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Choose your battles wisely. After all, life isn't measured by how many times you stood up to fight. It's not winning battles that makes you happy, but it's how many times you turned away and chose to look into a better direction. Life is too short to spend it on warring. Fight only the most, most, most important ones, let the rest go.
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C. JoyBell C.
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...choose your battles wisely and remember, what the heart knows, walks afar from reason. It simply is.
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Angelo Tsanatelis (Origins)
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Be careful who you choose as your friends because their bad habits can become your bad habits. Choose wisely...we all have a choice in life.
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Mimi Jenkins (I Am My Mother's Daughter)
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You are a light. You are the light. Never let anyone—any person or any force—dampen, dim or diminish your light. Study the path of others to make your way easier and more abundant. Lean toward the whispers of your own heart, discover the universal truth, and follow its dictates. […] Release the need to hate, to harbor division, and the enticement of revenge. Release all bitterness. Hold only love, only peace in your heart, knowing that the battle of good to overcome evil is already won. Choose confrontation wisely, but when it is your time don't be afraid to stand up, speak up, and speak out against injustice. And if you follow your truth down the road to peace and the affirmation of love, if you shine like a beacon for all to see, then the poetry of all the great dreamers and philosophers is yours to manifest in a nation, a world community, and a Beloved Community that is finally at peace with itself.
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John Lewis (Across That Bridge: A Vision for Change and the Future of America)
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You've got to pick your battles, Pen, but then fight to the death for the ones that matter.
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Tiffany Schmidt (Hold Me Like a Breath (Once Upon a Crime Family, #1))
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There are moments in our lives when we summon the courage to make choices that go against reason, against common sense and the wise counsel of people we trust. But we lean forward nonetheless because, despite all risks and rational argument, we believe that the path we are choosing is the right and best thing to do. We refuse to be bystanders, even if we do not know exactly where our actions will lead.
This is the kind of passionate conviction that sparks romances, wins battles, and drives people to pursue dreams others wouldn’t dare. Belief in ourselves and in what is right catapults us over hurdles, and our lives unfold.
“Life is a sum of all your choices,” wrote Albert Camus. Large or small, our actions forge our futures and hopefully inspire others along the way.
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Howard Schultz (Onward: How Starbucks Fought for Its Life without Losing Its Soul)
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I found peace of mind when I walked away from small fights not worth fighting. I stopped fighting for people who gossiped about me. I stopped fighting for those who didn't respect me. I quit worrying about those who wouldn't value me for being me.
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Dana Arcuri (Sacred Wandering: Growing Your Faith In The Dark)
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You have to choose your path.
You have to decide what you wish to do.
You are the only person that can determine your destiny.
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Lailah Gifty Akita (Think Great: Be Great! (Beautiful Quotes, #1))
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If you don’t want to “sweat the small stuff,” it’s critical that you choose your battles wisely.
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Richard Carlson (Don't Sweat the Small Stuff ... and it's all small stuff)
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You should choose your battles if you can, but if the battle chooses you then kick the sod in his fuse box!
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Fredrik Backman (My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She's Sorry)
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Countless possibilities exist in any situation. You must maintain a positive outlook to see the miraculous possibilities.
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Lailah Gifty Akita (Think Great: Be Great! (Beautiful Quotes, #1))
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Choose your battles wisely. Cheat whenever necessary.
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Alex Gabriel (Love for the Cold-Blooded, or The Part-Time Evil Minion's Guide to Accidentally Dating a Superhero)
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Choose your battles wisely, and do not let your pride get the better of you. A wise queen is a just and humble one.
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Farah Oomerbhoy (The Last of the Firedrakes (The Avalonia Chronicles, #1))
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That you should choose your battles wisely. You cannot fight everything and win. Sometimes the price of losing is beyond what you can afford to pay, but that applies to winning as well.
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Elizabeth Chadwick (The Autumn Throne (Eleanor of Aquitaine, #3))
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It is possible for you to realise your dream as a scientist, you must be a passionate learner and curious enough to seek this wonderful career path.
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Lailah Gifty Akita (Think Great: Be Great! (Beautiful Quotes, #1))
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The phrase “choose your battles wisely” means to be selective of how we spend our time and who we spend our time with. To be selective. To not join every argument or confrontation. To learn to walk away from unproductive battles.
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Dana Arcuri (Sacred Wandering: Growing Your Faith In The Dark)
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It suggests that life is filled with opportunities to choose between making a big deal out of something or simply letting it go, realizing it doesn’t really matter. If you choose your battles wisely, you’ll be far more effective in winning those that are truly important.
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Richard Carlson (Don't Sweat the Small Stuff ... and it's all small stuff)
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Choose to live life.
Choose your own career paths.
Choose your own destiny.
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Lailah Gifty Akita (Think Great: Be Great! (Beautiful Quotes, #1))
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Choose your battles wisely; some arguments aren't worth the energy, especially with those unwilling to reason.
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Enamul Haque
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That springtime does not last forever and that the fine seasons should have their harvest gathered and stored against harsher times. That you should choose your battles wisely. You cannot fight everything and win. Sometimes the price of losing is beyond what you can afford to pay, but that applies to winning as well.” She narrowed her focus on the girls. “Be very careful and think before you act. Make friends with those who you know will stay true to you and reward them fittingly.
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Elizabeth Chadwick (The Autumn Throne (Eleanor of Aquitaine, #3))
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Cruelty shouldn't be met with more cruelty; the cycle of violence must end. Yet, survival often demands a fight, and sometimes there's no clear answer to be applied. Choose your battles wisely; sparing the strike may be your first step away from your demise.
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David Omrai
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My advice would be to find a good woman and steer well clear of the whole bloody business, and it’s a shame no one told me the same twenty years ago.” He looked sideways at Jezal. “But if, say, you’re stuck out on some great wide plain in the middle of nowhere and can’t avoid it, there’s three rules I’d take to a fight. First, always do your best to look the coward, the weakling, the fool. Silence is a warrior’s best armour, the saying goes. Hard looks and hard words have never won a battle yet, but they’ve lost a few.” “Look the fool, eh? I see.” Jezal had built his whole life around trying to appear the cleverest, the strongest, the most noble. It was an intriguing idea, that a man might choose to look like less than he was. “Second, never take an enemy lightly, however much the dullard he seems. Treat every man like he’s twice as clever, twice as strong, twice as fast as you are, and you’ll only be pleasantly surprised. Respect costs you nothing, and nothing gets a man killed quicker than confidence.” “Never underestimate the foe. A wise precaution.” Jezal was beginning to realise that he had underestimated this Northman. He wasn’t half the idiot he appeared to be. “Third, watch your opponent as close as you can, and listen to opinions if you’re given them, but once you’ve got your plan in mind, you fix on it and let nothing sway you. Time comes to act, you strike with no backwards glances. Delay is the parent of disaster, my father used to tell me, and believe me, I’ve seen some disasters.
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Joe Abercrombie (Before They Are Hanged (The First Law, #2))
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Not everything that comes our way needs to be overpowered or won. At times we need to ignore many things and that’s what we call as FOCUS. Choose your battles, wisely. Knowing when to play and when to sit on the sidelines...when to lead and when to follow...is called WISDOM – a key element for staying focused to reach your destination...your goal. We cannot stop noises around us, but we can close our ears to the noises.
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Sanjeev Himachali
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Intelligence is really the ability to decide which battles to fight in Life…and when you employ your intelligence this way, you will awaken to the choice that perhaps, in most cases, it is best not to fight (any battle) at all. Almost always, the best way to live (and to win, if you like) is to not fight anyone – or anything. This understanding will interestingly help you choose wisely and in the event that you do choose to fight for a cause that you truly believe in, it will teach you to be detached from the outcome. When you are engaged only with the process, you discover the opportunity to be happy without getting keyed up about the result.
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AVIS Viswanathan
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1. Value my ability to see the world from a unique perspective.
(Find ways to appreciate and make the most of my strengths, even when I annoy you).
2. Remember, we need compelling problems to solve, not just chores to do.
(Don't be the "big boss." I'll respect your authority more when you tell me the point).
3. Ask for my input; keep me in the informational loop.
(Give me some ownership in the process and the outcome).
4. Protect our relationship - you won't get much from me without one.
(Respect and value who I am, and I'll cooperate with you most of the time).
5. Smile at me more often.
(Keep your sense of humor and try to smile, even when you don't like me).
6. Don't let me push you around, but don't push me around either.
(Don't be afraid to stand up to me; just don't run over me).
7. Speak to me respectfully, but firmly.
(Use your voice wisely; it's a powerful resource).
8. Choose your battles - don't sweat the small stuff.
(Decide what's really worth it).
9. Give me some control over my own life and circumstances.
(Allow me to share control with our surrendering your authority).
10. Remind me how much you love me.
(Find subtle ways to keep reminding me your love will always be there).
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Cynthia Ulrich Tobias (You Can't Make Me (But I Can Be Persuaded): Strategies for Bringing Out the Best in Your Strong-Willed Child)
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You will wear what I choose, do what I choose," he said in a silken voice. "You know that, don't you?"
She wanted to agree. She wanted to do anything to get him to move away from her, release her from his impaling gaze. She felt like a hunted rabbit caught in a snare, facing the inexorable death in her hunter's eyes.
But she couldn't. She couldn't cower and waffle and let him know how very much he terrorized her. "And elf I refuse?" Her voice quavered slightly, but at least she fought.
The dress was very low-cut, exposing a great deal of her chest. Her tangled red hair lay around her shoulders, and he picked up a strand, running it between his long, bejeweled fingers like a merchant testing silk. And then he brushed it slowly across the exposed swell of her breast.
She couldn't control her start of shock at the subtle caress. It shouldn't have affected her, it was only her own lamentably red hair, yet the touch against her soft skin was shocking, arousing, and she made a frightened little noise.
"You won't refuse, Emma," he said softly, repeating the caress. "You're a very clever child, far too wise for your own good. You know when you can win a battle, and you know when the price of putting up a fight is too high. You'll wear what I want you to wear. Won't you?" For a third time the lock of hair danced across her breast, dipping below the décolletage to slip inside the bodice of the dress. Emma wanted to scream.
Instead she bit her lip. "For now," she said, amazed that her voice didn't shake. She kept her expression stonily unmoved, but he was too observant to miss the rapid rise and fall of her chest, the heightened color of her cheeks. Doubtless he would make of it what he wanted.
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Anne Stuart (To Love a Dark Lord)
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Glaucus had taught me to choose my battles, and to choose them wisely. I chose not to fight this one. Not yet. Great Apollo, I prayed, let your healing powers help and sustain Milo until I can be with him again.
We entered the royal stronghold, greeted by loud catcalls. Apparently all of the guards knew about what had happened to Telys. As soon as they laid eyes on me, he found himself walking through a gauntlet of hecklers.
“That’s who took your spear? He’s an infant!”
“How’d he beat you, Telys? Trip you with his cradle?”
“Hey, for all you know, the baby didn’t take the spear. Telys probably loaned it to him so he’d have something to teethe on.
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Esther M. Friesner (Nobody's Prize (Nobody's Princess, #2))
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You may choose your battles wisely, but you can never choose your war.
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Halo Scot (Burn the Sun: An Apocalyptic Science-Fantasy Novel)
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Say What You Say on Purpose Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and they who indulge in it shall eat the fruit of it [for death or life]. PROVERBS 18:21 I strongly recommend confessing the Word of God out loud. Even though what you confess may be the opposite of how you initially feel, keep doing it; God’s Word has inherent power to change your feelings. God’s Word also brings comfort to us and quiets our distraught emotions. There is a time to talk and a time to keep silent. Sometimes the best thing we can do is say nothing. When we do speak, it is wise to be purposeful in what we say and think about our words beforehand. If we truly believe our words are filled with life or death, why wouldn’t we choose what we say more carefully? Power Thought: I choose my words carefully; I choose words filled with life.
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Joyce Meyer (Power Thoughts Devotional: 365 Daily Inspirations for Winning the Battle of the Mind)
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If you can manage your thoughts and mind, and choose your battles wisely, you can manage your life.
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Mensah Oteh
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Choose your battles wisely.
Unless you have a very high
chance of victory, spare your
energy and walk away
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Domonique Bertolucci
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Living with the “raw gem” of a persistent child is not easy. To tell these kids no, to thwart their efforts, is to risk their wrath. Even as infants they are incredibly determined and strong. They push where other kids don’t push. They demand more than other kids demand. And they never give up. It is nearly impossible to ignore them or distract them. In every situation they meet us head-on, ready to do battle. Persistence is the temperamental trait that plays a major role in power struggles. Spirited kids need, want, and seek power. But we can learn to choose our battles wisely. We don’t have to fight every day. By recognizing our children’s drive and goal orientation, we can teach them to channel their persistence appropriately—to use it as an asset rather than a weapon. We can be a problem-solving family where persistence and commitment to one’s goals is celebrated, and the ability to work with others is a honed skill.
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Mary Sheedy Kurcinka (Raising Your Spirited Child: A Guide for Parents Whose Child is More Intense, Sensitive, Perceptive, Persistent, and Energetic)
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Fight or flight? Choose your battles wisely. Sometimes it is better to bend first than to break all at once.
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Mystqx Skye
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For us, this is a good reminder that God works in his own way. It is not by the strength of men that battles are won. It is by the work of God. That’s why in the story of David and Goliath we’ve uncovered the huge revelation that we are not David. It’s not about us gathering our slings and stones and going down to kill the giant of rejection ourselves. No, God is going to do that for us. He chooses the weak things to confound the strong, the simple things to upend the wise.
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Louie Giglio (Goliath Must Fall: Winning the Battle Against Your Giants)
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Always pick your battles carefully, and let karma take care of the rest.
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Anthon St. Maarten
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It was always wise to pick your battles and this was one they could not win. Not, yet, anyway.
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Jason Medina (The Manhattanville Incident: An Undead Novel)
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Did you ever hear that saying, ‘choose your battles wisely’?” asked Samuel. “No, but I did hear, ‘no battle is too small’. Look, they want to humble and beat me down to submission, but I won’t let them,
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Catherine Stack (The Irish Flapper)
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All I'm saying is, choose your battles wisely. Otherwise by the time a real war comes around you'll be too exhausted to fight.
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Louise Nicks (Soren: The Angel & The Prize Fighter)