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When you were a kid, didn’t you dream about going off to slay dragons? Didn’t you dream about being some kind of hero?
And as you grew up and realized that you probably wouldn’t be slaying any dragons, real or metaphorical, didn’t you get tired of just watching others do physical things? Didn’t you get tired of only being involved in surrogate achievement, you know, living vicariously through the basketball players, the soccer players, the Italian bocce ball players, or whoever it is you admire?
You gotta’ understand, people like me never stop lifting weights. The part of us that wanted to slay the dragon? It didn’t die. It won’t.
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T.C. Luoma (The Testosterone Principles 2: Manhood and Other Stuff)