Breakup Motivational Quotes

I will not try to convince you to love me, to respect me, to commit to me. I deserve better than that; I AM BETTER THAN THAT...Goodbye.

I cannot compromise my respect for your love. You can keep your love, I will keep my respect.

Sometimes a woman will look back on what she had, not because she wants to go there but to motivate her to do better.

There is a specific feeling that comes about during the dying embers of a relationship. Different from the Monday morning quarrels before work because you two are tired, different from the “I’m not going to talk to you for a while because I am mad at you” silences. Breaks ups happen instantly, yet the process occurs over a gradual period of time, with tear by tear until what was once whole, rips into two. Breakups are the disappointment we feel when we wanted our lover to finish the story with an exclamation mark, but instead are left with a question mark.

A slip of the foot may injure your body, but a slip of the tongue will injure your bond.

If she says goodbye, someone else will say hi.

He who sacrifices his respect for love basically burns his body to obtain the light.

Never hesitate to make that decision of leaving, if staying can only cause more suffering.

Dear Fellow Human Being, You are born wild, You do not deserve to be tamed! Tell yourself, You do not deserve this! All those toxic words you have to listen from people, All those fears they try to pin on your mind, All those giggles they aim at your dreams, All those judgmental stares inspecting your individuality, All those fingers pointing towards your crude character, All those shackles that tie your feet to social expectations, All those cages that do not let your imagination fly free, Listen deeply, you do not deserve any of it. My dear fellow human, you do not deserve this hostility. You are born wild, You do not deserve to be tamed!

The worst part about a break up isn't the loss of a relationship. It's finding out that the person you once loved doesn't exist anymore. You start mourning the death of somebody who is still alive. It's painful and sobering. It's knowing that the person you loved has vanished into thin air and all that's left behind is their ghost

You were only meant to be a stepping stone on my journey across the sea.

We both were there, but alone. "Bye," she said and left; I was alone; again, one more time.

I am leaving. Where? Not where but whom. Whom? You.

You see black and white when I have millions of grey shades

Life does not end when a relationship ends, just like life doesn't start when a relationship starts.

When you endure what's unbearable, you become unbreakable

A Break-up isn't the end of the world, I am not the only one dealing with it, Billions have has a break-up, Trillions are yet to have it. You had a life before that, Now that you no longer are tied to anyone anymore GO FIND THAT LIFE BACK.

You are your own savior, champion, and best friend, your own Knight in Shining Armor.

At times, even a 90% compatibility rate ends in a breakup.

I'll always wait for you. Bye! Gotta go.

If someone breaks up, it's an opportunity to revamp yourself; this time better and stronger than before.

You left me, yet you did not leave I broke down, yet I did not break

Scratches and light wounds should not stop you from enjoying life. When people or things hurt you, have some strength to continue living your life.

Such insignificant differences as a few hundred years here or there were the motive for long, long controversies, both public and academic, which almost always resulted in the violent breakup of personal relationships and even in mortal enmities.

Just so you know, love is possible for us too. We've witnessed the pain life left at our doors. It entered unwelcome, decided never to leave. Hope held us together , even when everything fell apart. You knew it was out there waiting to be found. I just want you to know, that love is possible for us too. You will find love in time.

A man in his early prime contemplates on life, shattered by the distortions of society he gazes ahead in time. There were vows of happiness and fairy tale beginnings. Now there is nothing of that sort; now there is nothing that started the tales so bright. It's after all this while that he understands why fairy tales begin with 'once upon a time'...

If you were to love, love not for the lust that you yearn but the rather the pain that you earn with it. Remember though that the ones who brave the pain are eternally bound in Cupid's chain. It is these chains that many of us fear. The fear of losing the freedom of choosing for self. The fear of placing the needs of our better halves before our own. The fear is understandable for history has taught us to despise and the society has given us the chance to entice. However, if you were to pause and think ever about - love - then do remember that the chain which upon acceptance binds you in amour is the same which upon rejection arrests us to an ague called lonesome depression. Few survive in love, but fewer without it.

Contract Matrimony (The Sonnet) When I fall, I fall wholly - without a safety net of any kind. Prenups are an insult of love, all in fear of an imaginary night. Contract lovers are worse than contract killers, at least contract killers don't second guess their motive. Either love or don't, there's no second guessing - either marry or don't, there's no contract matrimony. Prenups are for juveniles, Clauses are for cowards. To seek escape in commitment, is an act of con, not love. Escapists have no right to love, Lovers have no need for escape. When you change exes like socks, It's a sickness, not a choice.

Cue thousands of Instagram posts encouraging the no-contact rule and implicitly shaming anyone who continues a relationship with their ex. But the story of relationships and their endings is far too complex for us to apply solution-focused changes aimed at reducing pain. Still, every one of my friends and every therapist on Instagram advises against talking to an ex. No contact, cold turkey, zero—a crazy idea to me. In my work, I’ve noticed that more than half of my clients will continue to communicate with their former partner, maintaining some form of connection. Even a friendship. This happens despite the discouraging advice recommending a complete cutoff. But we, as a society, might be better off trying to understand our need to continue a connection with an ex than condemning or strongly advising against it. Maybe it’s time we reconsidered our attitude toward post-breakup connections. Instead of dismissing them as unhealthy, we could try to understand the motives behind our choice to stay in touch. After all, each relationship and breakup is unique, and the two (or more) people involved in a ruptured relationship are in the best position to judge what serves their emotional needs and personal growth. The idea of cutting an ex out of your life completely is also extremely heteronormative. Many queer people (like me) don’t have their family of origin to fall back on. Our “families” are therefore sometimes our friends, partners, and ex-partners, the people we form deep connections with. Alex was my family for ten years. So, for me, cutting him out of my life entirely wasn’t so simple.

Muddling through the chaos of her life, She finally understood The real among the fake. While she kept on gripping air In search of friends, She finally understood where to hide. With emptiness by her side, She finally made friends with Solitude and the mess of her mind. While dialogues were only empty promises She finally learned how to react with her cold side. Muddling through the chaos in her life, She finally transformed into someone, Who just needed herself to have a sane mind.

No man or woman likes to be a fool, but here's the thing my mother taught me long ago, and it is a lesson that stuck. You can spend hours speculating on a man's motivations, trying to pinpoint what clue you missed, what missteps you made, when the relationship turned, or why he didn't like you as much as you thought he did. And you could sit around like a fool letting someone else hold court in your mind when you were hardly a blip on his radar. Or you can just let it go and look at the person in the rearview mirror and keep driving. To be honest, my mother never had to have this talk with me. I was too private to share my youthful heartbreak publicly. But I remember once as a teenager watching my mother nurse Aunt Martie after a particularly brutal breakup. [...] My mother, finally, at her wits' end, grabbed Aunt Martie by the shoulders, shook her violently, and said, "The sexual revolution didn't happen so you could sit by the phone sobbing like some stupid little girl. Enough. Fucking pull yourself together. He's just one guy." Maybe that was the part that always stuck. I never wanted my mother to look at me with such horrified disrespect.

To lovers out there …. If you tell on your partner after a breakup , separation or when you are angry. If you are the one spilling the beans. Shaming the other person. Exposing secrets and faults. Talking about confidential things they trusted you with. Just know you are not as good as you think you are. You are the one who is evil, abusive, and toxic. For instant, here you are in public abusing their trust. You only pretend to be a good person when you are benefiting. Every person you are not benefiting from, are bad people to you and you must destroy them or shame them. For a person who has conditional love. Know that two wrongs don’t make one right.

Gather your strength, woman. And move on.

In life,making wrong choices gives us experiences, making the right choices gives us confidence. Out of the choices, we either get crowns or thorns. People will get motivation from the crowns. The greatest life ministry comes from the thorns. People will find their healing in your wounds.

Siz acıyı başınıza kendiniz çektiniz, Şimdi kendi başınıza çekiyorsunuz. Hepsi gelişmeniz için…

Onun bizi sevmeyi bırakmış olması, değersiz olduğumuz anlamına gelmiyor.

Siz yaşamın sunduklarına direndikçe ve almanız gereken dersleri almadıkça o da inatla size istediklerinizin tam tersini verir. Bu bataktan çıkmanın tek yolu, hatalarımızdan öğrenmek ve bir sonraki seferde başka bir şey denemektir.

İlginçtir, kimin öğrenci, kimin öğretmen olduğunu hiçbir zaman bilemeyeceksiniz. Bazen öğrenecek, bazen öğreteceksiniz.

Mutlu ol; ama sakın bir başkasının daha canını yakmaya kalkma. Hatanı fark et; ömrünün kalanında telafi etmeden asla durma. Başka bir dünyada tekrar buluşuncaya dek, uğurlar olsun sana.

Nereye gideceğini bilmesen de yola çıktığında yol sana görünür. Her şeyini geride bırakıp, hiç olup, tekrar kendini bulan, Hayatını yeni baştan kuran tüm insanların hikayesi hep böyledir. Onlar, gerçek cesurlardır. Sen de onlardan birisin. Haydi, sen de çık yola.

Affetmeden geçen ömür, frenlerini sıkarak bisiklet sürmeye benzer. İlerleyişi engeller. Hızı, hazzı limitler. Ruhu ve bedeni yorar.

Sen hiç kimsenin canı istediği zaman geleceği, canı istediği zaman gideceği kişi değilsin. İkinci plana atılacak, önemsenmeyecek biri değilsin. Birilerinin keyifleri yerindeyken unutacağı, yalnız kaldığında arayacağı insan değilsin. Sözde sevgilerin zekat verir gibi bahşedileceği bir dilenci değilsin. Sen eşsizsin. Teksin. Birsin. Biriciksin. Bir benzerin daha yok bu hayatta. Yalnızca bu yüzden bile çok kıymetlisin. Bunu sakın unutma.

Hiçbir şeye geç kalmayacaksın ama geç kalma hissini, Sana geç kalanlara yaşatacaksın. Bir kez de sen onlara sırtını erken dönecek, Sevgini yedekte tutma hakkından mahrum bırakacaksın.

Atacağın adımların nereye çıkaracağını bilmesen de ilerlemekten korkmayacaksın. Kendi yoluna koyulup, yolu sana çıkmayanların yanı başından ayrılacaksın.

Affetmek bir iyilik olarak kabul edilse bile, yalnızca insanın kendisine yaptığı bir iyiliktir. Hırslara yenik düşmemek, hayatı kazanmaktır.

Siz bazı şeyleri ne kadar istemeseniz de hayat, sizin için iyi ve kötü olanı sizden daha iyi bilir. Siz gönderilen işaretleri okuyamadığınızda sizin adınıza aksiyon alır.

İlişkilerde gelişim gösterdiğinizin bir işareti, eski bir sevgilinize rastladığınızda, onunla bugün tanışmış olsaydınız birlikte olmak istemeyeceğinizin farkına varmaktır.

Doğru sevgi, gideni özgür bırakmayı ve zamanı geldiğinde yokuş aşağı inmeyi gerektirir. Belki şu an tam da bulunmanız gereken yere, tek başınıza inmeyi… Kanyonda yürüyen yaralı bir adam gibi, gecenin bir vakti, sessizce, dikkatlice, Görmese bile, çevrede yeni zirveler ve güzellikler olduğunun bilincinde… Lakin, hayat tepeler ve vadilerle doludur. Ömür boyu bir inilir, iki çıkılır. Tepeden bakarken ufuk her zaman görünür ama Bazen de yıldızların rehberliğinde karanlıkta yürünür. Aradığını vadilerde bulamazsan üzülme, Önündeki yamaçta bekleyen, gün doğumudur.

Tüm tecrübeleri cebimize koyduk biz. Baskı gördük, şekil aldık; tokat yedik, büyüdük. Sonunda bugün olduğumuz bu güzel insan haline geldik.

Yalnızlıkta kavrulduğumuz anları da kucaklamak gerekir, Aşka boğulduğumuz, sevgiye doyduğumuz zamanlar gibi. Bitişlere de sarılmak gerekir, başlangıçları sevdiğimiz gibi…

Öğrendik ki, Kaybetmek kazanmaya, inmek de çıkmaya dahildir. Ve kaybetmeyi öğrenmeyen, kazanmayı bilemez.

Her insan gibi biz de eşsiz bir varlığız ve kıymetimizi bilecek doğru insan oralarda bir yerlerde.

İşin garibi, kendimizi başkalarına o kadar emanet etmişiz ki, sürekli oradan oraya savrulmuşuz. Şimdi hangi yolun hayırlıya varacağını bilemediğimiz gibi, kim olduğumuzu bile unutmuşuz.

Hiç beklemediğimiz anlarda, tahmin etmediğimiz kişilerde kapımızı çalar aşk.

Bunlar biz yetersiz olduğumuzdan başımıza gelmedi. Belki o, belki de biz hazır değildik.

İşte ben de, her seferinde yeni bir sınavla karşılaşsam da tüm emanet edişlerimde kalbimi bir başkasının merhametine, Yine de vazgeçmedim hiçbir zaman aşka olan sevgimden, umudumdan, hayallerimden…

Yapacak bir şey yokmuş, ne diyelim. Başa geldin, çekildin.

Parlayıp kaybolan aşkın, dünler gibi geride kalmaya mahkum. Önümüzde yeni yollar, yarınlar umuttan mahrum.

Neden gidiyorsun?” diye sor ama “Nereye gidiyorsun?” diye sorma. İlki belki seninle ilgili olabilir fakat İkincisi yalnızca gideni ilgilendirir.

Affetmek zor; fakat şart olandır. Bunu sadece erdemli insanlar başarabilir. Yalnızca affeden insan kurtulabilir, kendini geride tutan zincirlerden. Ancak affeden insan atabilir, öfkeyi, hüznü, hayal kırıklığını üzerinden.

Kimileri gelmek istedi, kabul ettik; Kimileri gitmek istedi, uğurladık. Biz yeri geldiğinde kalabalık da olduk, Yolumuzu tek başımıza yürümeyi de bildik. Yalnızlık acısına öyle alıştık ki, İçimiz kan ağlarken dışımıza gülücükler saçtık.

Ayçiçekleri nasiplerini görmek için her an yön değiştirirler. Leylekler nasiplerine varmak için binlerce kilometre yol kat ederler. Penguenler nasiplerini yüz binlerin arasında bile tanırlar. Ağaçlar nasiplerine dokunmak için kök ve yapraklarını yayarlar. Yıldızlar ise nasiplerinin kıymetini anlamak için her an uzaklaşırlar.

People in your life leave you a rhyme, On leaving they leave a new footprint in the Sands of Time.

Emotional pain has an upside - it can motivate you to examine certain aspects of your life in a way that doesn't happen when you are comfortable.

The quickest way to get over a breakup is to focus on yourself by getting more money, more money, and more money in your pocket.

Tohum hâlâ bizdeyse eğer, en umulmadık yerde bile çiçek açarız biz. Her gün üzeri çiğnenen, hor görülmüş kaldırımların arasından bile filizlenir, sunarız güzelliğimizi tüm dünyaya, her nasılsa.

İnsan bir sorunla karşılaştığında önce başka şeyleri ya da kimseleri suçlamaya ve onları değiştirmeye meyilli bir varlıktır.

Friends The divine bliss of almighty is friend the relation boundless of any trend friends help us to solve all worries they wrap up our difficulties as furries. Friend is a best companion, ofcourse a guide they have no qualms to make us pride friends are gems hard to find nurturing this relation is the greatest task assigned. Friends stand together in joy and sorrows they take away all our pain and harrows till infinity live for friend, for him die limit this knot bonding beyond the sky. Distances cannot keep friends apart they reside in the fugal of heart never breakup, treat them with love and care remember enmities are everywhere friends are rare Though not a blood relation nor by birth It is the most pious bonding on the earth for my dearest friends, God I do thee pray always keep them happy, motivated and gay. ~Jugesh Singh Thakur Author ," The Craved Emotions" From:- Pogal Paristan

Loving yourself completely after a breakup matters the most. You need to invest your time in creating something new. From (The Awakening)

I’ve travelled miles to be here; to come and reach out to you. But right now, I’ll put my back towards this place which hems your shame. And I’ll send my feet towards the place where I think of you day in and day out. Where my thoughts dwell in sorrow, like a turnip growing within thorns. And I'll continue to do so until you find a word to say to me.

One of the most effective ways to find the motivation to cultivate self-love is to recognize and accept the fact that we are, and always will be, inescapably alone. We are born alone, die alone, and though the boundaries which separate us from others can be bridged, they can never be transcended. “We are each of us, in the last analysis, islands of consciousness—and that is the root of our aloneness.”, observed James Hollis. Relationships come, and either through breakup, divorce, or death, they end, but what always remains is our individual journey – the magnum opus of our life.

You left me yet you did not leave I broke down yet I did not break.

A man needs desire, or a woman’s sensuality, as a motivation to change or improve. Most women insist on using logic, reasoning, and force—masculine energy. That doesn’t work very well.