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The most basic way to get someone's attention is this: Break a pattern.
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Chip Heath (Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die)
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Anger prepares us to fight and fear prepares us to flee.
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Failing is often the best way to learn, and because of that, early failure is a kind of necessary investment.
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Chip Heath (Switch)
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Knowledge does not change behavior,” he said. “We have all encountered crazy shrinks and obese doctors and divorced marriage counselors.
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Chip Heath (Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard)
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To make our communications more effective, we need to shift our thinking from "What information do I need to convey?" to "What questions do I want my audience to ask?
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Chip Heath (Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die)
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The first problem of communication is getting people's attention.
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A good change leader never thinks, “Why are these people acting so badly? They must be bad people.” A change leader thinks, “How can I set up a situation that brings out the good in these people?
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Chip Heath (Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard)
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Change is hard because people wear themselves out. And that’s the second surprise about change: What looks like laziness is often exhaustion.
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Chip Heath (Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard)
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The Curse of Knowledge: when we are given knowledge, it is impossible to imagine what it's like to LACK that knowledge.
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Chip Heath (Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die)
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Fundamental Attribution Error.” The error lies in our inclination to attribute people’s behavior to the way they are rather than to the situation they are in.
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Any time in life you’re tempted to think, ‘Should I do this OR that?’ instead, ask yourself, ‘Is there a way I can do this AND that?
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Chip Heath (Decisive: How to Make Better Choices in Life and Work)
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Transitions should be marked, milestones commemorated, and pits filled. That’s the essence of thinking in moments.
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Chip Heath (The Power of Moments: Why Certain Moments Have Extraordinary Impact)
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When did my house turn into a hangout for every grossly overpaid, terminally pampered professional football player in northern Illinois?"
"We like it here," Jason said. "It reminds us of home."
"Plus, no women around." Leandro Collins, the Bears' first-string tight end emerged from the office munching on a bag of chips. "There's times when you need a rest from the ladies."
Annabelle shot out her arm and smacked him in the side of the head. "Don't forget who you're talking to."
Leandro had a short fuse, and he'd been known to take out a ref here and there when he didn't like a call, but the tight end merely rubbed the side of his head and grimaced. "Just like my mama."
"Mine, too," Tremaine said with happy nod.
Annabelle spun on Heath. "Their mother! I'm thirty-one years old, and I remind them of their mothers."
"You act like my mother," Sean pointed out, unwisely as it transpired, because he got a swat in the head next.
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Susan Elizabeth Phillips (Match Me If You Can (Chicago Stars, #6))
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And that’s the first surprise about change: What looks like a people problem is often a situation problem.
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Chip Heath (Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard)
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Success emerges from the quality of the decisions we make and the quantity of luck we receive. We can't control luck. But we can control the way we make choices.
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Chip Heath (Decisive: How to Make Better Choices in Life and Work)
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The status quo feels comfortable and steady because much of the choice has been squeezed out. You have your routines, your ways of doing things.
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Chip Heath (Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard)
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The most basic way to make people care is to form an association between something they don’t yet care about and something they do care about. We
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What’s working, and how can we do more of it?” Sounds simple, doesn’t it? Yet, in the real world, this obvious question is almost never asked. Instead, the question we ask is more problem focused: “What’s broken, and how do we fix it?
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Chip Heath (Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard)
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Stephen Covey, in his book The 8th Habit, decribes a poll of 23,000 employees drawn from a number of companies and industries. He reports the poll's findings:
* Only 37 percent said they have a clear understanding of what their organization is trying to achieve and why
* Only one in five was enthusiastic about their team's and their organization's goals
* Only one in five said they had a clear "line of sight" between their tasks and their team's and organization's goals
* Only 15 percent felt that their organization fully enables them to execute key goals
* Only 20 percent fully trusted the organization they work for
Then, Covey superimposes a very human metaphor over the statistics. He says, "If, say, a soccer team had these same scores, only 4 of the 11 players on the field would know which goal is theirs. Only 2 of the 11 would care. Only 2 of the 11 would know what position they play and know exactly what they are supposed to do. And all but 2 players would, in some way, be competing against their own team members rather than the opponent.
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The bigger the change you’re suggesting, the more it will sap people’s self-control. And when people exhaust their self-control, what they’re exhausting are the mental muscles needed to think creatively, to focus, to inhibit their impulses, and to persist in the face of frustration or failure. In other words, they’re exhausting precisely the mental muscles needed to make a big change. So when you hear people say that change is hard because people are lazy or resistant, that’s just flat wrong. In fact, the opposite is true: Change is hard because people wear themselves out. And that’s the second surprise about change: What looks like laziness is often exhaustion.
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Chip Heath (Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard)