Chup Hai Quotes

WO PAL BHI KYA PAL THE WO PAL BHI KYA PAL THE. JO BITE HUE KAL ME THE. BITAYA THA EK WAQT UN DOSTO KE SATH BHULE BISRE UN RATO KE SATH. JITE THE HUM BHI GURUR ME ZINDAGI NA HARNE KE SURAT ME YE ZINDAGI. MILI THI JAB PAHLI NAZAR TUJHSE. GUM HO GAYA THA YE DIL KAHI MUJHSE. RUK GAYA THA WAQT JAISE. THAM GAYI THI YE SAANSE VAISE. WO PAL BHI KYA PAL THE. JO BITE HUE KAL ME THE WO CHUP CHUP KAR TUJHE DEKHNA. WO KHAWABHO ME BHI TUJHE DEKHNA WO DUAON ME TUJHE MANGNA WO NIGAHON ME TUJHE BAITHANA YAAD HAI WO SAB…. WO PAL BHI KYA PAL THE JO BITE HUE KAL ME THI TAB DIKHAYA TUNE. SACH HI BATAYA TUNE BIKTI HAI JAHAN ME SURAT NA HAI SIRAT KA KOI MOL. MILTI HAI MOHABBAT YAHA KAUDIYO KE MOL. ZIDD THI MERI BHI TUJHE PANE KI. EK DIN TUJHE EHSAS DILANE KI. SURAT TO BAS DO DIN KI KAHANI HAI. SIRAT HI ZINDAGI BHAR KAAM ANI HAI. AJ HOTA HAI TUJHE BHI MAHSOOS. JO KAL MUJH PAR THI BITI. AJJ WO TUJHKO HAI JINI . SAHI KAHA HAI KISI NE MOHABBAT KISI KO PAGAL BANA DE. TO KISI KO PATTHAR BANA DE. WO PAL BHI KYA PAL THE. JO BITE HUE KAL ME THE.

Sarfaroshi ki tamanna ab hamaare dil mein hai Dekhna hai zor kitna baazu-e-qaatil mein hai Karta nahin kyun doosra kuch baat-cheet Dekhta hun main jise woh chup teri mehfil mein hai Aye shaheed-e-mulk-o-millat main tere oopar nisaar Ab teri himmat ka charcha ghair ki mehfil mein hai Sarfaroshi ki tamanna ab hamaare dil mein hai Waqt aanay dey bata denge tujhe aye aasman Hum abhi se kya batayen kya hamare dil mein hai Khainch kar layee hai sab ko qatl hone ki ummeed Aashiqon ka aaj jumghat koocha-e-qaatil mein hai Sarfaroshi ki tamanna ab hamaare dil mein hai The desire for revolution is in our hearts Let us see what strength there is in the arms of our executioner O nation, why no one else says anything? Everyone I see in this party has their lips sealed… O martyr of country, of nation, I bow to thee As even the enemy now speaks of thy courage The desire for revolution is in our hearts… We shall show thee when the time comes, O heaven For why should we speak now of what lurks in our hearts? The hope of blood and sacrifice, binds us all and brings us here The streets of the enemy now overflows with the lovers of the nation The desire for revolution is in our hearts…)

There are more restrictive rules for girls than for dogs, cats or cows. Everyone knows these common boundaries, ‘boundations’. These restrictions often continue through college and even till the day girls get married. Curfew hours range from 6 p.m. to 10.30 p.m. For Abhisha, 20, studying commerce, the curfew hour is still 6 p.m. or 6.30 p.m. She says wistfully, ‘I have a lot of dreams, like sometimes to hang out with my friends, but my mother and father allow nahin karte , they don’t allow it. Because they think it is not safe for women. I feel they won’t allow me sleepovers, so I never ask, I feel anxious that they might refuse. Hesitation hoti hai , there is hesitation.’ Once she hesitatingly asked her father permission to go somewhere and he did not allow her. She did not talk to her father for a year, but she did not defy him or fight back. She says, ‘Now I have let it go. It was something small. But it affected me a lot.

Having a self becomes confused with being selfish. Being selfish of course is bad for nice and caring girls. Having a self is made shameful by associating it with being ‘difficult, demanding, aggressive, nasty, bitchy, stubborn, opinionated and bad’. Rashi, 25, who spoke  in a soft voice, put it this way. ‘I was taught to learn to adjust, not be too demanding, whenever I started crying over something I wanted, then Mom always used to say, beta, thoda adjust karna padta hai , darling, you have to adjust a little.

The word ‘teasing’ in ‘eve-teasing’ makes the act of molestation acceptable. The common expression used for ‘teasing’ in Hindi is chhera-chheri , a word that women use to describe boys’ general behaviour within the acceptable range. Many women said, ‘ Chhera-chheri toh chalti hi hai , teasing happens,’ implying its acceptance and normality and making the act of molestation sound like casual fun. Boys tease, after all, that is their nature, boys will be boys. The word is not abusing, baiting, exploiting, hating, harassing or molesting. And the name is not Sita, Indira or Radha. The name is Eve. And she is foreign. The name Eve helps create distance from our daily, immediate Indian context.

The culturally preferred word to persuade girls not to speak is to label them bevakoof , fools. Sonal, 24, from a well-off family, recalls a childhood in which she was frequently called a fool. ‘Once my grandfather introduced me to his friends saying, “ Yeh bevakoof hai . She is a fool.” I was 11, I felt very bad, so I told my mom and she said he meant it in a joking way.’ Most mothers automatically support the ‘other’ and discount their girl’s concerns.

Heena, 21, a computer science student, remembers the joy of argumentation before it became fear-laden and defined as conflict. She wistfully says, ‘ Woh  na  mind itna free ho jata hai isliye I avoid . You know the mind, it becomes so free, that is why I avoid it.’ She adds, ‘It leads to deep thinking.

And Papa will say “ Kahin jane ki zaroorat nahin hai, ghar pe baitho . There is no need to go anywhere, sit at home.”’ For a while she keeps thinking about how to get out of her house with friends, but then she gives up the fight to go out and becomes good. Her parents are relieved. Gradually hiding becomes a habit. Invisibility becomes safe. A habit.

Uski Aankhen masoom bache si muskurati, kabhi shararti si apni hi dhun mein gunn gunati. kisi ke ishq mein sitaron si chamakti, toh kabhi dard se bhar kar khoob chalakti. chup chaap khoi si, har pal jaise kuch dhoondti, lafzon se parda karti, phir bhi sab kuch bolti. aaine sa sacha bayaan hai, yeh aankhein uski rooh ki zaabaan hai

Maa to Maa hai.. ** Door ho tum.. jo ghar se apne.. To sochte hoge.. office mein baithe.. Maa kaisi hogi? Maa kaisi hogi? Ghar pe hai, to theek hi hogi. Kaam mein doobe, tum sochte hoge.. Maa jaagti hogi.. ya soti hogi. Maa to Maa hai.. Jaag hi rahi hai.. soi nai.. shayad roti hogi. Sochti hogi tum aaoge.. Dhoondhti hogi kaunsi raah se.. Tum door ho na.. samjhoge kaise. Darti hai vo.. khali ghar ke kone se.. Jhule ke khali hone se.. Mausam ke badalne se. tumhare ghar se chalne se. Puchti hai fir kab aaoge.. bta dena.. Saansein thodi hain.. hak apna jata dena. Ik baar to din mein baat kiya kar.. Neend achi aati hai.. teri Awaz sunkar.. Teri hasi, teri khushi ke vaaste.. kare sab kurbaan vo tujhpe. Duaayen deti hogi Maa to maa hai.. Roti hogi.. Fir chup chaap soti hogi. ***