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You can't change anything unless you can discard part of yourself too. To surpass monsters, you must be willing to abandon your humanity
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Hajime Isayama
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A good person? Well… I don’t really like that term. Because to me, it just seems to mean someone who’s good for you. And I don’t think there’s any one person who’s good for everyone." --Armin Arlert
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Hajime Isayama
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Someone who cannot abandon everything cannot achieve anything.
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Hajime Isayama
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There's something I firmly believe in: the people who have the ability to change something in this world. All, without exception, have guts to abandon things important to them if they have to. They are those who even abandon their humanity if they're pressed hard to outdo monsters. People who can't throw away something important can never hope to change anything!
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Hajime Isayama (Attack on Titan, Vol. 6)
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I don't like the terms "good person" or "bad person" because it is impossible to be entirely good to everyone. To some, you are a good person, while to others, you are a bad person.
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armin arlert
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To endure becoming a monster you have to discard your humanity.
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armin arlert
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Life is not measured by time. It is measured by moments.
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Armin Houman
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A person who cannot give up anything, can change nothing.
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Armin Arlet
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A person who cannot sacrifice everything, cannot change anything
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armin arlert
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To defeat a monster, you must be willing to throw aside your humanity and all that makes you human
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armin arlert
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People who can't throw something important away can never hope to change anything.
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armin arlert
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Someone who cannot abandon everything cannot achieve anything.
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armin arlert
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That’s why we’re just friends,” Armin said, so softly I barely heard. “She can’t fall in love, and I can’t fall out.
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Leah Raeder (Black Iris)
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Not knowing the answer to a question is not a valid excuse for making up a fairytale to explain it.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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Values are the definition of our actions in life
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Armin Houman
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There is a limit to how much you can embrace a moment. But there is no limit to how much you can appreciate it.
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Armin Houman
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More and more," said Heron, reaching a distance about ten feet away from him, and slowly circling to the side. "Kira, sweetie, I'm going to murder your dad.
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Dan Wells (Ruins (Partials Sequence, #3))
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There should be no separation between spontaneous work with an emotional tone and work directed by the intellect. Both are supplementary to each other and must be regarded as intimately connected. Discipline and freedom are thus to be seen as elements of equal weight, each partaking of the other.
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Armin Hofmann
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To raise above monsters, we have to abandon our humanity. When we fight, we become fire with fire.
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Armin alert
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There is no evidence to suggest that God helps people. There is, however, ample evidence that people can help themselves and each other.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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You can frame a moment. But you can´t frame life.
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Armin Houman
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Life without a Soul is like a universe without the stars
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Armin Houman
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Was that a joke right there, Armin? Man, you’re lame! That was great!
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Hajime Isayama (Attack on Titan #8)
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Reality is that which, when you stop believing in it, doesn't go away.” This touches on the heart of the argumentum ad populum fallacy. Physical reality does not require belief to sustain it, and belief will not modify the rules of the universe.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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Ive allways wondered what the 4 letters in the word LIFE stands for. I know understand that it stands for: Little Interesting Facts Everyday.
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Armin Houman
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I can´t change my past, or predict my future. But i can shape my present.
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Armin Houman
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Born on the ground. Live in the air!
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Armin Houman
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the truth is true even if no one believes it, and untrue claims are still untrue even if everyone believes them.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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Movement is knowledge. Art is perception
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Armin Houman
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By moving fearlessly you can gain a limitless mind
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Armin Houman
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you cannot wait for the change. You have to be the change".
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Armin Houman
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The religions that we have today are a small fraction of all religions that have existed throughout human history. The ones that we are left with have survived because they have more effectively adapted to attract and hold the allegiance of many people.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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I looked at her, then back at him. “If you really loved me, you’d do it.”
Jealousy is the rust that eats away at morality’s hard steel. It’s cancerous, and once it starts it spreads, and spreads. At first it lets small concessions through. He watched me drink, do drugs. He looked the other way when we stole things. He was in love. He never realized all these lapses were weakening him, that a moment would come when I’d push harder than before and the entire structure would crumble into red powder.
Armin gave me the gun. Took the bat. Closed his eyes and inhaled. Opened them and swung and exhaled.
He’d gone for the head.
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Leah Raeder (Black Iris)
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Listening to her banter with Armin was like standing between two ballet dancers in a gunfight. They circled each other elegantly, feinting, pirouetting, setting up the fatal shot, and Blythe was usually the one to fire it point-blank to Armin’s chest. He accepted his wounds with a gentleman’s grace, and the dance resumed.
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Leah Raeder (Black Iris)
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I always wondered what the 4 letters in LIFE stands for. I now understand that they stand for: Little Interesting Facts Everyday.
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Armin Houman
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Be your own Queen of movement
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Armin Houman
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The idea that a large group of people believing in something automatically makes it true is a logical fallacy called argumentum ad populum.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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To understand the universe around us, we must understand the universe within us.
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Armin Houman
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Art is not about achievement, but rather a new perspective to look from.
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Armin Houman
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Part of the beauty and wonder of being alive is the opportunity to make your own choices and create your own meaning.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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Take the discipline from Martial Arts, mix it with the air awareness of a gymnast, and the attitude of a breaker. Thats Tricking!
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Armin Houman
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Close analysis of ‘miracles’ have never led to any proof for a supernatural explanation, and, in fact, many have proven to be cheap magic tricks, hallucinations or primitive misunderstandings of natural phenomena.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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An all-loving god would surely not damn his children to an eternity of torture simply for being born into a culture that believes in the wrong deity, follows the wrong holy book or attends the wrong type of church services.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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In order to indoctrinate their followers and secure obedience, religions frequently tear people down, creating an emptiness that must then be filled with Jesus, Allah or any other deity. People are told that they are inherently bad or sinful and that the only way to become good is by giving over control of their lives to faith. As there is no evidence that any of that is true, religion, in effect, is creating an imaginary problem simply so that it can sell an imaginary solution.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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Similarly, while prayer is frequently a person's first response to a disaster, it's often the least helpful. Instead of praying for disaster victims, it would be more helpful to donate blood, send donations or volunteer. These are actions that can actually have a positive effect on someone.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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Vermutlich nimmt es kein Ende", sagte Blank dann, "vermutlich nimmt es kein Ende, solange Sie leben."
Ich schaute hoch, auf Blanks faltigen Hals, sein glattrasiertes Kinn, das er nie rasieren musste. "Aber es wird leiser", sagte er. "Ich verspreche Ihnen, dass es leiser wird. Irgendwann ist es ungefähr so leise wie ein Lied, das ein Nachbar in der Wohnung nebenan hört."
Ich löste mich aus Blanks Umarmung und schnäuzte mich in Armins Strumpf. "Hört er es oft?"
Blank lächelte. "Ja. Sehr oft. Dummerweise ist es sein Lieblingslied. Das schönste Lied, findet er, das jemals geschrieben wurde."
"Der Idiot", sagte ich. "Hört er es in Zimmerlautstärke?" Blank nickte. "In Zimmerlautstärke. Meistens jedenfalls.
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Mariana Leky
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Belief in God can come with a high price for some. Some of the most powerful nations in the world are making major political decisions based on a belief in God. Wars are fought using religion, and the rights of some individuals and groups are oppressed in the name of God. The lives of billions of people around the world are affected by religious beliefs.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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You have to know the value of nothing before the value of something
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Armin Houman
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Live to Trick. Trick to live.
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Armin Houman
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Tricking is a evolution of innovative movement & self Expression.
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Armin Houman
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Be your own King of movement
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Armin Houman
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It simply doesn't make sense to make an unfounded claim with no evidence to back it and demand that the other person to either agree with you or disprove your unfounded statement.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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religious beliefs have been so widespread because they tap into the psychological desires of many people, not because there is any external proof of their veracity.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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An unknown cause is not the same as divine intervention.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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If morality truly stemmed from an all-powerful deity, it would not change over time.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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With no evidence for an afterlife, we should recognize the true value of our current lives as our one and only shot at happiness. Wasting it on unfounded claims and ancient myths is an absolute tragedy.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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No satisfaction based upon self-deception is solid, and, however unpleasant the truth may be, it is better to face it once for all, to get used to it, and to proceed to build your life in accordance with it.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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According to some believers, God answers prayers in one of three ways: “Yes,” “No,” and “Wait.” This sounds reasonable and even wise before you realize that this explanation is inherently meaningless. In fact, those three answers cover every possible outcome of any event. Either it will happen now, it will happen later or it won't happen at all. This is true whether you pray to a deity or to a bar of soap; it does nothing to prove the existence of a deity.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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She had long since found peace. And Frederick, from her passionately loved bridegroom, from her worshipped young husband, had become second only to God on her list of duties and forbearances. There he hung, the second in importance, a bloodless thing bled white by her prayers. For years she had been able to be happy only by forgetting happiness. She wanted to stay like that. She wanted to shut out everything that would remind her of beautiful things, that might set her off again longing, desiring...
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Elizabeth von Arnim
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There is no single outside force imposing meaning on the events of your life. There is no evidence whatsoever that people’s life events conform to some sort of divine plan or predestination. Life is, objectively, meaningless; given the size and scope of the universe and our tiny role within it, it’s absurd to think that we might have any sort of cosmically vital role.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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There are many examples that show that events with very small probability are not miraculous. In fact, they're commonplace. Mathematician J.E. Littlewood suggested that each one of us should expect one-in-a-million events to happen to us about once every month. Failing to recognize this is due to us ignoring the astronomically high number of events that occur which we find insignificant. Events that we do find significant, such as winning a lottery or dreaming about your mother calling you right before waking up to her call are just a tiny fraction of many other insignificant events with the same or even lower probability of occurring, such as the chance that you had a dream of your mother calling you and also running out of milk five days after at 7:21 am.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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You see… its to save the island… to save Eldia. But… its more than that… the reality of life beyond the walls… was nothing like the world i’d dreamed about… it was nothing like the world i’d seen… in armins book… when I learned that humanity had survived beyond the walls… I was so… so disappointed… so... I made a wish. I wished for it all to be wiped away... I'm sorry... I'm so sorry... I'm... sorry...
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Hajime Isayama
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Sixty-four percent say that being a father makes them a better employee, and, according to the Boston College Center for Work and Family, more dads say that having a flexible schedule that would allow them to spend more time with their family is of greater importance than career advancement or high income. In fact, according to monster.com, 82 percent of working dads searching for a job view companies more positively if they offer a flextime benefit.
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Armin A. Brott (The Expectant Father: The Ultimate Guide for Dads-to-Be (Fourth Edition) (The New Father))
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FWAs boost productivity. Stanford University economist Nicholas Bloom found that employees who telecommute are 13.5 percent more productive than employees who go into the office.
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Armin A. Brott (The Expectant Father: The Ultimate Guide for Dads-to-Be (Fourth Edition) (The New Father))
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FWAs increase retention/reduce turnover. The telecommuters in Bloom’s study quit their jobs at about half the rate of their peers in the office.
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Armin A. Brott (The Expectant Father: The Ultimate Guide for Dads-to-Be (Fourth Edition) (The New Father))
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FWAs improve recruitment. Companies find that offering FWAs helps attract top talent. • FWAs improve employee morale and loyalty. When employees feel that their employer respects their need for flexibility, they’re happier, don’t take sick days when they’re not sick, and are more committed to their employer’s success.
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Armin A. Brott (The Expectant Father: The Ultimate Guide for Dads-to-Be (Fourth Edition) (The New Father))
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Loyal, happy employees are engaged employees—and engaged employees are profitable employees
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Armin A. Brott (The Expectant Father: The Ultimate Guide for Dads-to-Be (Fourth Edition) (The New Father))
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According to the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM), nearly 60 percent of employers offer some kind of flexible work arrangements—and nearly half of those companies make those arrangements available to a majority of their employees.
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Armin A. Brott (The Expectant Father: The Ultimate Guide for Dads-to-Be (Fourth Edition) (The New Father))
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ROWE (Results-Only Work Environment). Basically you work whenever, wherever, and however you want—as long as you get the job done. This option can only work if your employer is not only incredibly flexible but also incredibly clear on what you’re supposed to accomplish. At the same time, you have to be extremely well organized and self-directed.
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Armin A. Brott (The Expectant Father: The Ultimate Guide for Dads-to-Be (Fourth Edition) (The New Father))
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You may really be looking forward to spending some time with your baby while your partner is recuperating. But you may be worried that you won’t know how to do all the things that she usually does for the family. (If this last part is true, you’d better learn how to do the laundry and run the dishwasher in a hurry.)
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Armin A. Brott (The Expectant Father: The Ultimate Guide for Dads-to-Be)
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When my wife got pregnant with our first child, I was the happiest I’d ever been. That pregnancy, labor, and the baby’s birth was a time of incredible closeness, tenderness, and passion. Long before we’d married, my wife and I had made a commitment to participate equally in raising our children. And it seemed only natural that the process of shared parenting should begin during pregnancy.
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Armin A. Brott (The Expectant Father: Facts, Tips, and Advice for Dads-to-Be (New Father Series))
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Grandpa, I haven't remembered all your stories, but I've written a few of my own adn as soon as the rain stops I'll read them to you. I got the idea from Nena Fatima, I got Grandpa Rafik's voice, I got the veins on your son's upper arms, he's painting coconuts now, I got my mother's melencholy. But still I don't have all the things i'd need to tell my story as one of us: I don't have the courage of the river Drina, or the voice of the hawk, or the rock hard backbone of our mountains, or Walrus's infalibility, or the enthusiasum of the man who misses, honorably. And I don't have Armin the stationmaster, Cika Hasan and Cika Sead in their eternal argument, Kiko's leg, Edin who forgets he's imitating a wolf and takes fright at the sound of his own voice, Cauliflower, the names of trees, a stomache for schnapps, the goals scored in the school yard. But most of all I miss the truth, the truth in which we are no longer listeners or storytellers, but we give and forgive.
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Saša Stanišić (How the Soldier Repairs the Gramophone)
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Besides, there are other concerns. Suppose this—What did you call him?” “Falconer.” “Suppose this Falconer sells the play to a printer, who publishes it and has it registered. Then the Chamberlain’s Men lose all legal right to perform it ourselves.” “Oh. I didn’t ken.” “We generally delay publication as long as possible. Some companies care little for registrations or rights, and to print the play is the same as saying ‘Here it is, and welcome to it.’ Yet if we don’t publish it ourselves, someone will sell a pirated version. It’s a tricky and an unfair business.” “Aye, I see that now.” I felt more ashamed than ever of the part I’d played in the whole affair. I wanted to believe that we still might retrieve the play book, but knowing Falconer, I did not hold out much hope. Even if we did catch up with him, he was not likely to just apologize and hand it over. By the time we reached St. Paul’s and turned on to Aldersgate Street, I was sweating and trembling as if in the grip of the ague. But with the gate in sight, I managed to push myself yet a little farther. A ragged, legless beggar sat by the gate. Mr. Armin crouched and dropped a
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Gary L. Blackwood (The Shakespeare Stealer (Shakespeare Stealer, #1))
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Some fascinating new research has found that oral sex may actually make the pregnancy safer. Work with me here. Gustaaf Dekker, a professor at the University of Adelaide, did a study comparing forty-one women who had preeclampsia (a condition marked by dangerously high blood pressure) and forty-four who didn’t. He found that 82 percent of the women without preeclampsia gave their partner regular blow jobs, but only about 40 percent of the women who had the condition did. According to Dekker, “the protective effect of oral sex was strongest if the woman actually swallowed the semen rather than coughing it onto the pillow.” So now, when he’s counseling couples who have had trouble in the past carrying a pregnancy to term, he tells them, “Semen exposure is good, and you could think of oral sex.
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Armin A. Brott (The Expectant Father: Facts, Tips, and Advice for Dads-to-Be (New Father Series))
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If Complexity Requires a Creator, Who Created God?
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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the righteousness earned by Christ and received by the sinner through faith (3:21–5:21). Having received Christ’s righteousness through faith, the justified sinner is now moved to live a life of righteousness that conforms in ever greater degree to God’s will (6:1–8:39). After
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Armin J. Panning (Romans (The People's Bible))
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Not knowing the answer to a question is not a valid excuse for making up a fairytale to explain it. Sources:
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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Until fairly recently, there has been precious little research on expectant fathers’ emotional and psychological experiences during pregnancy. The very title of one of the first articles to appear on the subject should give you some idea of the medical and psychiatric communities’ attitude toward the impact of pregnancy on men. Written by William H. Wainwright, M.D., and published in the July 1966 issue of the American Journal of Psychiatry, it was called “Fatherhood as a Precipitant of Mental Illness.” (Another wonderful title that came out at about the same time was: “Psychoses in Males in Relation to Their Wives’ Pregnancy and Childbirth.”)
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Armin A. Brott (The Expectant Father: The Ultimate Guide for Dads-to-Be (The New Father Book 1))
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The American Dietetic Association recommends that parents refrain from giving their babies juice until they’re at least six months old, and then restrict juice intake until age two.
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Armin A. Brott (The New Father: A Dad's Guide to the First Year (New Father Series Book 2))
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keep the baby’s head higher than her butt, always support the head, and gentle patting or rubbing is
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Armin A. Brott (The New Father: A Dad's Guide to the First Year (New Father Series Book 2))
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Excessive sleep. It can be a little hard to determine this in the early days, but generally speaking, your baby should wake up every 2–3 hours and be ravenous.
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Armin A. Brott (The New Father: A Dad's Guide to the First Year (New Father Series Book 2))
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As a general guideline, though, you’ll want to give your baby 2–2.5 ounces of formula per pound of body-weight every day. Then divide that into 6–8 feedings. Remember,
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Armin A. Brott (The New Father: A Dad's Guide to the First Year (New Father Series Book 2))
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in them. Simply stated, the truth is true even if no one believes it, and untrue claims are still untrue even if everyone believes them. Beliefs
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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The New Father: A Dad’s Guide to the First Year and Fathering Your Toddler: A Dad’s Guide to the Second and Third Years.
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Armin A. Brott (The Expectant Father: The Ultimate Guide for Dads-to-Be (The New Father Book 1))
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morning sickness typically starts four to six weeks after conception and disappears by fourteen to fifteen weeks.
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Armin A. Brott (The Expectant Father: The Ultimate Guide for Dads-to-Be (The New Father Book 1))
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As science historian Michael Shermer notes, “Smart people believe weird things because they are better at rationalizing their beliefs that they hold for non-smart reasons.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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One study had four doctors interpret fifty different tracings (the printouts generated by the monitor). The four concurred only 22 percent of the time.
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Armin A. Brott (The Expectant Father: The Ultimate Guide for Dads-to-Be (The New Father Book 1))
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The ancient rabbis of the Talmud described it pretty well. The first stage of life, they said, “commences in the first year of human existence, when the infant lies like a king on a soft couch, with numerous attendants about him, all ready to serve him, and eager to testify their love and attachment by kisses and embraces.
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Armin A. Brott (The New Father: A Dad's Guide to the First Year (New Father Series Book 2))
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No one commits mass murder in the name of theism or atheism alone. Additional dogmatic principles are needed to justify such grisly outcomes. In the case of theism, religions like Christianity and Islam provide such dogma, creating convenient excuses. Secular totalitarian regimes and religion share this dogmatic element: a belief that a set of ideas are true because an authority figure says so and that questioning those ideas can lead to serious or even deadly consequences. Therefore,
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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The produce section of your local grocery store is a great place for experimenting. Have her feel the difference between a kiwi or a peach and a coconut or a pineapple. Let
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Armin A. Brott (The New Father: A Dad's Guide to the First Year (New Father Series Book 2))
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religion, in effect, is creating an imaginary problem simply so that it can sell an imaginary solution.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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REACHING GAMES To encourage your baby to reach and to expand her horizons, try holding attractive toys just out of her reach: above her head, in front of her, to the sides. See how close you have to get the toy before she makes her move. Remember, the object here is not to tease or torture the baby, it’s to have fun. You can add another layer of complexity by putting the out-of-reach object on a blanket or towel. Then slowly pull the blanket and show her how it gets closer. Will she try that herself? TOUCHING GAMES Try this: let your baby play with a small toy without letting her see it (you could do this in the dark or with her hands in a paper bag). Then put that toy together with several other toys she’s never played with. Many babies this age will pick up the familiar toy. Although this may sound fairly easy, it isn’t. You’re asking your baby to use two senses—touch and vision—at the same time, and to recognize by sight something she’s touched but not seen. If your baby isn’t ready for this one, don’t worry. Just try it again in a few weeks. It’s a concept that can take a while to develop. IF … THEN … GAMES There are thousands of things you can do to reinforce cause-and-effect thinking. Rattles, banging games, rolling a ball back and forth, and splashing in the pool are excellent. So is blowing up your cheeks and having the baby “pop” them with her hands. Baby gyms—especially the kind that make a lot of noise when smacked—are also good, but be sure to pack them up the moment your baby starts trying to use the gym to pull herself up; they’re meant to be used while sitting or lying down and aren’t sturdy enough to support much weight. OBJECT PERMANENCE GAMES When your baby is about six or seven months old, the all-important idea that objects can exist even when they’re out of sight finally starts sinking in. • Object permanence develops in stages. If you’re interested in seeing how, try this: Show your baby a toy. Then, while she’s watching, “hide” it under a pillow. If you ask her where the toy is, she’ll probably push the pillow out of the way and “find” it. But if you quickly move the toy to another hiding place when she’s not looking, she’ll continue to look for it in the first hiding place. • Peek-a-boo and other games that involve hiding and finding things are great for developing object permanence. Peek-a-boo in particular teaches your baby an excellent lesson: when you go away, you always come back. This doesn’t sound like much, but making this connection now lets her know she can count on you to be there when she needs you and will help her better cope with separation anxiety (see page 222).
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Armin A. Brott (The New Father: A Dad's Guide to the First Year (New Father Series Book 2))
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TRACKING GAMES Hold an object in front of the baby. When you’re sure she’s seen it, let it drop out of your hand. At five or six months, most babies won’t follow the object down. But starting at about seven months, they’ll begin to anticipate where things are going to land. When your baby has more or less mastered this skill, add an additional complication: drop a few objects and let her track them down. Then hold a helium balloon in front of her and let it go. She’ll look down and be rather stunned that the balloon never lands. She’ll also give you a priceless look of betrayal—as though you cheated by defying the laws of physics. Let her hold the string of the balloon and experiment. Another great game involves your baby’s newly developed abilities to track moving objects even when they’re out of sight part of the time. Put your baby in a high chair and sit down at a table facing her. Slowly move a toy horizontally in front of her a few times. Then put a cereal box between you and the baby and move the ball along the same trajectory but have it go behind the box for a second or two. Most six-month-olds will look ahead to the other side of the box, anticipating where the ball will emerge. If your baby’s still having fun, try it again, but this time, instead of keeping the ball on the same path, make a 90-degree turn and bring the ball out from the top of the box. You can do the same kind of thing during games of peek-a-boo. Step behind a door so the baby can’t see you. Then open the door a little and poke your head out. Do that in the same place a few times and then higher or lower than where she was expecting to see you. Most babies find this endlessly amusing. Again, if your baby doesn’t respond to some, or any, of these activities, don’t worry. Babies develop at very different rates, and what’s “normal” for your baby may be advanced—or delayed—for your neighbor’s. And keep in mind that you don’t need to spend a lot of money on fancy toys. When my oldest daughter was about this age, one of her favorite toys was a plastic dish-scrubbing pad. And I remember taking her to FAO Schwartz in New York—zillions of fantastic toys everywhere—and thinking that she was going to want to play with everything. But all she wanted to do was play with the price tags. (She’s a teenager now, and I look back at that experience as a warning—she still spends an awful lot of time looking at price tags …) Give the Kid a Break Don’t feel that you have to entertain your baby all the time. Sure it’s fun, but letting her have some time to play by herself is almost as important to her development as playing with her yourself. And don’t worry; letting her play alone—as long as you’re close enough to hear what she’s doing and to respond quickly if she needs you—doesn’t mean you’re being neglectful. Quite the opposite, in fact. By giving her the opportunity to make up her own games or to practice on her own the things she does with you, you’re helping her learn that she’s capable of satisfying at least some of her needs by herself. You’re also helping her build her sense of self-confidence by allowing her to decide for herself what she’ll play with and for how long.
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Armin A. Brott (The New Father: A Dad's Guide to the First Year (New Father Series Book 2))
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Mis kasu on ainest, mille peamine lisaväärtus on täielik segadus pluss kahetunnine peavalu.
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Armin Kõomägi (Amatöör)
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A study of heart patients in 6 separate hospitals sought to determine whether prayers from strangers would have any effect on a person's recovery (1). After carefully following the recovery of 1,800 heart surgery patients for 30 days after the surgery, researchers found absolutely no link between prayer and recovery. However, there was a significant difference between those who were aware of the fact that they were being prayed for and those who did not know. Those who knew ended up suffering more complications, possibly due to the additional stress it caused. Being told that a high number of people are praying for your recovery might increase how severe you would perceive your illness to be and thus negatively affect your recovery. To date, there have been no reputable scientific studies showing any clear link between prayer and healing.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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American children spend an average of about four hours watching television every day, and for the most part, the fathers they see are incompetent, absent, uncaring, and unnecessary.
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Armin A. Brott (Fathering Your School-Age Child: A Dad's Guide to the Wonder Years: 3 to 9 (New Father Series))
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This can create an environment of crippling insecurity and learned helplessness. These religious messages teach people – especially young people – that they are not in control of their own lives and do not have the power to shape their own destinies. The psychological consequences of this can become devastating. Psychologist Dr. Marlene Winell refers to such problems as Religious Trauma Syndrome, a cluster of symptoms including anxiety, depression and social functioning troubles caused or exacerbated by religious indoctrination (2).
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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As a case study of perceived miracles, let’s examine the belief in thunder gods within certain cultures. Throughout history, there have been many thunder gods, spread out across multiple continents and civilizations (1). In most cases, the god created thunderstorms directly through his actions, whether this meant Zeus throwing lightning bolts or the beating of a thunderbird's wings. Today, when the scientific causes of thunder are well-known, such myths seem absurd and antiquated. At the time, though, believers likely felt that thunder was a miraculous event requiring such divine explanation.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)
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Are things moral simply because God says so? Or does God give certain orders because they are inherently moral? This is the question at the core of Plato's Euthyphro dilemma, a problem that lies at the heart of religious debates about the divinity of moral authority (4). If morality exists separate from God's will, there is no reason to rely on God for moral behavior; one could have moral standards independently without divine feedback. On the other hand, if God creates morality simply by saying whether something is right or wrong, then that’s not really morality; it’s arbitrariness. Morality would become nothing more than the whimsy of a divine being blindly followed by humans.
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Armin Navabi (Why There Is No God: Simple Responses to 20 Common Arguments for the Existence of God)