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Don't believe everything you think. Thoughts are just that - thoughts.
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You cannot control the results, only your actions.
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Suffering usually relates to wanting things to be different from the way they are.
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Do not speak about anyone who is not physically present.
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When we are aware of our weaknesses or negative tendencies, we open the opportunity to work on them.
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You actions are your only true belongings.
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True patience is grounded in wisdom & compassion.
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Support the type of thinking that leads you to feeling good, peaceful & happy.
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There is no illness that is not exacerbated by stress.
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Patience has all the time it needs.
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Compassion is not complete if it does not include oneself.
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Patience is the direct antithesis of anger.
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A modern definition of equanimity: cool. This refers to one whose mind remains stable & calm in all situations.
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That's why it's called a practice. We have to practice a practice if it is to be of value.
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One doesn't have to be religious to lead a moral life or attain wisdom.
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Inner Peace can be seen as the ultimate benefit of practicing patience.
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We need never be bound by the limitations of our previous or current thinking, nor are we ever locked into being the person we used to be, or think we are.
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One who is patient glows with an inner radiance.
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The more we genuinely care about others the greater our own happiness & inner peace.
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No one looks or feels attractive when angry.
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Loving others is the greatest gift we can give ourselves. Altruism that rewards one's self.
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Understanding the true nature of things, or seeing things as they really are, is the ground of wisdom.
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Thoughts, words, emotions & deeds not coming from love are likely coming from fear.
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The venerable teachers, philosophers & spiritual practitioners throughout history have concluded that the greatest happiness we can experience comes from the development of an open, loving heart.
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The most important step in developing skillful speech is to think before speaking.
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The practice of lovingkindness can uplift us & relieve sorrow & unhappiness.
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Remind yourself that your mental & emotional health are important.
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You honor yourself by acting with dignity and composure.
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So what is a good meditator? A good meditator meditates.
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The experience of pleasant, unpleasant, or neutral is the consequences of perception.
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Technology offers us a unique opportunity, though rarely welcome, to practice patience.
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Honor your relationships by developing listening skills.
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Directing the mind to stay in the present can be a formidable task.
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Our work is not to become a better person, but to become present to the perfection we already are.
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One of the best ways to support the development of patience is to cultivate happiness with yourself.
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Observe & accept what ever arises & know that everything is as it needs to be.
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The art of peaceful living comes down to living compassionately & wisely.
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Our actions speak for us & they speak loudly.
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Patience is both the tool for and the result of, our efforts.
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The virtues of free enterprise can become distorted by greed & delusion.
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To be mindful entails examining the path we are traveling & making choices that alleviate suffering & bring happiness to ourselves & those around us.
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We must accept the reality that the causes of impatience travel a two-way street.
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We all have issues & we have usually come by them honestly.
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We train the mind so that we can enjoy greater peace, happiness, wisdom & equanimity.
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An open beginner's mind is a powerful tool for developing patience.
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Our greatest happiness comes from the experience of love & compassion.
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Peace can be found within, no matter the external circumstances.
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To forgive does not mean to condone.
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When we teach a child patience we offer them the gift of a dignified life.
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Patience is a natural consequence of the cultivation of compassion & love, for ourselves and all beings.
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Any methodology for developing patience requires a multi-tiered approach.
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Accepting the reality of change gives rise to equanimity.
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To advance spiritually requires a method of practice & determination to carry it out.
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Being a senior doesn't automatically make one wise but the wise & foolish alike have things to teach us.
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The essence of the Dharma (the teachings of the Buddha) is about identifying the cause of our suffering & alleviating it.
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While meditating we are simply seeing what the mind has been doing all along.
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Patience is supported & nurtured by a quality of forgiveness.
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Patience requires a slowing down, a spaciousness, a sense of ease.
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We are all in this together. Our happiness inextricably is tied to that of all beings.
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Praise & esteem can feel good, which is fine, but don't look to them for inner peace & lasting happiness.
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The erruption of feelings & emotions that follows a near-death exerience, or any event that causes us to stop & look deeply at the reality of our lives, is ripe with the potential for insight & clarity.
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To forgive does not mean to forget.
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Observing your thoughts, feelings & sensations is the grist of the practice.
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Without the ability to be present we are missing much of what the adventure has to offer.
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People in the midst of losing their patience are certainly experiencing as aspect of dukkha.
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We cannot force the development of mindfulness.
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Patience is born when we create a pause between our experience of a feeling and our response to that feeling.
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We yearn for there to be meaning to our lives, balanced with a sense of inner peace & joy.
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