or not, just as it is all the same whether you cry or remain silent. There is an explanation for everything, and yet there is none. Everything is both real and unreal, normal and absurd, splendid and insipid. There is nothing worth more than anything else, nor any idea better than any other. Why grow sad from oneβs sadness and delight in oneβs joy? What does it matter whether our tears come from pleasure or pain? Love your unhappiness and hate your happiness, mix everything up, scramble it all! Be a snowflake dancing in the air, a flower floating downstream! Have courage when you donβt need to, and be a coward when you must be brave! Who knows? You may still be a winner! And if you lose, does it really matter? Is there anything to win in this world? All gain is a loss, and all loss is a gain. Why always expect a definite stance, clear ideas, meaningful words? I feel as if I should spout fire in response to all the questions which were ever put, or not put, to me.
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Emil M. Cioran (On the Heights of Despair)
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Controls is about fear, see. If youβre afraid enough of the reprisals, you donβt say no, you donβt fight back, you donβt run away. Saying yes is how you survive. It becomes normal. Horrible, but normal. Horrible, because itβs normal. Now, lucky you can say βNot standing up to him is giving him permission,β but if youβve been fed this diet since the year dot, there is no standing up. Victims arenβt cowards. Outsiders, like, they never have a clue how brave you have to be just to carry on.
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David Mitchell (The Bone Clocks)
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There is a mythical element to our childhood, it seems, that stays with us always. When we are young, we consume the world in great gulps, and it consumes us, and everything is mysterious and alive and fills us with desire and wonder, fear, and guilt. With the passing of the years, however, those memories become distant and malleable, and we shape them into the stories of who we are. We are brave, or we are cowardly. We are loving, or we are cruel.
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Eowyn Ivey (To the Bright Edge of the World)
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All of us, I suppose, like to believe that in a moral emergency we will behave like the heroes of our youth, bravely and forthrightly, without thought of personal loss or discredit. Certainly that was my conviction back in the summer of 1968. Tim O'Brien: a secret hero. The Lone Ranger. If the stakes ever became high enoughβif the evil were evil enough, if the good were good enoughβI would simply tap a secret reservoir of courage that had been accumulating inside me over the years. Courage, I seemed to think, comes to us in finite quantities, like an inheritance, and by being frugal and stashing it away and letting it earn interest, we steadily increase our moral capital in preparation for that day when the account must be drawn down. It was a comforting theory. It dispensed with all those bothersome little acts of daily courage; it offered hope and grace to the repetitive coward; it justified the past while amortizing the future.
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Tim O'Brien (The Things They Carried)
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You are well aware that it is not numbers or strength that bring the victories in war. No, it is when one side goes against the enemy with the gods' gift of a stronger morale that their adversaries, as a rule, cannot withstand them. I have noticed this point too, my friends, that in soldiering the people whose one aim is to keep alive usually find a wretched and dishonorable death, while the people who, realizing that death is the common lot of all men, make it their endeavour to die with honour, somehow seem more often to reach old age and to have a happier life when they are alive. These are facts which you too should realize (our situation demands it) and should show that you yourselves are brave men and should call on the rest to do likewise.
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Xenophon (The Persian Expedition)
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I'm an alien in my own world, a writer without words, a musician without a piano, a magician without a wand. I am fooled by infinite words that rush in my blood, yet imprisoned by the very thoughts of silence. I'm a gray green fallow leaf on trees and abandoned on the streets, a never-ending spring season and an eternal autumn. I'm the golden of the sun and the silver of the moon, the fog of dawn and the amber of dusk. I'm the white and the red flag , the obedient and the rebel. I am the coward in the brave, and the child in the man. I am, but a writer.
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Nema Al-Araby (Remnants and Ashes)
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It's a good thing to read a lot. It's a good thing to write a lot. The best thing to do is to live a lot. Fall in love. Fall out of love. Make a fool of yourself. Watch other people make fools of themselves. Believe something stupid and then realize you've been tricked. Feel embarrassed. Be brave and bold. Then be cowardly and pathetic. Give a damn about the world outside yourself. Have some very dark nights. It's all good. You'll use all of it.
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Michael Grant
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When you meet young people,
inspire them.
When you meet old people,
honor them.
When you meet wise people,
study them.
When you meet foolish people,
avoid them.
When you meet humble people,
treasure them.
When you meet arrogant people,
ignore them.
When you meet gracious people,
emulate them.
When you meet crude people,
disregard them.
When you meet brave people,
support them.
When you meet cowardly people,
encourage them.
When you meet strong people,
follow them.
When you meet weak people,
toughen them.
When you meet kind people,
esteem them.
When you meet cruel people,
oppose them.
When you meet virtuous people,
reward them.
When you meet evil people,
evade them.
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Matshona Dhliwayo
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Being a hero was much easier than being a coward. To be a hero, you only had to be brave for a moment - when you took out the gun, threw the bomb, pressed the detonator, did away with the tyrant, and away with yourself as well. But to be a coward was to embark on a career that lasted a lifetime. You couldn't ever relax. You had to anticipate the next occasion when you would have to make excuses for yourself, dither, cringe, reacquaint yourself with the taste of rubber boots and the state of your own fallen, abject character. Being a coward required pertinacity, persistence, a refusal to change - which made it, in a way, a kind of courage.
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Julian Barnes (The Noise of Time)
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The difference between a brave man and a coward is very simple. It is a problem of love. A coward loves only himself... [...] ...a coward cares only for his own body," Toshaway said, "and he loves it above all other things. The brave man loves other men first and himself last. Nahkusuaberu?"
I nodded.
"This" - he tapped me - "must mean nothing to you." The he tapped me again, on my face, my chest, my belly, my hands and feet. "All of this means nothing.
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Philipp Meyer (The Son)
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I came to believe it not true that "the
coward dies a thousand deaths, the brave man
only one." I think it is the other way around:
It is the brave who die a thousand deaths.
For it is imagination, and not just conscience,
which doth make cowards of us all. Those
who do not know fear are not truly brave.
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Leo Rosten
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Early in life I have noticed that no event is ever correctly reported in a newspaper, but in Spain, for the first time, I saw newspaper reports which did not bear any relation to the facts, not even the relationship which is implied in an ordinary lie. I saw great battles reported where there had been no fighting, and complete silence where hundreds of men had been killed. I saw troops who had fought bravely denounced as cowards and traitors, and others who had never seen a shot fired hailed as heroes of imaginary victories; and I saw newspapers in London retailing these lies and eager intellectuals building emotional superstructures over events that never happened. I saw, in fact, history being written not in terms of what happened but of what ought to have happened according to various βparty lines.
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George Orwell (Homage to Catalonia)
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Man must be able to think freely and he must be able to express his thoughts freely! He who is against this is not only fascist and primitive but at the same time is a very great coward also! Only the brave and the honourable men are never afraid of freedom of thought and freedom of expression of ideas! Just like the cockroaches do not like the light, evil minds also do not like the freedom of thoughts!
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Mehmet Murat ildan
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But others of us believed that the only true happiness our Sara had ever known in her short life on this earth had been among these people. And we wished for her soul to go to the place the Cheyennes called Seano β the place of the dead β which is reached by following the Hanging Road in the Sky, the Milky Way. Here the Cheyennes believe that all the People who have ever died live with their Creator, Heβamavehoβe. In Seano they live in villages just as they did on earth β hunting, working, eating, playing, loving, and making war. And all go to the place of the dead, regardless of whether they were good or bad on earth, virtuous or evil, brave or cowardly β everyone β and eventually in Seano all are reunited with the souls of their loved ones.
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Jim Fergus (One Thousand White Women: The Journals of May Dodd (One Thousand White Women, #1))
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Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear-not absence of fear. Except a creature be part coward it is not a compliment to say it is brave; it is merely a loose misapplication of the word. Consider the flea!-Incomparably the bravest of all the creatures of God, if ignorance of fear were courage. Whether you are asleep or awake he will attack you, caring nothing for the fact that in bulk and strength you are to him as are the massed armies of the earth to a sucking child; he lives both day and night and all days and nights in the very lap of peril and the immediate presence of death, and yet is no more afraid than is the man who walks the streets of a city that was threatened by an earthquake ten centuries before. When we speak of Clive, Nelson, and Putnam as men who "didn't know what fear was," we ought always to add the flea-and put him at the head of the procession.
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Mark Twain
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Obedient to no man, dependent only on weather and season, without a goal before them or a roof above them, owning nothing, open to every whim of fate, the homeless wanderers lead their childlike, brave, shabby existence. They are the sons of Adam, who was driven out of Paradise; the brothers of the animals, of innocence. Out of heaven's hand they accept what is given them from moment to moment: sun, rain, fog, snow, warmth, cold, comfort, and hardship; time does not exist for them and neither does history, or ambition, or that bizarre idol called progress and evolution, in which houseowners believe so desperately. A wayfarer may be delicate or crude, artful or awkward, brave or cowardlyβhe is always a child at heart, living in the first day of creation, before the beginning of the history of the world, his life always guided by a few simple instincts and needs. He may be intelligent or stupid; he may be deeply aware of the fleeting fragility of all living things, of how pettily and fearfully each living creature carries its bit of warm blood through the glaciers of cosmic space, or he may merely follow the commands of his poor stomach with childlike greedβhe is always the opponent, the deadly enemy of the established proprietor, who hates him, despises him, or fears him, because he does not wish to be reminded that all existence is transitory, that life is constantly wilting, that merciless icy death fills the cosmos all around.
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Hermann Hesse (Narcissus and Goldmund)
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They wonβt get us,β I said. βBecause youβre too brave. Nothing ever happens to the brave.β
βThey die of course.β
βBut only once.β
βI donβt know. Who said that?β
βThe coward dies a thousand deaths, the brave but one?β
βOf course. Who said it?β
βI donβt know.β
βHe was probably a coward,β she said. βHe knew a great deal about cowards but nothing about the brave. The brave dies perhaps two thousand deaths if heβs intelligent. He simply doesnβt mention them.β
βI donβt know. Itβs hard to see inside the head of the brave.β
βYes. Thatβs how they keep that way.β
βYouβre an authority.β
βYouβre right, darling. That was deserved.β
βYouβre brave.β
βNo,β she said. βBut I would like to be.
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Ernest Hemingway
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The god abandons Antony
When at the hour of midnight
an invisible choir is suddenly heard passing
with exquisite music, with voices β
Do not lament your fortune that at last subsides,
your lifeβs work that has failed, your schemes that have proved illusions.
But like a man prepared, like a brave man,
bid farewell to her, to Alexandria who is departing.
Above all, do not delude yourself, do not say that it is a dream,
that your ear was mistaken.
Do not condescend to such empty hopes.
Like a man for long prepared, like a brave man,
like the man who was worthy of such a city,
go to the window firmly,
and listen with emotion
but not with the prayers and complaints of the coward
(Ah! supreme rapture!)
listen to the notes, to the exquisite instruments of the mystic choir,
and bid farewell to her, to Alexandria whom you are losing.
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Constantinos P. Cavafy (Selected Poems)
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When I am around old people,
they think I am too foolish.
When I am around young people,
they think I am too intelligent.
When I am around learned people,
they think I am too simple.
When I am around educated people,
they think I am too wise.
When I am around proud people,
they think I am too weak.
When I am around mighty people,
they think I am too meek.
When I am around cowardly people,
they think I am too reckless.
When I am around bold people,
they think I am too brave.
When I am around modest people,
they think I am too arrogant.
When I am around eminent people,
they think I am too humble.
When I am around virtuous people,
they think I am too complacent.
When I am around immoral people,
they think I am too narrow.
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Matshona Dhliwayo
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is it possible to love a human being?
of course, especially if you donβt know them too well. I like to watch them through my window, walking down the street.
Stirkoff, youβre a coward.
of course, sir.
what is your definition of a coward?
a man who would think twice before fighting a lion with his bare hands.
and what is your definition of a brave man?
a man who doesnβt know what a lion is.
every man knows what a lion is.
every man assumes that he does.
and what is your definition of a fool?
a man who doesnβt realize that Time, Structure and Flesh are being mostly wasted.
who then is a wise man?
there arenβt any wise men, sir.
then there canβt be any fools. if there isnβt any night there canβt be any day; if there isnβt any white there canβt be any black.
Iβm sorry, sir. I thought that everything was what it was, not depending on something else
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Charles Bukowski (Notes of a Dirty Old Man)
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Can you read this word, Peter?'
...'It says GOD.'
'Yes, that's right. Now write it backward and see what you find.'
...'DOG! Mamma! It says DOG!'
'Yes. It says dog.' The sadness in her voice quenched Peter's excitement at once. His mother pointed from GOD to DOG. 'These are the two natures of man,' she said. 'Never forget them... Our preachers say that our natures are partly of God and partly of Old Man Splitfoot... But there are few devils outside of made-up stories, Pete -- most bad people are more like dogs than devils. Dogs are friendly and stupid, and that's the way most men and women are when they are drunk. When dogs are excited and confused, they may bite; when men are excited and confused, they may fight. Dogs are great pets because they are loyal, but if a pet is all a man is, he is a bad man, I think. Dogs can be brave, but they may also be cowards that will howl in the dark or run away with their tails between their legs. A dog is just as eager to lick the hand of a bad master as he is to lick the hand of a good one, because dogs don't know the difference between good and bad.
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Stephen King (The Eyes of the Dragon)
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They were supposed to be the ones who would help us eighteen-year-olds to make the transition, who would guide us into adult life, into a world of work, of responsibilities, of civilized behaviour and progress β into the future. Quite often we ridiculed them and played tricks on them, but basically we believed in them. In our minds the idea of authority β which is what they represented β implied deeper insights and a more humane wisdom. But the first dead man that we saw shattered this conviction. We were forced to recognize that our generation was more honourable than theirs; they only had the advantage of us in phrase-making and in cleverness. Our first experience of heavy artillery fire showed us our mistake, and the view of life that their teaching had given us fell to pieces under that bombardment. While they went on writing and making speeches, we saw field hospitals and men dying: while they preached the service of the state as the greatest thing, we already knew that the fear of death is even greater. This didnβt make us into rebels or deserters, or turn us into cowards β and they were more than ready to use all of those words β because we loved our country just as much as they did, and so we went bravely into every attack. But now we were able to distinguish things clearly, all at once our eyes had been opened. And we saw that there was nothing left of their world. Suddenly we found ourselves horribly alone β and we had to come to terms with it alone as well.
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Erich Maria Remarque (All Quiet on the Western Front)